I'm a plus size girl and I've never had a boyf and i think it's because of my size...so if you could help me out that would be much appreciated. Thank you ;-)
2006-12-20 14:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by Queen of Scream Fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a soldier and in good shape, but befor I joined I was vary over weight. Looking at the situation from both sides I can tell you this, no matter how much you mite like a person, there no good for you unless thay like you for who you are. Your personality should have the final say.
2006-12-20 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys dont care for plus size women is because there are lazy qualities that go into these women. They let themselves go and are always eating and not working out. It is unfortunate that most plus size girls are being fed that way when they are young. I suggest you to change your lifestyle by taking up a sport and change your diet, not go on a diet. But I dont have the right to generalize plus size women because there are so many different reasons for it.
But if you want to change, there is my suggestion. It will change your life, and you will gain confidence in yourself. Start off slow in your workouts, and go from there.
2006-12-20 22:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not because you are big at all. I was a big girl, and a very slim, fit, goodlooking man fell in love with me. He was not the least bit worried about my size and genuinely loved me for me. but since we had a child i have realised that losing weight is the best thing for my health and my childs welbeing. Now that im slim, its hard to imagine he could have loved that fat me, but he did. Asking this question is only going to make you feel bad, especially knowing that majority will more than likely say they go by looks. Dont be discouraged by them, because looks fade in time, wrinkles cant be covered up and boobs well they sag .. but inner beauty stays with you forever. If you have a look you will actually see that some very large women actually have stunning husbands/bf vise versa. Please dont ever think it is because of you, our world is just full of to many selfish, shallow people.
2006-12-20 23:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like big size girls. There is nothing wrong with them. I choose them over those skinny things all the time. In my opinion plus size girls look better! I just depends on how plus size your are. size 16's the limit.
2006-12-20 22:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cordario W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different folks, there are guys outhere that like heavier chicks, so called "chubby chasers". Just like there are guys that like those skinny boney chicks.
Myself I like well proportioned females , height to weight ratio. So what Im trying to say is just be friendly and if someone catches your eyes talk to the person at worst you may get a friend. You never know.
2006-12-20 22:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cyrinos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only asking to be hurt asking questions like that!
its personality that counts mainly
millions of big girls & guys get married so stop worrying for nothing
2006-12-20 23:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Favs. In female are the way they eat, the way they speak and thier feet. + size or not as long as they haven't got thier knuckles scabbed due to dragging them on the ground Thier OK.
2006-12-20 22:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but you did ask personally i dont give plus sizes gurls a second look but im big and i get gurls so maybe its not your size maybe its your personality
2006-12-20 22:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by DeathBe4Dishonor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, but all guys are different, some guys like twigs and some like more to love! its all in the intrests of the guy
2006-12-20 22:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Thank You!
2006-12-20 22:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋