This girl I like says things with guy she has been seeing for 2 years is "complicated". They broke up then tried to get back together and I think are trying again to repair things. I asked her if she still like him and all she says is that its really "complicated". We have a good time together when we do stuff. Does it sound like she is still into him or maybe me? I'm just not sure what is so "complicated". Any suggestions?
2006-12-21 14:13:48 · 27 answers · asked by Chuck J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think she does like you but she just doesn't know if its okay because she still has feelings for this other guy. And by her saying that the relationship is complicated, she's probably just confused and doesn't really know how to go about the situation. If you really like her, then confront her about it and just ask her whats up with the two of them. If she still doesn't give you an actual answer, then just give her time to sort things out and decide her true feelings for both you and this other guy.
2006-12-21 14:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is still with him but seeing people on the side... She is saying it is complicated so you don't ask questions, like are you still together if not lets date, etc...
2006-12-21 14:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by sooners83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her..it is prooven that conversation is one of the essentials of a relationship..bring her to a nice place where you can intimately talk to each other and wont be disturbed by anyone or anything..a walk in the park during sunset or a night out the shore gazing at the moon and stars..try not to be too much serious..just talk to her casually..tell stories about your previous experience together..laugh at it..cry at it..make her feel how good you are or were, if things have changed, together. Let her know that you still feel the same for her, that is if you still do, just be honest on how you feel about her..then gradually open up to her the things you want to know and discuss..watch your temper of course..make sure that your well prepared to hear whatever she will say..expect the unexpected..as a girl I think I know whats your girlfriend is going through..it is also a hard time for her..she's in the middle of the past and the present..its hard to weigh things out..don't push her..you might just loose her..if she said that she's confuse and ask for some space..give it to her..try to understand her..that is if you really don't want to loose her..give her time to think things out and accept whatever decision she come up with..remember that girls are very much attach to their past compare to men so be prepared..i'm not saying that you're gonna loose her or what .i'm just telling you of the possibilities..but if you know in yourself that you've been good and completely loyal to her..theres nothing to doubt about..for sure she's goona consider that especially your loyalty..remember LOYALTY is one of the most important thing that a girl wants for a guy..so if you've been naughty following some other chicks asses and been giving her some headaches..well..we dont know..you yourself might have pushed her to think things through..
2006-12-21 14:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. You sweet poor thing. Someone has not given you a copy of the dating dictionary. Complicated means... waiting to see if thing may work out between us. slightly "good" news is that she thinks if they don't.. You are next in line.
2006-12-21 14:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is trying to be rude to you, but she does not want to talk about it with you. Don't take it so personal though. She probably does still have a thing for him and may not be compfrtbable sharing personal things like that with other guys. Let her work through this with him,and if you still like her when its done, ask her out sometime.
2006-12-21 14:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she really doesn't know what she wants, but she does want to have her cake and eat it too. You should probably back off, and let her figure it out on her own. Look at it this way- if she truly was that into you, she'd break it off completely with the guy she had been seeing. And that's not fair to you.
2006-12-21 14:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they could be going through a rough time in their relationship, or they are seeing one another then it gets serious and falls apart all over again. If I were you, I would ask her if she is really serious about the guy and see's herself spending the rest of her life with him. If she cannot answer honestly, then she needs to move on and find someone that she will be happy with.
2006-12-21 14:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this, she might like u since u guys have good times together, or maybe she just sees u as a good friend! she just needs someone to talk to, maybe shes trying to get u to talk to her more. don't hassal her when asking her questions about it or she will be annoyed and not want to talk about it. just tell her that ur there for her!
2006-12-21 14:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by animal_lover_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes complicated relationships are just to complicated for the average guy.
2006-12-21 14:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to get a life. if she is with someone else let it be. your not helping the situation you just trying to get in her pants. besides it sounds like she's not into you anyway. go down to your local strip club the girls down there will treat you much better, at least till you run out of money.
2006-12-21 14:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by it's all french to me ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋