Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

Well... this is a tough thing to talk about, but I have a friend who is like one of the 4 friends I have that are like the sisters my mom didn't give birth to, and well... she has a major problem she doesn't think is really an issue...The rest of us are concerned about her.
Since last week she has acted like a totally different person... It all started when her and thes two girls tried to sneak out of school to go meet some guy she'd only known 3 days. Everyone tried to stop her except the two girls going with her. Now, since Friday she broke up with the best boyfriend God could ever give her, and she's been dating this guy.. (he's 19 years old and she's 15) So far, they've gotten drunk (the friend and her boyfriend) and she doesn't know I know, but she lost her virginity Saturday morning, late Friday night... and we're concerned about her. I wish I knew what to do, should I say something, report Sagitory (sp) Rape, or comfort her???

2006-12-19 09:18:48 · 11 answers · asked by Headfirst For Halos 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 09:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by littleroseyposey 1 in Singles & Dating

why are there so many questions on what to get my bf for christmas? Thats something u girls should know aready. Do you not know your man that long if not then why even bother. a gift should come out of your thoughts and heart and showing him how much u know him not strangers.

2006-12-19 09:18:37 · 6 answers · asked by jdn85 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same man for 10 years. He is an entreprenuer and I have always worked for him doing whatever his venture at the time is. I always do the office work required. If there is no position for that he makes me feel like sh**
We are always in the same situation financially. Every year around christmas it becomes more noticable because we never have money to make ends meet much less do any christmas shopping until the very last minute. I am sick of this & it has been going on for the last 4 years. everytime I think it seems to be getting better, it turns out to be the same. He also expects me to wait on him hand and foot if he works all day, insinuating I don't work, & as if his time too important to do anything for himself that he doesn't want to bother with. Even at 3 a.m. if we are up he expects another meal to be made if he is hungry. It got this way because he made me feel like I was living off of him when there was no job for me to fulfill with one of his ventures

2006-12-19 09:18:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jenalyn 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom says that I'm too young to get married but when i'll be getting married i'll be 20! my mom was 26 wen she was married and she wished she waited a little longer!is 20 young?is my mom right?wat should i do?

2006-12-19 09:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What's the biggest misconception women have about men? What are we getting wrong?

2006-12-19 09:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so let's say a boy always trys to bother you and annoy you!
what are they excatly trying to say?is it a sign that maybe they are trying to ask you out?????that's why i need help i am soo confused

2006-12-19 09:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by Carolinex3™ 5 in Singles & Dating

I mistakenly sent a good friend of mine an email telling her that I had a crush on her. Even though I poured my feelings out, it was at the wrong time. Her ex-boyfriend recently died around that time (she didn't tell me about it) and now she's blocked my address. I feel terrible that I can't explain myself and now I've lost a friend over a misconception.

Was I wrong, or is she just overreacting? Will I get a chance to explain myself again or should I just forget about her? I think she wasn't worth it anyway if she won't let me respond.

2006-12-19 09:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by The Real Deal. 2 in Singles & Dating

When was a time you were inspired and how did it change your attitude or outlook on life???

2006-12-19 09:17:22 · 1 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this boy at school that I asked out before and he said no but I really like him. Now it has been 3 months later and he comes to my locker if he doesn't see me, he hits me then hugs me if I am at a friends locker that is by his, and he is always trying to make conversation with me(yo momma jokes). He also likes to flirt with other girls so I don't know if that just the way he is with girls. What do you think?

2006-12-19 09:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by moneerocks 2 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend and I wanted him bak but he said no. now he is REALLY REALLY mean to me. he keeps caling me and leaving mean voice mails.

2006-12-19 09:16:20 · 8 answers · asked by DUDE 1 in Singles & Dating

there a a girl at aftercare she acts so really and her friend is cool too which is my friend but she act cool like her and she plays with a guy that cool but how do they think im not cool and i wanna know steps to be popular ? plz help i dont like her because she acts like me and she really more popular than me .

2006-12-19 09:16:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, Heres the thing. I well, as you might say that was wrong ran into my moms room when the phone rang cause I knew it was bout her best friends whos getting divorced, bla bla bla, so i went under the bed to listen. Then the shock of all my life, I heard her say, hwo am i suppose to tell the boys(my mom saying about her and my dad) which my mom was talking about her friends divroce, my mom was saying my boys don't know. Me and Dan (my dad) are just getting along bla bla bla so the kids don't know. Which made me rilize why they sleep in different rooms and don't really socialize togther. So that= which makes me sad if true, that they are divorced with out me and my brothers thought. So do you know of a website were i can search their names to see if the had gotten divorced?

Do you think they would of told me? Because they stopped sleeping in the same room about 2002-03. DO you think they would of told me? Or am I making a big wHo ha? Im 13 too.

Thanks so much!

2006-12-19 09:15:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so we are two guys who loved each other like crazy for three years. He and I both had girlfriends before we met and for some strange reason, got attracted to each other, ended the relationships with our women and moved in together. After three long years, he realized that he needs to be with a woman, coz although we loved each other, there was no future to our relationship coz of acceptance in the society. I let him start seeing someone, as long as he loved me. But he couldnt sail in both the boats, so had to end it with me. He moved out of my home, quite bitter coz of an argument we had, and seeing that girl now. We met recently, spoke about it, he came home, cried, said he loves me, but had to do this to me, so we could move on. I hurt like crazy for a month wanting him back. Now, we speak to each other on the phone once in 2-3 days but its not like before. I still want some love from him, till I find someone. He says he cant. Should I be friends with him to help me overcome him?

2006-12-19 09:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when they are falling apart married?

2006-12-19 09:14:57 · 11 answers · asked by DontKnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everything I can do, she can do better. Please don't try to tell me there's one thing I'm better at than her, because there ain't. I'm supremely jealous and really ticked. She's a good friend, but I don't know how I can stand it any longer!

2006-12-19 09:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-19 09:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's pretty athletic... do you have any idea of what i can get him? thanx for your help!

2006-12-19 09:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have loved this guy since the minute I saw him and it was 3 years ago.
He never looked at me in grade six and this year i'm in his class.
We're both 12 but he seems to like everyone I don't, I really like him, but I don't want to be like Iris from the movie The Holiday.
She loved a guy but when he finally noticed her and went out with her he was cheating, then he got married.
And I'm shy, I don't want to be humiliated. or live my life wondering what could've happened.
He's so perfect and I can't imagine the pain I'd go through if he didn't love me back.
What shoud I do?

2006-12-19 09:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad was trying to call my mom 3 times anbd she wasnt there. when she got home i was on the phone and my dad called. i told him she was busy and she wasnt. and i could not get to her fast probably. then he called and my dad told my mom. when he found out she wasnt busy, he fliped out. should i be grounded? he said he might.

2006-12-19 09:12:46 · 25 answers · asked by cait12350 2 in Family

I haven't been in a real relationship in about 10 months. After the last one i decided i just wanted to have fun. But since then i've been with 3 different people who have girlfriends. (no there girlfriends do not know about me. and i don't usually find out about them until a month later..) Why do i always get involved with guys who are already in a relationship? Why can't i be the girlfriend for once?! It just seems to me that because of my bad rep. (which i've tried desperately to change) these are the only guys interested in me..

2006-12-19 09:11:59 · 27 answers · asked by Catalyst 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 09:11:53 · 2 answers · asked by Rebel 2 in Family

2006-12-19 09:11:19 · 27 answers · asked by Soumeya K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 09:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by Don't cha baby don't cha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like a really nice guy but when i've told guys i like them in the past, we can't even be friends anymore. how do i drop the hints so that if he likes me back he can make a move???

2006-12-19 09:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with a guy for about 5 years we have a little one and i heard that he is unhappy with me I confronted him about it but he says he is happy and nothing is wrong and plus he has been kind of acting off standish towards me. Should I keep at it or should i just leave it alone

2006-12-19 09:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by whoohoo2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some Advice in things to say or ways to break it off with my boyfriend. What are ways you have delt with this issues before? I would love to hear what some of you have done to handle this delicate situation. I don't want to cause him any more than I have to in any anger, bad hurtful feelings, resentment or confussion. Can you tell him for me......LOL...J/K......In all Seriousness....HELP!!!!

2006-12-19 09:09:43 · 13 answers · asked by daydreamer 3 in Singles & Dating

he used to like me and now i think he might and he keeps on making fun of this retarded name and a song and he used to hate it when people used to say it and now he makes fun of me when people say it and he loves it now he is calling himeself it and it rymes with fergalicious! dont ask

2006-12-19 09:09:39 · 1 answers · asked by cheergirl325 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating this girl for a few months now and now we are going out and i went christmas shopping for her the other day not knowing what i was going to get. Her friend told me of this pillow that she thought was so soft while they were there the week earlier so i found that and bought that and i went and found the softest pair of sweats i could find and the softest shirt i could find. I also got her some of those fuzzy silky socks just to add the the whole theme of comfy, Is this good or not? would you enjoy it if yuo were her?

2006-12-19 09:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by CrazyInLove 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but I'm worried about getting too attached. What should I do?

2006-12-19 09:07:52 · 14 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating