Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

Ok the last serious question i have posted was about me and my then fiance well not anymore, well we went through with the wedding then turned around and had it annulled. He dissapeared 4 a few days and when he came back he told me he had been seeing sum1 since september. He has known her 4 a long time and they recently started dating anyway i tlked 2 his fam and they all kno hes confused and really cares 4 me but he just isnt sure what he wants to do. I ve done everything from begging him 2 stay (i kno how stupid it sounds now) to giving him distance to coming back 2 him 4 quickies and telling him that i could let him explore as long as he came bac 1 day. but now i wanna kno wut i should do cause i love him more than life itself, he was my 1st boyfriend and my high school sweetheart and im not ready 2 let that go just yet also our honeymoon flight was scheduled 2 leave tomorrow . It would have been earlier but due to training at work it had 2 be delayed so how do i cope?

2006-12-20 14:49:01 · 19 answers · asked by I know these things 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend told me he is getting something for me for christmas because he wants to still be friends. We were together for 6 year and have been broken up for only 3 months, but I am already seeing someone else. What would be an appropriate "friends only" gift to get him?

2006-12-20 14:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by whatswrongwithme 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay my friend always looks horrible. She never fixes her hair, her clothes always has holes in them, she never brushes her teeth or takes care of her face or her nails. Theyre always dirty! She has funky feet and she smokes! I tried to fix her up but she refuses! People talk about her and she doesnt realize it. What can i do to convince her shes embrassing me and ruining my life too!!

2006-12-20 14:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2006-12-20 14:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by Majestic ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 14:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband works 13 hours a day every day. I am 9 months pregnant due any day and he is to tired and grumpy to even talk to me. I am so depressed and lonely. I don't know what to do. I pour my whole heart out to him crying my eyes out and he just falls asleep while im talking. He won't have sex with me and every time I try to talk to him he just tells me I am annoying him. What do I do? How can I make him love me like he used to?

2006-12-20 14:46:51 · 15 answers · asked by I_Can_Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 14:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by Stacy p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok tomorow i am thinking about calling lindsey and saying this I know your 33 and I am only 19 alot of people would say i shouldint persue you but there is just something about you that fascinates me. so like u said no ******** no drama would u like to go to the movies next week friday night

2006-12-20 14:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a plus size girl and I've never had a boyf and i think it's because of my size...so if you could help me out that would be much appreciated. Thank you ;-)

2006-12-20 14:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by Queen of Scream Fan 2 in Singles & Dating

What do I have to do for a guy to ask me out? (Not his friend or something) Thanks!

2006-12-20 14:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever I see this girl in the hall, she will look at me, but when her eyes meet mine, she turns away. We don't have any classes together, but when she visits my teacher, she is always somewhere I can see her. I have called her many times. Usually when I call, she answers. Her attitude is a little rough, but inside I know that she is sweet. She has a boyfriend right now, but something tells me that she really wants to give me a chance. I need to know how to get her to tell me the truth. I want to tell her the same, but I don't know when the right time is. She acts like she is uninterested. At one point of time she acted like she couldn't stand me. She always talked about me. That was childish because we are in high school, but we have started to get along now. Girls, your answers would help a lot!!!!!!!


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2006-12-20 14:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by bobby fisher 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is having a cisis or something he recently lost his job and now wont do a thing do i just need to just let him be or should i get on his *** to get a job

2006-12-20 14:41:50 · 19 answers · asked by mileamin69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you let a girl know you want to move to the next step and make out a little bit?

well i mean, we have already talked about it, and we are both fine with it, but i think we are both just too shy to make the first move? i dont want to feel stupid, and like stick my tongue out and lick her lips, ya know? how should i make the first move?

2006-12-20 14:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by edger 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my new boyfriend isnt a holiday person and i'm not a big christmas freak either but i still enjoy it. and when i asked him what he wanted for christmas he said he didnt really want anything? but i want to, so what can i get or should i not bother?

2006-12-20 14:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont wanna hurt her feelings but she just has problems what sould i do!!!! i just hate her so much i cant stand her and if you dont feel like posting it here than email me at glitterglow990@yahoo.com tell me some ways to get rid of her plzplzplz!!!

2006-12-20 14:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by Glittergrl 1 in Friends

I wanted to go to a new school to give me better oppurtunities to get into the high school I wanna go to, but now I miss ALL my old friends...I fell really stupid because @ my new school I only have 3 friends that I think are really my friends...V.S. @ my old school all of my friends were my true friends.And I had a lot of friends.The point is I feel like I'm losing my Best friend to a new girl at my old school and my ex and I are still really good friends and I feel like I'm losing him (as a friend!) to his new girl friend!!!Some of my old friends don't even say hi to me anymore!!I grew up wit theese people since I was in kindergarden and now I don't kno what to do because this is my fault!!!I'M JUST ASKING FOR SOMEONE'S ADVICE ON WAT TO DP OR HOE TO GET THROUGH THEESE NEXT 2 YEARS WITHOUT MY FRIENDS!!!i THINK i NEED THEM!!!

2006-12-20 14:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-20 14:40:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this guy at work who is older and I like him and I believe he likes me too. (He's 42, I am 22) We hang out at work and we always go to lunch together. Well, two weeks ago, he asked me out. We were supposed to go out last Friday and he ended cancelling at the last minute. Instead of calling me, I had to call him to find out. (I think the only reason why he didn't call is because he was afraid my bfriend answering). . . . . .Also, I kept getting weird calls over the weekend from a blocked # and I have this feeling it was him.

He knows I have a boyfriend who I am about to break up with.

So he tells me we should only be friends at work, nothing outside of the workplace. Then he tells me he should not take me out considering that I do have a boyfroend and it would not be right.

So, its been a few days since this episode and I see him at work and he hardly hasn't said anything to me all week. He would say "Hey" and that's about it.

What do you think he is thinking?

2006-12-20 14:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by vsweety 5 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed how frequently questions pop up. There are new ones almost every second! So I wonder why people are so interested in Love and Relationships?


Could it be the fact that so many questions can be sexual by nature, and that humans are attracted to sex?

Or could it be more than that, that people really do want to help others with matters that are seemingly more important than anything else talked about?

What's your opinion?

2006-12-20 14:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy.He is a real gentleman.We went to a fancy dinner together.He opened car doors,poured my water,pulled out chairs, payed for everything,a real gentleman.He kept leaning in close to me and kind of half whispering like he only wanted us to hear, as he talked about casual stuff. He told me how beautiful i looked that nite like 3-4 times.My friends all think he likes me cuz he did tha.This girl, one of his good friends keeps saying that she doesn't think he does,but he's really sweet to me.don't know if he actually likes me or if he was just being a gentleman like he was brought up to be(cuz his dad is).What kind of body language when he talks to me tells me if he likes me or not?one person says she doesn't thnk he might,but more think he might like me. I dont know what to think.I dont want to think he DOES like me and then find out he is just polite and really doesn't.That would be sad, cuz i like im alot.He also called me-to someone else he saidI was "His girl, and date"idk

2006-12-20 14:39:44 · 15 answers · asked by Katie the Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend of 5 years. We have known and been best friends for almost 10 years. I left her 8 years ago before we got married because I didnt think i was good enough for her..I wanted her to have someone better. We stayed friends over the years and never stopped loving each other. She has been in a relationship with a "boy" now for 5 years. They have 2 children. He will not marry her or take care of her or the children. He has cheated on her, left her numerous times, and even got another gril pregnant while they were together and I'm the one she always comes to for a sholder to cry on. Yet she is still with him. I asked her to leave him and marry me and she says she wants to and she will, but ive been waiting over a year. She promised me we will be together and married by next christmas. Her children love me and I take care of her and them even though she is with him. I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her, but it hurts not knowing. How long should I wait, am i crazy?

2006-12-20 14:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by Shaun F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my girlfriend is mad at me because I had spent a litle bit of money on a gift for her, it was only about 3 dollars, but she flared up about how strapped for cash I am and that I shouldn't have done it, now she won't even speak to me. What's worse is that recently I've been making alot of changes for her, an yet she acts like I'm the same as always. What shoud I do? We've been together for almost 3 years, just so you know.

2006-12-20 14:38:53 · 15 answers · asked by Annonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

i started off my relationship with my girlfriend very bad, lies and unkept promises, i changed...i have always been a very lovey dovey type person so i made it very clear to her, i was very caring, stopped lying kept every promise i made, i did everything in my hands to make her feel good and all she did was be a ***** to me, she was mean, ungrateful, gave me a i dont care attitude and did things i completely disagreed with, due to my past mishaves i put up with it thinking that i had to go through this cause i had caused it, i put up with it for a year and a half until i got fed up in about august, i told her what i felt and that i had gotten tired she assured me she didnt wanna loose me and started changing, every since she's been this sugar cookie to me, everything i wanted but the problem is i dont want it anymore, how do i tell her with out hurting her, could i just do things to push her away? we've hurt each other so much that i am too tired to keep trying, how do i get out now

2006-12-20 14:38:24 · 7 answers · asked by marco 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just moved to a new house with some roommates, and he's acting a little distant. I'm kind of nervous because I have a phobia about things going badly when anything about one half of the relationship's lifestyle changes...and right about now, I feel like the chemistry is waning a little? And we have SUCH good chemistry...I don't want to bring it up, and I don't want to try too hard. What can I do to keep things going strong? Sorry if this is a little vague...

2006-12-20 14:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have so many men after my love and this gets me really confused, i dont know who to say yes to because every new one appears better than the other..help me to love truely.

2006-12-20 14:37:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've had a huge crush on my friend for close to a year now... A few months ago I was about to ask her out but, she started dating another guy (she found out that I really liked her from a big mouthed friends gf) so I was kinda down for awhile and hung out alot with her best friend (and another friend of mine). But her best friend started to like me way more than I was comfortable with so I kind of let her down. She's since started liking another guy which brought some relief. About a month ago the Friend I liked broke up with her boyfriend, and the past week or so she's been talking to me alot. Like whenever she see's me in the halls or at lunch, and, we've spent hours talking on aim the past week. Does she maybe like me or is she just being really friendly lately? and would she ever consider even dating me since her friend liked me so much? ( Her friend did know about me liking her before).. and if she does like me how can I really be sure?

Thanks! and srry for the length.

2006-12-20 14:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

please give me your opinion about married without love.....

2006-12-20 14:37:23 · 14 answers · asked by ira B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Boyfriend of 5 years. We have known and been best friends for almost 10 years. I left her 8 years ago before we got married because I didnt think i was good enough for her..I wanted her to have someone better. We stayed friends over the years and never stopped loving each other. She has been in a relationship with a "boy" now for 5 years. They have 2 children. He will not marry her or take care of her or the children. He has cheated on her, left her numerous times, and even got another gril pregnant while they were together and I'm the one she always comes to for a sholder to cry on. Yet she is still with him. I asked her to leave him and marry me and she says she wants to and she will, but ive been waiting over a year. She promised me we will be together and married by next christmas. Her children love me and I take care of her and them even though she is with him. I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her, but it hurts not knowing. How long should I wait, am i crazy?

2006-12-20 14:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by Shaun F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to cut my TIPS and the stupid lady cut it up above my shoulders!!! omg i look horrible, my hair was long!!

soo i think hair extentions are my only option...right?
how do they look? feel?

2006-12-20 14:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, about five years ago I had found myself in love with a close guy friend of mine. Although, it was clear he liked me too, he never asked me out. (Had the courage to.) After a few months, I had to move to another city and we lost contact ever since. Now that I am in a new city, there are tons of things that made me just move on from him. I even fell in love with another person. So just today, my friend and I decided to call friends back in our old town. Of course my cousin actually had the number of the guy I used to like. I didn't think much about stressing to call him, because I love someone else now. My cousin and I were on the phone with him and he seemed really interested to talk with me. After we hung up with him, I felt really akward. Is it possible that I still love him? I don't want to though, we are are in different cities, and I just don't want to forget about the guy I love in this town. What do I do and why do I feel this way?

2006-12-20 14:35:32 · 22 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships