Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I've been w/this guy for a yr now & I have caught him playing w/himself 4 times and he gets mad at me. He is 52 yrs. old. Been single for 10 yrs. and now I think I know why he has. He is weird and he blames me. He rather jake off them have acutal sex and when we do he wants jack off? I can't deal w/this anymore. I'm 40 and I think very good lookin and workout keep myself in shape and try to do healthy things, but all he wants to do is party and jack ***. HELP!!!!

2006-12-20 12:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married last weekend and I'm starting my thank-you cards. For the people who gave money, I have "Thank you for your generious gift at our wedding." How should I finish?

2006-12-20 12:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4 in Weddings

ok i like this gut i told him that i liked him and he gave me his cell phone #. one day i found out my sister was calling him i thought he would think i was insane if i didnt xplain what happend but my voice was hoarse so i wrote him a note. as he was getting on the bus he walked up to a friend and said "hey. i got a note from (my name)." and his friend said "great. what does it say?" and one of my friends head this and she said it was in a sarcastic maner. i REALLY do like him but i thought he didnt like me because of what he said so i decided to forget about him but i cant. then on the last day of schol b4 winter break i think i saw him trying to go out of his way just to get into my line of sight. what does this mean?

2006-12-20 12:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys it will be my first time (it) with my best friend close to Newyears eve. We are planning to it but listen, were both about 140 ish but he is muscle and im just like sorta chunky but not really its more of my boobs and thighs really. So does weigh matter if were the weight of both of us is the same?

2006-12-20 12:13:09 · 15 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had my share of boyfriends. I am looking for a bad boy with a good heart. By bad boy I mean someone who carries themself with masculinity and confidence. Someone who is streetwise and can defend me...who can fight for good. He doesn't have to be a criminal, although I have dated some unknowingly. Someone who has edge and can be a sweetheart. Either I find the nicest guys who are corny or badasses that break my little heart. :(

2006-12-20 12:13:01 · 23 answers · asked by PhoenixRising 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had the BEST SEX in your life but you didn't HAVE SEX ?

2006-12-20 12:12:26 · 4 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

Or when did you/do you plan to loose yours?

2006-12-20 12:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Tonks 1 in Singles & Dating

Hows this? I ask my girlfriend to go with me to Hawaii or Italy. We're sitting on the sandy beach where there is no one. Then right before the sunset, I show her the ring and propose to her. Then I want to say a little poem:

"You can fall from the sky,
You can fall from the tree.
But the best way to fall,
Is in love with me."

"I love you so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with you".

(Hey ladies, I feel like a weak man to get on one knee. I want to propose to a her while we're cuddling on the beach. Is that ok?)

2006-12-20 12:10:55 · 18 answers · asked by Can H 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl alot
so how can i hint to her that i like her

and i know her from school so its not an online thing
so how do i give her a hint i like her
and she is going away on friday so should i like ask for her cell number [{but what should i say} and what should i say if i do or dont get her number]
also how should i flirt with her without using pickup lines
her personality is kind of shy and so am i.
but thats about it

and we also talk alot on aim
but today she talked to me in this class



go patriots
1 more win
or a jets loss

and

happy holidays

peace out
lol

2006-12-20 12:10:50 · 8 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 12:10:33 · 6 answers · asked by lacheechee2 2 in Singles & Dating

do you really not have respect for a girl after you have done stuff with her and your not going out?

2006-12-20 12:09:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please no mean comments. When me and my boyfriend went to college in August we were 200 miles away from each other. Things started going bad and I broke up with him then I ended up sleepin with one of my friends.It hurt him so bad but he took me back and said he forgave me. I went through and am still in one of the most depressive stages of my life. I've totally changed and will NEVER treat him like that again. but he's having the hardest time getting close to me again.I just cant do this no more. I hate myself for hurting him. every day I live with this enourmous guilt and I just wanna end it all and I dont know how I'm gonna get the love of my life back to me. Even though we've been together for a year we have talked about marriage and now that's all ruined. I want to marry this man and treat him like a king for the rest of my life but it is just so hard. I know he will need time to trust me again but everyday I feel so guilty. I cant do this.Someone please help.no mean comments

2006-12-20 12:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by texastreasure 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the past five months me and this guy have just been starring at each other in the eyes as if its just the two of us together and nobody around. But lately, i didn't want to give him mix feelings cause i heard that he liked me, but i didn't want to be in a relationship at that appointed time, but however now since we are out of school on break, I can't stop thinking about him and my cousin got his number from her brother cell phone and she wants me to call him and tell him how i feel but he doesn't really know me and i really don't know him either. But i have a feeling he likes me but not really sure? Should I call him or wait until school starts back in January and talk to him.

2006-12-20 12:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by vfalcons05 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm 15, and pretty level headed. I don't care about who's doing what, so its not about peer pressure.
I've never had a boyfriend and I personally think it's okay to not have one, it actually easier to be without all that high school drama.
I'm the youngest or 3 sisters and the rule in my house is that we can't date until we're out or high school, but c'mon what teenager cares? Both my older sisters dated younger than me without my folks knowing. So its also not about lieing to my parents. ..But so what is it??
Awhile ago i had a HUGE crush on one of my friends and now i know that he liked me too, but one of my friends referred to him as my boyfriend and I replied by yelling " He's NOT my boyfriend!"
Of course he heard and we havent spoken since

then a friend of mine told me that he liked me...to me he was really just a friend..but i did have a bit of a crushon him...but all i could do was mumble something about a lady bug & leave
What is wrong with me??

2006-12-20 12:08:04 · 9 answers · asked by Joze 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to kno this, cuz im trying to go for this girl, and i need to know what girls really like about guys(girls answer mostly please)

2006-12-20 12:07:33 · 23 answers · asked by asher j 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy named lucas he's 4rom argentina
he has the hottiest spanish accent ever
i like him alot
last time i liked a boy he broke my heart
we have alot of things in commen
how can i make him like me???or at least make him talk to me more???

2006-12-20 12:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by avilalorena@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this gut i told him that i liked him and he gave me his cell phone #. one day i found out my sister was calling him i thought he would think i was insane if i didnt xplain what happend but my voice was hoarse so i wrote him a note. as he was getting on the bus he walked up to a friend and said "hey. i got a note from (my name)." and his friend said "great. what does it say?" and one of my friends head this and she said it was in a sarcastic maner. i REALLY do like him but i thought he didnt like me because of what he said so i decided to forget about him but i cant. then on the last day of schol b4 winter break i think i saw him trying to go out of his way just to get into my line of sight. what does this mean?

2006-12-20 12:05:50 · 1 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there any men out there that treat there wife like a child and try to be there daddy??? (NO my husband doesn't) We were at a one of my husbands co workers house last night for dinner. You would have thought that he was her daddy. He put exactly what he wanted her to eat on her plat and them when she was full proceeded to tell her to eat EVERYTHING on her plat. These kinds of incidents happened throughout the night. I couldn't tell if he was her husband or her daddy. I'm not asking what people think of it (I think its wrong) I'm just wondering if you have seen something like this before, I sure havent.

2006-12-20 12:04:33 · 17 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this girl but her parents dont know she is dating me cause she is scared they will get angry and i cant even call her do you think it's not worth the relationship or is it!

2006-12-20 12:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-20 12:03:59 · 3 answers · asked by ganster steyl 1 in Friends

i want to meet or set a couple to 4fill a fantasy. A female and bi male in the uk, or can any one tell me about swingers near peterborough

2006-12-20 12:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by dddd d 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex-wife has called the police to investigate us for frivolous reasons. She has custody of their daughter, he has custody of their two sons. She has accused him of child abuse, improper living conditions for the children, kidnapping, and violating visitation when she never even set it up in advance. Each time the police have investigated, nothing has been found. The police have come to look at our home three times, and twice in the last three months. I'm really frustrated; what can we do to stop her frivolity?

2006-12-20 12:03:26 · 25 answers · asked by sandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that a guy or girl has to get parental permission to date someone, if they are under-18?

2006-12-20 12:03:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys I need to know what things I can do or say to show a guy Im interesting in him without telling him that I am. This for you guys what things a girl do to show you that they interesting in you what things do you want a girl to do or say to show that they interesting in you

2006-12-20 12:02:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I know for sure if a woman is hitting on me?

What are some good pickup lines?

They say honesty is the best policy ( they lied ) What is the best policy

2006-12-20 12:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by concerned_earthling 4 in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy that i like. me and my friends think he is flirting with me in the one class he sits next to me in but i'm not sure. He always looks at me smiling when somthing funny happens and says somthing about it.Sometimes during a classes that we sit on oppisite sides of the room will make eye contact for like a sec.I'm pretty sure but not positive he was looking at me today and when i looked he turned to the person who was talking.He never walked up to one of his friends i wait with outside a class until i was there one day and he kinda looked at me walking over then high-fived his friend.Sometimes when a mutter something he'll ask what i said or he'll ask questions about something i said to someone else. Everyone likes him and my friend over heard him saying that there's one girl he likes but doesn't know if this girl likes him.I probably one of the only girls that don't throw themselves at him.and he always asks me questions in math.

I'm confused!!!!

2006-12-20 12:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by everything_shes_not2 1 in Singles & Dating

dont give funny answers

2006-12-20 12:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by ani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have said some pretty nasty things to a friend of mine because I was feeling upset and hurt by them,I now deeply regret my actions as some of the things I said where really nasty I feel I really need to apologies to this person as I feel very ashamed of myself and I was wondering if sending a nice gift basket and a card expresing my remorse would be the right thing to do it's really buging me.I should never have said theses thingsas I truely care for this person .

2006-12-20 12:00:46 · 17 answers · asked by flossypants 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your girlfried or significant other sends you sweet little love notes or poems, or do you think it is smothering??

2006-12-20 12:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by pilotjeannie89 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, My mom and dad hates eachother, so my mom wants me to live with her in Newjersey. I currently live with dad in Northcarolina.
I don't know what to do. She asked me a couple of seconds ago if I wanted to live with her. She thinks my dad doesn't take care of me..Like he buys me clothes,games,food. She says he doesn't care about me. I use to visit my mom every summer and christmas break now..my dad won't let me. Shes really upset about it. Being up there makes me really homesick. Should I just move up there and see how it goes? Or stay with my dad?

2006-12-20 12:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by napoleon1dyn 1 in Family