I have been with the same man for 10 years. He is an entreprenuer and I have always worked for him doing whatever his venture at the time is. I always do the office work required. If there is no position for that he makes me feel like sh**
We are always in the same situation financially. Every year around christmas it becomes more noticable because we never have money to make ends meet much less do any christmas shopping until the very last minute. I am sick of this & it has been going on for the last 4 years. everytime I think it seems to be getting better, it turns out to be the same. He also expects me to wait on him hand and foot if he works all day, insinuating I don't work, & as if his time too important to do anything for himself that he doesn't want to bother with. Even at 3 a.m. if we are up he expects another meal to be made if he is hungry. It got this way because he made me feel like I was living off of him when there was no job for me to fulfill with one of his ventures
2006-12-19 09:18:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jenalyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are simply letting him abuse you. If you can work for him then you can work for anyone. So get another job and move on.
2006-12-19 09:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 10 yeas its hard to walk away right? Do u love him u need to ask yourself? If he really loved u he wouldn't treat u like this. And money wise maybe he is keeping money aside away from u. Thats what i did with all my girlfriends. Just ans case it didnt work out. I would stop working in the same office. thats the 1st thng i would do. 2nd talk to him and say this should be a 40 60 % relationship or a 50 50 %. Not a 20 80 %. Lets help each other out.
2006-12-19 17:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on. A relationship should never feel like the one you are describing. He sounds like he is self-important and wants a maid. It sounds like you do everything for him and he does nothing but use you. I would have left a long time ago. Life is to short to be unhappy. But there are two sides to every story. Before any final decisions maybe you both should try counseling.
2006-12-19 17:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep doing the same thing expecting different results, that is called insanity. You can not change a person nor can they change you (unless you let them). Sounds like he has you emotionally bound to him. If you become more independent I believe he Support and respect you more, if he doesn't then it is a control issue and I would get out.
2006-12-19 17:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of this guy. He has no right treating you like ish. If your helping him out doing office work, he should be helping you out as well. Dont take it anymore!
2006-12-19 17:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you move on....try getting a different job instead....if he still is crappy with you then move to better pastures
2006-12-19 17:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and get rid of him
2006-12-19 17:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋