do you really not have respect for a girl after you have done stuff with her and your not going out?
2006-12-20 12:09:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! NO! NO! I STILL respect a girl or woman after no matter what we have done or didn't do!!!!
Guys who DO do this, aren't really men!!!! They are losers and users!!!
2006-12-20 12:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by luvsbjs_418 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean, should a guy have respect for someone that lets "stuff" happen to her, without being in a relationship, I'd say it's true. On the other hand, if you were going out with a guy and did "stuff" but you're no longer going out, if he doesn't respect you, he doesn't respect himself. After all, if he did something that wasn't respectful, it really doesn't matter if you let him or not. He's the one that started the whole thing by not being respectful to you! Make sense?
2006-12-20 20:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt say i didnt respect someone. though im the kind of guy that doesnt do things out side of a relationship anyways other then flirt too much for my own good. really it depends on the guy. most guys below the age of 23 dont have respect for women anyway and its kind hard to find a guy that will have respect. but as fo doing things with him. probably would be better done in a relationship then out of one. and other then that i think that he probably doesnt think anything of it at all.. really
2006-12-20 20:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Doing stuff' isn't too likely to change anyone's level of respect for you, really, if they're the one you're doing it with.
Now, it is quite possible that a guy who never respected you to begin with will toss you aside like a used tissue once he's gotten what he's wanted from you. You haven't lost respect in that case, though, you've just gotten him to stop pretending.
It is also quite possible that a guy will feel differently about you after 'doing stuff'. The feeling that is blooming in such a case is much more likely to be lust than respect, however. I suspect most guys in such a situation already lust after you... so again nothing is too likely to change, in my opinion.
2006-12-20 20:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys are nice,if they are not going with a girl any more, there are some reasons,that they have to move on. And it does'nt mean they don't respect the girl ,that they once cared.
2006-12-20 20:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first it depends on how long youve known the guy, a month or longer and i would say that i do have respect for them, if i just met her that day than my mind would say hey that was fun but how many other guys is she having fun with.......RUN
2006-12-20 20:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Hanky P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i respect girls. and the shortest relationship i have everr had was a year. and im a senior right now. soo some guys arent like that. but i would have to say..most are. since like. 3/4 of my friends are like that.
2006-12-20 20:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said, i respect her more after doing
2006-12-20 20:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by leon G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect has nothing to do with what you did...they must respect them self first before they can respect others.
2006-12-20 20:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still respect my girl
2006-12-20 20:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋