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Just be good for now on, they will forget...

2006-12-21 15:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2 0

It may take some time, but, as the saying goes, this too will pass. Try to not put yourself in any situation where someone could say something negative about you. Some people seem to think they can't live without gossip. It's a vicious and cruel habit to get into.
Just try to get something positive out of it like what you learned and go on down the road.
I'm sure you must have a friend or friends who can help you through this trying time.
Good luck and God Bless.
As an added thought, the Holidays are right around the corner. All the kids are going to be involved in all kinds of stuff, Christmas, gifts, etc. And you should be in that spirit too. I'll bet by the time you go back to school after the Holiday break, this little incident will be forgotten. Merry Christmas and Best Wishes for the New Year!!!

2006-12-21 23:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 0 0

Keep a low profile. Ignore them if they are saying stuff to your face. Try to focus on your schoolwork and your friends and keep some distance from boys.

I would wait a while to go out with another guy. Even if one expresses interest in you, you could even tell them, "I've made some mistakes recently with guys, maybe it is better if I stay single for a while".

Don't worry, people forget, especially when you prove that the behavior wont be repeated.

2006-12-21 23:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0 0

When my daughter was 15 she made some rather big mistakes witha guy as well. She also got a rep. All I can say is that all kids talk, gossip, and spread rumors. But I will tell you whatI told her. Your news will be old new soon as someone else makes a mistake. Then they will have someone new to gossip about.

2006-12-21 23:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't worry about it, ppl will eventually forget all about it...i'm in college and ive done a lot of dumb and embarassing things in highschool, but now i forgot all about those things because there not important anymore. Also i only talk to about 3 friends that went to my old highschool, and they never bring up anything from our old highschool. So most students at your school wont even care about it, and they'll probably forget about it in a couple days depending on how bad your mistake was.

2006-12-21 23:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by D$ 2 · 0 0

Hunny you shouldn't worry about what people say about you. Just as long as you can look in the mirror everyday and be happy with the person thats lookin' back at you. But hunny i know i ain't your mom or anything but you should slow down if your having sex. Trust me i've been there, done that now i'm 14 years old pregnant and my little boy ain't even gonna have a daddy now b/c the relationship wasn't all that serious. So hunny please think before ya do ok?

2006-12-21 23:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are only 13.
You have a long life ahead of you. Do what you need to do to make it a good life. Ignore those kids and go on to prove them wrong.
Kids at that age really grab onto a piece of gossip and blow it way out of proportion. It will pass. Do NOT let this one incident color the way you feel about yourself. It's not the end of the world, I promise.
Take care.

2006-12-21 23:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by blue.green_eyes 5 · 1 0

You learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them. Realize everybody makes mistakes but some don't learn from them and keep making the same mistake over and over. So go to school, do your school work and ignore the gossip. Next week there will be someone else to gossip about.

2006-12-21 23:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1 0

Umm you need to slow down and go get a Bratz doll and sit down somewhere...you shouldnt be messing with guys at 13...you should be focused on doing good in school because you wont know which guys are worth your time untill youre in college (youll know they at least have goals) Where are your parents?

2006-12-21 23:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

People will say what they want to say. Young kids can be cruel too. Only God and you know what you did; don't pay them no mind. If you can't handle it, ask your parents if you can move to another school.

My advice to you, wait until you get married.

Take care.

2006-12-21 23:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0 0

walk and hold you head up!!!

don't let them make u feel bad, mistakes happen to anyone and i know you will learn from it and forgave yourself and you'll feel better.

2006-12-21 23:08:54 · answer #11 · answered by darkangel 2 · 0 0

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