Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

I'm getting married in 9 months. I am in love with my fiancée and am excited about our future together. We are in our early 30's and were together for 2 years before we got engaged. We have a happy and healthy relationship. Prior to being with him, I was in 3 year relationship with someone who i thought was 'the one' but I broke up with him because I was no longer happy and he wasn't good for me. I never would get back with my ex and nor do I even miss his company....BUT, for god's sake, why does he pop into my head about 3 or 4 times per day. Why does he enter my mind at all? We don't talk at all either. I finally am getting married to someone who I am meant for, but why does an ex keep entering my mind ...i just want to forget about him completely. I will feel like hell if I think of him on my wedding day. I feel like i'm psychotic or or I should go to hypnotism or something to get him out of my head. He is a good person but i don't miss him. I'm confused.

2006-12-21 15:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by bizarre 1 in Weddings

2006-12-21 15:14:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh kay, this guy.he likes me and i like him too. so today he gave me a letter to read. so i let my friends read it too
now i feel really bad.. i feel that everytime he comes in . they will say something or try to make us not talk
idk
what should i do??

2006-12-21 15:13:57 · 30 answers · asked by *LOU* 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i had this girlfriend in 7th grade, so it wasnt much, but we have kept in touch for a long time. I really like her and she likes me. We rarley get to see eachother, like basically never. but when we are together everything is perfect. we are really close and i am not sure what to do. we can tell eachother anything and can talk forever and never get tired or bored with eachother. So what do i do now?

2006-12-21 15:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by steve 1 in Singles & Dating

oh kay, this guy.he likes me and i like him too. so today he gave me a letter to read. so i let my friends read it too
now i feel really bad.. i feel that everytime he comes in . they will say something or try to make us not talk
idk
whay should i do??

2006-12-21 15:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by *LOU* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:13:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

(CAUTION NOT FOR MEN OR CHILDREN"There's this girl with my friend (she's agirl )and they become friends and I become peved . the girl won't back of my friend.
the girl doesn't like me(the mean one) and at are celebration she gives every one a candy cane exept me and I asked why I didn't get one and she says "BACK OFF you didn't get one cause I HATE YOU" all up in my face and I called that fat basterd a ho.
I said " I hope santa doesn't bring YOU HO HO HO'IN down the chimney on christmas". do you think ishould be proud I stood up to her? Do you think I should get more friends?

2006-12-21 15:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by kiki howa 1 in Friends

okay thers this new kid in my class and he's cute !!!! but he's very shy and stuff i like him alot{ he's been to my school before but went away and came back} what should i do?????to make him notice me too???

2006-12-21 15:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i haven't been together for that long, we have sleepovers on the weekends sometimes and just the other night he got me a toothbrush to keep at his place...i know it's silly, but what does that mean? are things getting serious or am i just reading into it too much? i must admit, it felt kind of nice since it shows that he was being thoughtful...?

2006-12-21 15:11:36 · 23 answers · asked by mommysgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with him. The only problem is he loves his mother and takes her words as laws. She decides who he should date and he usually respects her opinions and chooses his girlfriends according to her preferences. I am not sure if she likes me. What should I do?

2006-12-21 15:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by teri 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you rather have:
A) 3 Eyes that can't blink
B) 3 Boobs 2 small and 1 large
C) 3 Testicles that talk

You have to answer A.B or C and explain why

Good luck!!

2006-12-21 15:10:23 · 17 answers · asked by AnswerKing 1 in Singles & Dating

Be and my bf keep talking (on IM) about how we wanna give each other our 1st kiss.But after you kiss do u say anything or do anything or what?? We really want to, and soon. I need lots of help on this subject (1st kisses) and advice and tips and everything else i can get on this. The person who answers the question, gives as many tips, and gives REAL good advice on what to do before and after gets the 10 pts!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!

2006-12-21 15:09:45 · 10 answers · asked by sammie_428 1 in Singles & Dating

should i buy a chirtmas gift for my ex i wanna buy her something cuz she got me something but the problems is that theres still some feelings between us and im scared my new girlfriend will get jealous like i know shell tell me oh no buy her a gift but i know inside of her itll bother her so should i buy my ex a gift?

2006-12-21 15:09:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:09:13 · 12 answers · asked by kiera 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by Mmmm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how I feel about him; but should I tell my friend by saying so.. or break her heart by NOT telling her?

2006-12-21 15:08:47 · 6 answers · asked by THE PROCRASTiNATORR 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by lefthandlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Aunt Mary is in the hospital and they don't thik she will make it. It could have been a stroke or a heart attack. She is 85.
I love her so much . Can you all please pray for her tonight.? She gave nothing but love and light thoughtout her life . Please can everyone send her a prayer?

2006-12-21 15:08:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a boyfriend, and things have been going great....really great!!!! We've been going out for about a year, and I'm still scared to go all the way with him(i'm almost 17, and out of High School). We both want to, but I'm terriffied! Any advice?

2006-12-21 15:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What will you do forget about him or still hope he'll feel the way you feel...............

2006-12-21 15:07:18 · 43 answers · asked by my051688 2 in Singles & Dating

i m a new student to that sch.. the guy i like is ian.. he often get together with michellle before i came..(my friends told me). but after i came .. he doesnt do that so often.. sometimes he even gets with me.. a few days ago.. michelle told me that ian likes her.. he gave clue to her..(this is wad she told me). but later on.. when we were playing truth or dare game..he said he doeesnt like anione.. oso.. we let him chose between me n her.. he said both r good.. so.. what shall i do nw?? can someone help me??

2006-12-21 15:06:35 · 4 answers · asked by priincessly 1 in Singles & Dating

ok ... I have this friend... he has a girlfriend but he thinks they might be blood related... Its kind of complicated but I'll try to explain as best as I can... Well my friend's grandma had a brother. My grandma's brother had a daughter. His daughter had another daughter of her own..... she is the girl my friend is seeing right now.... is their relationship wrong? I mean like is it incest.... or something? I seriously doubt that... but I am not sure.... tell me what you think? and if you have facts or websites please post...

2006-12-21 15:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 3 in Singles & Dating

i really liked this guy but i think he found out through his freind that i liked him. Like we have been together for the past two weekends at parties and were with eachotehr holding hands and stuff but now that he knows i think he is ignoring me.Now i dont know how to act around him. help

2006-12-21 15:05:55 · 4 answers · asked by ligirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean friends that i can talk to

2006-12-21 15:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by Tan Boon Hwee k 2 in Friends

2006-12-21 15:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by beach_gal 4 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together almost everyday since we met. He works all the time but drives 30 min to see me everynight when he gets off work. Even if we only spend 2 or 3 hours together a night..he still comes see me. He has taken me where I needed to go when my car was broke(without me asking...he offered).
He helps me make furture plans for myself to make my life better.
He has never once let me pay for anything....
I am scared because he is a dream come true to me, I want to hear them 3 words to reassure me.

2006-12-21 15:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Leesa 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering.....

2006-12-21 15:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:04:54 · 26 answers · asked by RrcT09 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by brokenheart_xo 1 in Singles & Dating