My boyfriend just moved to a new house with some roommates, and he's acting a little distant. I'm kind of nervous because I have a phobia about things going badly when anything about one half of the relationship's lifestyle changes...and right about now, I feel like the chemistry is waning a little? And we have SUCH good chemistry...I don't want to bring it up, and I don't want to try too hard. What can I do to keep things going strong? Sorry if this is a little vague...
2006-12-20 14:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm...Can't you talk to him? I don't know how long you have been dating and what exactly he is doing to make you say he is acting distant. It seems you should be able to let him know your concerns and usually guys are pretty straightforward and he will tell you what's going on. If he sees himself in a long-term serious r/ship with you or if he is thinking he would still like to play the field. In general though I would say guys are pretty easy to read, you can take their actions and words pretty much at face value. If he is acting distant and the chemistry is waning, the r/ship might be dying, sadly. All you can do is keep doing what you have been doing that has worked, keep being yourself, being kind to him, etc. If he is just "not that into you" or the r/ship is destined to end, there is really nothing you can do. It is sad, but if this one doesn't work out, it's just a matter of time before you meet someone with which it will. Good luck to you.
2006-12-20 14:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by bellyyo62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a little partying going on, or the other guys have girlfriends that he would like too! Be patient, look around, and dump as needed.
2006-12-20 14:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is starting a new life in a way and is unsure of everything. Keep in touch so he doesn't get so far. Try asking him out to do more together.
2006-12-20 14:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋