My (guy)friend likes this girl.
here's the story: She had(or has) a boyfriend. But even while they were together, she still flirted with him. He likes her, but everybody that knows her tells him that she's a slut. She barely even knows him, and she says a lot of negative stuff to him.
He practically drools over her, because she's pretty, and smart.
(She said one smart comment, and now he thinks that she's smart) he's not sure if he should hook up with her or not. I think she's just using him, and giving him the attention that she gives every other guy. How do I convince him of that? He knows it too, he just won't listen to his brain just his heart.
2006-12-21 14:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Yay! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dreamyang: been there done that. Not working.
2006-12-21 15:12:12 · update #1
Some lessons are learned through personal experience. Your friend can have as many friends sharing their opinions or advice, if a man wants a girl enough, even for the wrong reasons he can convince himself it's for the right reasons and realize later that hindsight is 20/20 & good friends are far and few between.
2006-12-21 15:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What else can you tell him that makes him think differently since you said he drools over her? Does his parents know about the situation? Maybe they can convince him.
I think It's the hormone thing. He'll just have to learn the hard way.
2006-12-21 23:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down, look him straight in the eye and tell him exactly what you think. remind him that you are his friend and you dont want to see him hurt. explain to him the reasons why you think this way about the girl he likes (make sure they are legitament) and point out all the evidence that shows that she isnt such a great person. make him listen to you but ultimatly he must then decide for himself. trust him to make the right decision and if he doesnt dont rub it in his face when he has his heart broken.
2006-12-21 23:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"he is blinded by love" he cant c it but u can and if he wont listen then he will just have 2 figure it out him self! by why do u care so much ? lol
2006-12-21 23:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋