oh kay, this guy.he likes me and i like him too. so today he gave me a letter to read. so i let my friends read it too
now i feel really bad.. i feel that everytime he comes in . they will say something or try to make us not talk
idk
what should i do??
2006-12-21 15:13:57 · 30 answers · asked by *LOU* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him and say sorry, i hope he will understand
2006-12-21 15:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what was said in the letter. do you think he would be upset if he knew you let others read it? If you really like this guy and hope for more of a relationship your best bet is to tell him what happened and that you regret it and appologize. If you just try to keep your friend quiet it will always be hanging there.
2006-12-21 23:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by QandA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, yes you did do the wrong thing. You have just shown him that he can't trust you when it comes to personal issues. Letters are usually written in confidence and especially guys, don't want your girlfriends knowing what he has on his mind. Tell him what you did before he finds out on his own and ruins what may be a good thing.
2006-12-21 23:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did unfortunately. It is never a good thing to get your friends mixed up in personal affairs. But, if you really care for this guy who cares what your "friends" do. If they try to keep you from doing what you want to do, then they aren't friends at all. Think about that. Hope everything works out! Happy Holidays!
2006-12-21 23:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Michael C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't a very smart move. You shouldn't have let your friends read it. I am sure you would have been upset if he would have done the same thing. My advice talk to your friends and tell them in a very nice way to keep their mouths shut. Next time though, keep the letters to yourself
2006-12-21 23:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must secret you affair from your other friends, because jealousy is a natural thing, if ur friend saw the letter she will gonna try a break b/w you and him.
2006-12-21 23:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by AAMIR K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to be proactive and let him know that your friends read his letter. Apologize about it, and let him know he can trust you with his feelings from now on. Everybody makes mistakes, he should understand.
:)
2006-12-21 23:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooh, that was tacky to let your friends read that private letter but i understand you were probably excited about it. better to just come out in the open and tell him the truth. he will be embarassed at first but then he will admire you for your honesty.
2006-12-21 23:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have let your friends read. he wrote a letter to you, he didnt write a letter for you and everyone you know
2006-12-21 23:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to humilate someone you like... like that? You just lost any chance of ever having him for a bf... much less a friend.
2006-12-21 23:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do anything any other girl wouldnt do! just tell your friends too lay off..in a nice way though! if you like him, then try to get your friends too understand :]
good luck hun :]
2006-12-21 23:15:44 · answer #11 · answered by Beauty Call 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋