we're both 18 and this fall will be going to college. he lives in florida and is going to texas and i live in kansas and am going to michigan for college. i really like the guy, and i dont want to hurt him, but it really has to end. i just dont have the time, and i know that in the future i wont either. on top of that - four MORE years of long distance isnt really something that i want...
im just wondering if y'all have any advice that you can give.
oh. and on top of that. im going down to see him jan. 1-6th...
and even more... his mom just bought be $400 in Juicy Couture... --awkward?!--
2006-12-21 14:06:49 · 12 answers · asked by kibbyshibby89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth. The truth will set you free. Keep the Couture.
2006-12-21 14:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth and how you feel. I know it will be hard for him to deal with, but if you honestly do not want a long term relationship while in college you need to let him know that. You can also explain that it may be possible to get back together in the future when you are out of college (crazy things happen like that). If you still want to be friends with him let him know that too.
2006-12-21 14:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him over the phone that even though it's been fun, you think it will be better to experience life as a single woman in college, and that you're not certain about the long distance relationship anymore. Be honest and truthful and don't make things up to cover up what you want.
2006-12-21 14:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to break up with him now I would do it over the phone, soon (not until after Christmas). Don't go down there and do it in person. If you want to break up with him because you are dreading it happening in the future you should go down there, have a wonderful time with him and talk about how you feel, cool it off and see how you both feel.
2006-12-21 14:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so no hurry? wait till the next time you see him after january unless it wont be till like valentines day. dont dump him on valentines day, thats just depressing. anyways, sticking with him for a month is definately worth juicy couture, but his mom bought it haha. ahem, anyways, just tell him when you are visiting. dont do it on the phone or online, thats just assinine
2006-12-21 14:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by slightly confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it in an e mail. On the phone or in person is best. My ex did it in an e mail and then I saw his "want ad" for another woman on a website less than an hour later.
2006-12-21 14:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have the (talk ) with him when u went to see him.. i think u need to sit down and just explain how u think and feel to him.. if its really love then u both will stay togahter and be togather but if its not then it will end.. sounds like u 2 have different outlooks on ur lives anywasy.. but u do need to tlak with him!
Good luck
2006-12-21 14:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you want to break up, and why. Don't do the I still care about you, or we can still be friends, or it's not you it's me thing, because NO guy, I repeat, NO guy wants to hear any of that crap! Just tell it straight.
2006-12-21 14:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its to hard keeping up a long distance relationship you just dont get to see him enough and you are looking for something more just be honest
2006-12-21 14:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write how now,your going to collage and want to see other bboys,and still want to be friends with him,because honestly,he will probly cheat
2006-12-21 14:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dee bella<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋