Well... this is a tough thing to talk about, but I have a friend who is like one of the 4 friends I have that are like the sisters my mom didn't give birth to, and well... she has a major problem she doesn't think is really an issue...The rest of us are concerned about her.
Since last week she has acted like a totally different person... It all started when her and thes two girls tried to sneak out of school to go meet some guy she'd only known 3 days. Everyone tried to stop her except the two girls going with her. Now, since Friday she broke up with the best boyfriend God could ever give her, and she's been dating this guy.. (he's 19 years old and she's 15) So far, they've gotten drunk (the friend and her boyfriend) and she doesn't know I know, but she lost her virginity Saturday morning, late Friday night... and we're concerned about her. I wish I knew what to do, should I say something, report Sagitory (sp) Rape, or comfort her???
2006-12-19 09:18:48 · 11 answers · asked by Headfirst For Halos 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you accuse him for having sex with her, he'll get charged with dating a minor and her parents might get in trouble because of her drinking and them not taking care of her. And your friend will hate you for that. Right now, let her know you know she lost her virginity. If she wants to talk about it, talk with her and comfort her. Most likely, she won't want to talk about it, so you just tell her that it's fine and that you'll be there for her in case she wants to talk. Let her know you care about her. More important don't tell her "I told you not to do this" or don't tell her "You should've listened to us". That'll only make her want to hit you and it will only hurt her more. Plus, it doesn't help her in any way. Just act like a good friend. Don't get into telling her what she should do. Most likely, she'll do whatever she wants. But if she sees that you're helping her, and not pressuring her, she might just come around and dump him.
You're a good person for worrying about your friend like that. Good luck.
2006-12-19 09:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Montez Grl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are harder to come by as you get older. If you two really click, you will have a lot to laugh and cry about when your older. Plus, you should look at maturity also. Some young women who are 19 can act like a 12 year old. Overall, age should'nt be a problem.
2016-05-22 22:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her about it. Let her know that you care for her and that she's one of your best friend's and that these other girls she's hainging around are really influencing her decisions for the worst. Also, the 19 yr old can't get someone in his own age group? Yuck. But 9 times out of 10, she's not going to listen and it sounds as if she's going to learn the hard way.
2006-12-19 09:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't report him that is crazy!
She's her own person, can make her own decisions and will face the consequences if there are any to be faced.
You're her friend, be there to support her, don't interfere with her life and what makes her happy.
However, if things get out of control, and he starts forcing her to do things or maybe getting her in trouble, then you should let her know you're concerned and speak up.
Much love.
2006-12-19 09:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and that punk azz, and then tell her that even though you might hate me for this I was only trying to be a good friend. Some times you might loose a friend for trying to help them but its for the best. Plus it seems like shes gonna drag you down. Thats not what friends do.
2006-12-19 09:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats not right. You should definatly say something to someone. Someone you can trust. Try talking with her and tell her that what she is doing is wrong. If she thinks that she isnt your friend then who cares. she is not a friend if she does all that stuff. If all hope fails, then you should talk to her parents. they will know what to do.
~ Hope al goes well...☺
2006-12-19 09:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report to the police.
2006-12-19 09:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Wandering Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Call 911 they'll help you!
2006-12-19 09:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... i acatually read all that, umm yeah that is statuatory rape, i would call the popos... but then ur friend will hate u
2006-12-19 09:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never mentioned how long they were...
2006-12-19 09:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by cma80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋