I have a boyfriend, and things have been going great....really great!!!! We've been going out for about a year, and I'm still scared to go all the way with him(i'm almost 17, and out of High School). We both want to, but I'm terriffied! Any advice?
2006-12-21 15:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take your time, don't rush it.
2006-12-21 15:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by darkangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rush your not missing out on anything, just wait until the time is right. maybe you need to relax and just go with the flow. stop thinking bout it and when the time is right you will know and then you wont feel this way.
2006-12-21 23:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, remember this, only 10% of nevousness shows, the rest is untraceable. when you are ready you will go for it. just one night, do it. i mean ive had those times where im scard to do anything with a dude, but i do it any way. you cant just crawl into you fears, you have to jump in.
2006-12-21 23:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go all the way, unti lyou're out of high school, married, and ready for it. You don't need that kinda complication in your life.
2006-12-21 23:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by brokenheart_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really scared, it's still ok to wait. You have plenty of time to become sexually active, your nervousness is just your way of letting know you aren't ready.
2006-12-21 23:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, wait. When the time and mood is right you will know. And its nothing to be terrified about when it does happen.
2006-12-21 23:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it when your ready now if youre asking it means youre having doubts so i dont think youre ready but just from my personnal experience when me and my girlfriedn did it we became alot closer and we love each other alot more now good luck
2006-12-21 23:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow
2006-12-21 23:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it wait til you get married
2006-12-21 23:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋