Guys it will be my first time (it) with my best friend close to Newyears eve. We are planning to it but listen, were both about 140 ish but he is muscle and im just like sorta chunky but not really its more of my boobs and thighs really. So does weigh matter if were the weight of both of us is the same?
2006-12-20 12:13:09 · 15 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your talking about your first time being sex!! weight does not matter!! My boyfriend and i are totally opposite!! he is 5'51/2 and im 5'8 and he ways 160 and i weigh 185!! and our sex life is great!! and if its your first time your probably going to stay on your back so weight does not matter!!! unless you are going to try so freaky sex positions!!! Good luck on your first time and strap up!!!!
2006-12-20 12:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by prece88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greater muscle mass and greater muscle density in guys allow for handling much greater weight than girls can at the same body weight. If you are getting ready to open up the kama sutra book and try out some postures that involve the guy supporting 100% of the girl's weight, then he may want to start working out. Aside from that, most sexual positions from girl-on-top to missionary don't matter too much. Also, since it's your first time, you may realize you like the weight of the guy on top of you (as many girls do) and he may find that your weight on him is a lot of fun as well. FYI, I am 220 solid, and my gf is a small 125 girl, and weight has never been an issue.
2006-12-20 12:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So my question is are you doing this just because you think you should or what? There is nothing wrong with virginity, I was until my first year of college, and then I went on to marry him. There is nothing wrong with that in this day and age. But if you really feel like you want to do this, he obviously sees nothing wrong with you. If he did, he would not be planning this with you. Just try to think this way and you will be fine, 140 is not that much anyway. Just remember, there is something about his body that he doesn't like either, no one thinks they are perfect. If we were, there would be no indiviuality. Good luck.
2006-12-20 12:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by dnsnowden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me girl, most men (especially if it's your their first time) are not going to be thinking about your fat. You say it's mostly your boobs- well, there you go. If your chest is big enough, he's not going to care about how chunky your thighs might be. So long as he can get in between them, that's all he's gonna care about. Don't be so hard on yourself.
P.S. If you're a teenager, don't do it. Don't do it, Don't do it. don't do it! There is plenty of time for sex. Imagine the gift you could give to your husband if you save yourself for mirrage. If you must do it, use a condom. If you love yourself, use a condom.
2006-12-20 12:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol most guys like girls with big boobs and butts. they call it "filled out in all the right places" which is kinda good. i guess? for me. im a guy. and well i dont really like tht myself lol. i personally like the girls that are less of that way at all. dont matter weight
2006-12-20 12:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, weight has nothing to do with this. But in my opinion , If you are feeling weird about your weight then maybe you aren't ready for your "FIRST TIME". If he really loves you he won't be worried about something that minor anyway. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-20 12:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 140 too.. think my bf might be the same too, hes a bit taller. nah weight doesn't matter. it's the love that matters... whether it's love-handles or simple love!
2006-12-20 12:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing matters other than the two of you.... love is in the eyes of the beholder.... what you look like and what he looks like doesn't matter, as long as you see attraction in each other. If it works, do it!!!! Get it on!!!! Each to his own...
2006-12-20 12:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by joe d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
matter the love not how much u weigh if ur in love then u got it u dont then dont do it
2006-12-20 12:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by lacheechee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if u got big boobs there is nothing to worry about
2006-12-20 12:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋