Well I'm 15, and pretty level headed. I don't care about who's doing what, so its not about peer pressure.
I've never had a boyfriend and I personally think it's okay to not have one, it actually easier to be without all that high school drama.
I'm the youngest or 3 sisters and the rule in my house is that we can't date until we're out or high school, but c'mon what teenager cares? Both my older sisters dated younger than me without my folks knowing. So its also not about lieing to my parents. ..But so what is it??
Awhile ago i had a HUGE crush on one of my friends and now i know that he liked me too, but one of my friends referred to him as my boyfriend and I replied by yelling " He's NOT my boyfriend!"
Of course he heard and we havent spoken since
then a friend of mine told me that he liked me...to me he was really just a friend..but i did have a bit of a crushon him...but all i could do was mumble something about a lady bug & leave
What is wrong with me??
2006-12-20 12:08:04 · 9 answers · asked by Joze 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you, you're 15 and are just acting the way any 15 year old girl would. Being comfortable around guys is just one of those things you learn over time as you grow older. You're only 15, you have plenty of time for boyfriends and dating. Girls at your age are more mature than boys, and you should just concentrate on school and friends for a bit until the boys catch up. They will in a year or two, just wait. Plus they'll be past that pimply voices changing stage, and will be way hotter. You'll be glad you waited when you're older.
2006-12-20 12:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel 1st off your parents not wanting you to have a boyfriend is normal. that is the way they show thier love, they care about you and they want to keep u away from gettin your heart broken. but the thign is is that they dont understand with or without thier protection you will ge ta broken heart.
but i cant give you an answer for the reason you acted the way you did. simply its just maybe you didnt reall yliek him, or it can be that even though your sisters have had boyfriends and you liek guys maybe you dont want one. the reason you did that is simply expressing the way you feel and think
hope i can help
and if you really want to go out with this guy or any guy and you arent out of high school yet, one thing you shoul dtry is telling your parents hey i have a boyfriend and hes really sweet and let them meet. not just simply lie or ask. by asking u give them the power and you want the power to control your life.
2006-12-20 20:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by suker4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like you feel stuck in your parents rules. having a boyfriend is a great thing, sure you are at risk at getting your heart broken, but there are millions of fish in the sea. dating (especially in high school) gives you the advantage & expirience of meeting people & teh joy of being in a relationship. i have a great boyfriend & he really supports me & helps me get through all my problems. we all need someone to lean on. nothing is wrong with you, your only a person & its great ot have someone to depend on, if you really care about someone dont give up because of your parents rules. sometiems you have to give up on rules & follow your heart.
hope i helped :]
2006-12-20 20:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that sux that u cant have a bf till ur out of high skool but dont feel bad i kno how it feels to be single for like 15yrs (been there) ne way im going through the same thing friends thinks that im dating a friend and well i would just talk to the dude and i think that every thing would be ok. and well i dont think that ne thing is wrong with u thats all and plus idk wat ur question is about like the whole "wats wrong with me" ya dont get that cuz well as far as im conserd nothing is wrong with u!!! so think that ur in good shape and well i would do the same thing as ur sises did just pretend that ur not dating and well date ne way gl with that whole thing!!!
2006-12-20 20:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem: can't date until outta high school. but i've snuck around too. in the beginning, i felt so scared of getting caught or something. i felt like a bad person lieing to my parents, but you have to do it if you want to date somebody you love. i have gotten over it i'm sure you will too! :)
2006-12-20 20:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're afraid of something. Afraid of losing a friendship? Looks like you lost it anyway. Afraid of having a relationship? How do you know if you don't try? There's really not much to lose if you like someone and they like you why don't you just go with the flow and see what happens?
2006-12-20 20:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. lol you just are a little nervouse i spose about talking about dating. i mean you havn't had a bf before and never really did anythign with anyone and so your a little confused on what to think of things because you never had the life experience
2006-12-20 20:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. thats the life of high school just enjoy it as much as u can. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-20 20:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hair
2006-12-20 20:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by dotcombust007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋