I have had my share of boyfriends. I am looking for a bad boy with a good heart. By bad boy I mean someone who carries themself with masculinity and confidence. Someone who is streetwise and can defend me...who can fight for good. He doesn't have to be a criminal, although I have dated some unknowingly. Someone who has edge and can be a sweetheart. Either I find the nicest guys who are corny or badasses that break my little heart. :(
2006-12-20
12:13:01
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➔ Singles & Dating
I like bad boys because they make me feel protected and they just have that certain something for me. I was raised in a strict christian household with a father for a minister...you know what they say about the minister's daughter.
2006-12-20
12:34:09 ·
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gurl i had the same problem. i found the right guy his nice and sweet and stuff and he can defend me. but this is about u so i think u keep on looking. once u find that guy he might seem all tough and stuff but when they find that special person that they love and have those butterflies in there stomach they are going to have that heart melt like in 5 minutes. that specila is out there somewhere i know he is.
2006-12-20 12:17:39
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answered by h2o :] 2
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Thanks to Bonnie Tyler for
I Need a Hero
Where have all good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where’s the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn’t there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and turn and dream of what I need
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the end of the night
He’s gotta be strong
And he’s gotta be fast
And he’s gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the morning light
He’s gotta be sure
And it’s gotta be soon
And he’s gotta be larger than life
Somewhere after midnight
In my wildest fantasy
Somewhere just beyond my reach
There’s someone reaching back for me
Racing on the thunder and rising with the heat
It’s gonna take a superman to sweep me off my feet
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the end of the night
He’s gotta be strong
And he’s gotta be fast
And he’s gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the morning light
He’s gotta be sure
And it’s gotta be soon
And he’s gotta be larger than life
Up where the mountains meet the heavens above
Out where the lightning splits the sea
I would swear that there’s someone somewhere
Watching me
Through the wind and the chill and the rain
And the storm and the flood
I can feel his approach
Like a fire in my blood
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the end of the night
He’s gotta be strong
And he’s gotta be fast
And he’s gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the morning light
He’s gotta be sure
And it’s gotta be soon
And he’s gotta be larger than life
I suggest you join an activist group.
2006-12-20 20:16:54
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answered by Jean Talon 5
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You need to figure out why you equate masculinity and confidence with a bad boy image. There are plenty of men (or boys depending on your age) who are not "bad" but are very masculine. You just havent found the right one yet. If you stop looking for a certin type of guy and open yourself up to more possibilities then maybe love will find you.
2006-12-20 20:17:31
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answered by Anonymous
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I guess your world view and attraction are screwed up. Don't worry lots of girls like this.
You really should be looking the fun guy inside the nice guy rather than the nice guy inside the jerk.
You don't live in a war zone. Guys who can defend you, end up in trouble anyway.
Anyway, good luck with all that. Hope you don't end up with a bully.
2006-12-20 20:17:20
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answered by rostov 5
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Actually I am somewhat badass and be very loving towards a woman. I will love that woman like she is the only one. I will always be there for her. I will do anything possible to make her love me. Lol I curse everyday and mess with the people I hate. I work out everyday so no one would mess around with me. I am told that I have very big biceps and Pecs. Hows that for a loveable badass?
2006-12-20 20:20:37
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answered by Can H 1
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I agree, you are looking for a contradiction. Look for women that are in happy healthy relationships. Look at the guys they're with. I'm a typical nice guy and get overlooked by girls like you constantly. But there is a small army of girls that are clued in and resist their insecurities and instincts. these girls look for good guys and are much happier for it. i used to be frustrated by girls with your attitude. But I know you can't help it and there are so many other girls out there that value good guys with good hearts.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 20:20:07
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answered by Anonymous
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well you can't be an @$$hole and a nice guy at the same time. It's either one or the other unless your bipolar in that case I'm sure you'll find one in an insane asylum.
2006-12-20 20:17:22
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answered by A-Town Soulja 4
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They are out there for i am one. And my girl is a good girl. Don't ask me how but it works. It is the one you least expect, someone you think my break your heart until you melt theres!
2006-12-20 20:26:24
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answered by don b 2
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b/c there bad boy thats there image there reputation they cant act sweet but deep down inside hes the sweetest guy ever
2006-12-20 20:16:25
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answered by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7
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They are out there i have one in my city he is very sweet but a gangsta in other ways they are out there But they are just a little hard to find them if ur older then in a club but if ur younger at ur school or somewhere u can chill and hang out.......Hope i could help....
2006-12-20 20:18:13
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answered by happy_go_lucky 3
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