as i said before in "help confused" i wear lingerie and i bought a book of positions and fun things he wasnt interested in. i have asked him what he wants,. how i could come on to him but i only got vague answers.the sad fact is at 21 i struggle, apart from lingerie and doing text sex when were apart i dont know how to come on to him and he hasnt been interested in coming onto me recently. any tips would be much appreciated although i am aware i need confidence and i am working on it.
2006-12-21 14:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stand close and slip a hand inside his shirt or pants.
Dress provocatively and say "How about it big boy?"
On your knees in front of him and say "One bj going spare, any takers?"
Offer him two painkillers and a glass of water "These are for your headache". When he denies having one say, "Oh good, let's go to bed then!"
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2006-12-25 05:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really make a person "be into"you. The chemistry is either there or its not....to be very honest. That's how mother nature really works... Maybe just relax a little bit and spend quality time together and see what happens?
Good luck to you .
2006-12-21 14:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to get to know the guy, be attentive, flirt a bit. Show him you're interested. Laugh at his crap jokes, if that doesn't work ASK HIM OUT on a date - you have to cut the crap and let him know. Men are stupid - if you're too subtle, you'll miss the chance, be straight and tell him. I FANCY YOU, how about it? He'll love you for being up-front, and you might get a festive .... out of it!!!! GL honey!!!!
2006-12-21 14:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by sharon r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was not interested in the things you've already done then nothing will help. You've already done everyting that should have worked, it seems that he already has someone else or is just not interested in having a woman around.
2006-12-21 15:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying too hard!!!
Back off a bit, and give him some breathing space.
You don't need all those "magic tricks" to make your guy come on to you.
You could be scaring him off!!He's not a toy to ride on!
Be yourself, and time will tell.
2006-12-21 17:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by SOL SIREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't learned how to use the aura to come on or to make him come on. This is a case of use it and use it up. Someone is using it all up . You can turn the aura around again if you know how.
2006-12-24 05:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to find a guy that you have the right chemistry with. Then nature will take its course.
2006-12-21 14:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-21 14:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either he bucks his ideas up and jumps on ya or you're going to get another bloke to do his job for him.
Simple :-D
2006-12-21 14:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by bikerchick77_uk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not up to you to come up with all the answers you know...you dont have to do that...he should work for it too...;0)
2006-12-23 11:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋