Ok, so I've had a huge crush on my friend for close to a year now... A few months ago I was about to ask her out but, she started dating another guy (she found out that I really liked her from a big mouthed friends gf) so I was kinda down for awhile and hung out alot with her best friend (and another friend of mine). But her best friend started to like me way more than I was comfortable with so I kind of let her down. She's since started liking another guy which brought some relief. About a month ago the Friend I liked broke up with her boyfriend, and the past week or so she's been talking to me alot. Like whenever she see's me in the halls or at lunch, and, we've spent hours talking on aim the past week. Does she maybe like me or is she just being really friendly lately? and would she ever consider even dating me since her friend liked me so much? ( Her friend did know about me liking her before).. and if she does like me how can I really be sure?
Thanks! and srry for the length.
2006-12-20 14:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it but it sounds like she is using you as a rebound. Not that she is doing intentionally but people tend to do that, fill the emptiness from one relationship with another person. Accept that you are friends and may always be friends. Be happy that you are close enough that she has come to you when she needs someone.
2006-12-20 14:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by H K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she likes you. I just hope she's not treating you like you were her second choice. If she was going out with another guy because you were too chicken to ask her out (don't feel bad, I've done the same thing), there's a good chance she does like you. Why would she be with you so much if she didn't? Ask her "do you think we can go on a date sometime?" her answer should let you know how she feels. Betcha she says "Sure!"... if you wait too long, you'll find yourself right back where you started.. waiting for her to break up with another guy.... and that sucks. If she says "no, I think we should just be friends", well, then you can decide what to do from there. One thing is certain. Asking her won't make her dislike you. After all, would you get angry or upset if someone showed you they liked you by asking *you* on a date? Did you get angry when her best friend let it be known that she liked you? Of course not.
2006-12-20 22:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so the two questions are: Does she (spit swapping, tonsil hockey, over the blouse bump rubbing) like you? Or Does she (Im only talking to you cuz now I dont have a boyfriend who gets jealous of me having male friends) like you?
The rest of what you said is way overthinking this thing. Who you like, liked or will like or who likes or liked you is almost too confusing to even follow. Here's the thing, if she found out at any time that you were into her and she is trying to get close to you again it is probably because she is entertaining the idea of letting you "rub her naughty areas" now that shes not with the other guy. Chicks who have guy friends that they just want as friends and nothing more keep them at arms length once they find out you are into them. They don't end the friendship but conversations seem to be more awkward, or standoffish because they are afraid that if they are too familiar with you, you will take that as a sign to make a move. If it is just like old times when you talk to her and you are sure she found out that you're dying to slobber on her face, then she's probably ok with the idea.
Hope this helps
2006-12-20 22:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by peardietz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The realm of possibility is endless. What i'm trying to say is that from the sounds of it, there is a good chance she does like you. Maybe give it a few more days and then ask her if she wants to hang out. Asking someone on AIM is the easiest way to ask a girl out but she might thing it's pathetic. Just try hard to pick up on all the signals.
2006-12-20 22:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Silent.K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,I think she does,but,that's just my opinion.I think that if your not sure you should back off and let her come to you,if she does your safest bet is to say yes,she does.THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT!Don't back off to far cause' then she'll think your not get interested and go away and passably be angry!
2006-12-20 22:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're imagining it.
2006-12-20 22:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.....................................
She is available and she likes you. Go for it and ask her out.
2006-12-20 22:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋