I wanted to go to a new school to give me better oppurtunities to get into the high school I wanna go to, but now I miss ALL my old friends...I fell really stupid because @ my new school I only have 3 friends that I think are really my friends...V.S. @ my old school all of my friends were my true friends.And I had a lot of friends.The point is I feel like I'm losing my Best friend to a new girl at my old school and my ex and I are still really good friends and I feel like I'm losing him (as a friend!) to his new girl friend!!!Some of my old friends don't even say hi to me anymore!!I grew up wit theese people since I was in kindergarden and now I don't kno what to do because this is my fault!!!I'M JUST ASKING FOR SOMEONE'S ADVICE ON WAT TO DP OR HOE TO GET THROUGH THEESE NEXT 2 YEARS WITHOUT MY FRIENDS!!!i THINK i NEED THEM!!!
2006-12-20 14:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I tried keepin in contact but I really miss seein them and talkin to them like I used to!!!!THEY ARE MORE OF A FAMILY TO ME THAN MY BLOOD RELATIVES ARE!!!
2006-12-20 14:44:57 · update #1
im sorry. try to do something over the weekends. get together go bowling have a party. even though i only have one class with my best friend every day we have lunch together. on the other hand try to make more friends with some of th ppl at your new school. tell them that they are like your family and that you need them.
2006-12-20 14:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by fernanda081491 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea when I was young I used to think I had to stay around my friends or it was going to be the end of the world. But then everyone went to different colleges, people move away for different jobs, competition and jealousy set in, and you learn to rely on yourself instead of relying on other people to define you.
Its all part of growing up...At 34 years old looking back, the one thing I would have regretted is to turn down a good life long opportunity just so I could chum around another year with the old people in my neighborhood. A lot of those so called "friends' dont really stick by you when the chips are down anyway. I would do whatever it is you want to do.
2006-12-20 22:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for the last 3 or so years i have moved around from school to school and i miss my frinds dearly so trust me when i say i know exactly what you are going through it is tough it is im not gunna tell you other wise but if your frinds love you as much as you love them then they are missing you too beleive me they are. also this whole thing about your ex well ya you probably are gunna lose him i wish i could tell you you werent but think of it this way you get a new boyfriend who is just way to good of friend with his ex, put yourself in his new gf's position
2006-12-20 22:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by babyjuggalette1993 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is one of life's lessons. You cannot control other people and sometimes you lose touch. It happens.
2006-12-20 22:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KEEP IN TOUCH DAILY by mail, email, the phone etc.
2006-12-20 22:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so stay in contact with them and you and your bf can make the long dist work.
2006-12-20 22:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋