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What will you do forget about him or still hope he'll feel the way you feel...............

2006-12-21 15:07:18 · 43 answers · asked by my051688 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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give it up, - life's too short.

2006-12-21 15:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 1 1

If he has clearly said that nothing will ever happen between you two then you should try to move on, as they say there are a lot of fish in the sea. It is not the end of the world if he does nto feel the same about you. YOu deserve someone who will love you as much as you love this guy. I know it may be difficult but trust me its not worth it, get out there and meet new guys and in no time you will forget this one!

2006-12-21 15:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by dazzle 2 · 0 0

if you remain thinking that there is still hope for the both of you after he clearly states no, then you will live a pretty miserable life hoping that he comes back to you. Move on and show him that even though you loved him you recognize that there are more fish in the sea than just him. It will definitely make you feel better if you stop thinking about that possiblity, but I also know that it takes time to do so, so just give it time.

2006-12-21 15:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1 0

It depends on what you mean by he can't love you in return. If that's the case then you should not be involved with that person. What, is he married? It will not succeed if the love is all one sided. How can you live with yourself knowing that he is not in love with you too. I know that it's hard on you but, the healthiest thing that you can possibly do for your self is move on and try your hardest to forget about him. Keep yourself really busy so that you don't have time to think. I feel for you girl.

2006-12-21 18:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0 0

Well, first of all are you in a relationship with this person and he doesn't give you the proper attention, or is it just a crush? If you're dating him then dump him if you don't feel like he loves u as much as you love him. But if it's just a crush, then give it time. Maybe he doesn't even realize how you feel about him. Sometimes telling them how you feel helps them to know how they feel about you. And if you can't confront him and tell him how you feel, then have a friend talk to him or something to save you from the embarassment. But I say, keep trying...never give up on something if its all you've ever wanted! ;)

2006-12-21 15:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0 0

It's so easy for people to tell you to move on, but unless they've been in the situation they don't know how hard that can be. You have to do what's best for you, and you deserve to love someone that loves you back. It's not going to be easy, sometimes it takes small steps each and every day. If you keep taking one small step away from the situation and that person each day its going to get easier and easier. Each morning you need to decide that you have to do this for you. I wish you the best of luck, letting go is very painful, but not as painful as holding on.

2006-12-21 16:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Randi 2 · 0 0

I've been in this situation, I met the kid when i was three grew up with him, and started to love him when i was old enough for these feelings although young it felt weird. i am very mature for my age and once i moved to a different city and relized he didn't really like me but i loved him and would take a bullet for him i relazied i need to move on . and so i did and found the right guy for me. whom i love and loves me back. it just takes time. GOOD LUCK

2006-12-21 15:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 5 · 0 0

This is what maugham called 'HUMAN BONDAGE'
You may not be knowing Urdu or Hindi, but the following lines best capture the poignancy of this situation---.
Issee ko kehtey hain mazboori--e--dil,
Key unkey koochey mein na jaaney ki kassam
Sau baar khaana,
Maghar jaana.
Ask some one to explain this to you, it is worth it.
All the best child, all of us have passed through this phase, and emerged wiser, & better , though sometimes sadder. God be with you.

2006-12-21 15:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

honey if the reason he can never ever return your love is because he is married I would forget it & most definitelty move on. this person is not going to be there for you EVER. life is short enough as it is do not waste it on something like this.

2006-12-21 15:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by audrey_halley2004 4 · 0 0

I was in a serious relationship with a guy for a year. I was very much in love with him and refered to him as my boyfriend. After a year he could still not tell me he loved me or even refer to me as his girlfriend. I wised up and realized I was wasting my time and moved on. If he wasnt't going to be able to love me after ayear it never was gonna happen.

2006-12-21 15:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Forget about him. There are plenty of other guys that CAN love you in return.

2006-12-21 15:10:36 · answer #11 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0 0

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