Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

its not him being white thatd be the only issue. itd be him not working, qualified, skilld. i cant b sure of thier reaction, i want us to live together and be ok.i know they wont be pleasd and will be more than dissapointed. they have started talking about me geting married and they know im not interested.
hes 35 im 25. hes not workd in nearly 10yrs and is doing an IT crs. he has a small flat of his own.im tired scared and just dont know what to do. i graduate nxt yr. his family is ok with us they are nice enough. he wants me to finish uni before we could live together. hes says wants us to live toghet but i cant be sure.
Maybe it would be best for all if i just walk and keep walking. leav them and finish with him.
Are thier many other asian girls in this situation? do your family accept him? How did u manage to be together? Im lucky i only have one brother so i dont think it would get to heavy .i dnt care how ppl in the street react to us. i dnt really wana loose my family.

2006-12-19 08:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by oscarthegrouch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't get over him , why?

2006-12-19 08:54:11 · 3 answers · asked by twiggy_vienna_love 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend at work. I happened to be smiling in his direction and he looked for a minute, but then went back to work. Also, he came from another direction and happened to kinda looking me, but this was after I saw him. Then he left without saying bye and he normally says bye. what do you think?

2006-12-19 08:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:53:39 · 33 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is lockup and he is the first one that I love and I know in my heart I will always love him no matter what.And he ask me to marry him and I said yes but he went to court on Friday and they told him that he has to go to trial on March 26,2007 and the trail that he's going to will not give him no marcy and his lawyer said that he's going 15 to life but his other lawyer told him that he's not.But what if he does go what do I do he's always been there for me maybe not now but he just cant leave jail than go back but he wrights me everyday but I dont think I can do it.I need some advice.

2006-12-19 08:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by hclover21 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it with girls now-a-days..How do I get this guy to like me, How do I know if he likes me...blah, blah, blah. I mean I was young once too but I was never that pressed over boys. I played it cool! If the boy likes you then he'll tell you! They're simple!

2006-12-19 08:52:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:52:37 · 26 answers · asked by Italyfan 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend's birthday is on friday what can we do before dinner?

I am taking my girlfriend out to dinner friday night, but i can't figure what we can do before we go to dinner. What are some ideas I can take my girl friend to do before dinner. I live in the Los Angeles Area. Thanks.

2006-12-19 08:51:27 · 17 answers · asked by Joe H 1 in Singles & Dating

because i can't seem to find a guy who wants raw passion emotional attactmentless fun!

2006-12-19 08:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-19 08:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad got divorced a while ago and to be honest i was practially jumping 4 joy all they ever did was yell at each other anyway wait i have to give u background info my dad is from a family where woman r only good 4 two things sex and cleaning my dad was the kind of dad that was gone all the time he would drop us offat my grandmas house and go *fishing* smoking cough dope whoa got to get that cough checked anyay he forgot me at school running about 3 times a week so id have to go to the office and call my grandpa to come get me and anyway i dont think hes even entitled to my attention am i being harsh???
oh and ps hes a frigging LIAR theres nothing he wont lie about

2006-12-19 08:50:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1. Gorgeous Guy with a good personality
2. Average Guy but is a Sweetheart

2006-12-19 08:50:15 · 50 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Singles & Dating

My g/friend and I have broken up several times. Usually she breaks up with me because she thinks I'm "not into her". Then each time she writes me emails saying how I've wasted her time and she wishes she had never met me. Then after a few weeks she will say how much she misses me and time we get back together...this has happened 4 times now. To be honest, I feel almost "guilted" back into seeing her. Then when I do see her I also realize I miss her. It just makes me wonder though if I'm with her out of guilt, lust, or love. I do hate hurting her but dang it I want to be sure she is the one for me. I worry she'll play this guilt game even worse if and when we're married to get her way.

I say this because another girl and I very much like each other now (as friends). It is just that I now have nearly 3 years of history with my g/friend. Starting over with another woman seems like such a task. Does my g/friend really love me or is she just being desperate?

2006-12-19 08:49:42 · 13 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to send something to my friend in another state and I was wondering if it was possible to be able to send it in a regular envelope if it's not to heavy and maby just put extra stamps on it? I don't want to send it through UPS so I was wondering if they had weight or size restrictions and if it would work or not.

To help clarify I just want to send a small necklace im trying to avoid costly UPS charges. The necklace would not be made visible through the envelope and it would be rather light but It would help to know weight limitations on envelopes.

2006-12-19 08:49:41 · 8 answers · asked by alkacue 1 in Friends

2006-12-19 08:49:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 6 months and although she says she loves me loads . she has dumped me because i wont move in with her . Can she still love me like she says or is she takin the crap

2006-12-19 08:49:29 · 17 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend had few bad habbits.And how can i let him know without hurting his feelings?While talking he always shows that i am the best, and whatever good happens that because of me.And he always praise himself.He had over confidence on himself.

2006-12-19 08:48:59 · 2 answers · asked by meetmanju18 1 in Friends

I asked this guy i liked out to a dance. he said he was busy. now everything is so awkard between us.?
what should i do?
i dont even know if he was really busy or not

i never really talked to him much (mostly on aim) but now i feel like i messed up everything. when i am with a friend of his (that is also my friend) when he came up to us it just felt so weird that all 3 of us walked away. (pretty funny though i guess)

what should i do? i dont im him anymore.


i dont wanna give up! i feel like its possible for something to happen.

2006-12-19 08:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got to buy my girlfriend a birthday gift next month. She's been hinting at this really nice diamond necklace/ear ring set but she always talk about going to Venice. I got a hefty Christmas bonus this year so I need to figure out what to buy her. The difference in cost between the two really aren't that great.

2006-12-19 08:47:59 · 20 answers · asked by Ced 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to break up with my boyfriend and we've talked about this before, but he tells me "I can't leave." So should I just unplug the phone, and not answer the door when he comes around?

2006-12-19 08:47:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is people change their after married? it should be happy married

2006-12-19 08:47:07 · 12 answers · asked by DontKnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't eaten in a week because I am so depressed and worried about him. He says he loves me, and I know that he does, but he is always talking about the other boy. I don't know what to do. He said that there is really nothing I can do, because we live so far apart, but I know one thing that he doesn't know. I can be his cure. He told me that. So, I think that I am going to go and see him.. to help him. I know that if he dies... I die. Please help.

2006-12-19 08:46:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i say to my best guy friend who i havent seen for 2 months.
like i love this kid so muchhh. and i miss him!!..
and i cant think of much to say..but i just wanna see him.
BUTTTTT...please think of things to sayyy<3

2006-12-19 08:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by DUHLAiNE♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 12 years old and this guy I like is in my class.
I love him a lot but he doesn't always acts like he likes me back.
He always dates these complete psychos and ends up dumping them. So how can I get him to ask me to the Christmas dance by this Friday?

I can't ask him out because if he says no he'll tell everyone and I'll be publicly humiliated, it isn't survivor it's middle school, I'll die.

And it is a good idea to drop signs, but what signs, I'm not very good at it.
A lot of guys like me, except the ones I like.

2006-12-19 08:46:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy in my class. he likes me. hes a really big distraction and i really DONT like him. i am scared of him because he is one of those guys that looks like hes gonna beat u up. i am a 13 year old girl who cant say no to anything! this guyis ALWAYS touching me. like today, we were watching a video in class, and he starts feeling up my legs and it makes me really uncomfortable! im afraid hes gonna try to do something! please help. i have told my friends, and they say dont worry about it. but i cant help it! i mean hes always hugging me and touching me and i NEED help! thanks

2006-12-19 08:45:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't eaten in a week because I am so depressed and worried about him. He says he loves me, and I know that he does, but he is always talking about the other boy. I don't know what to do. He said that there is really nothing I can do, because we live so far apart, but I know one thing that he doesn't know. I can be his cure. He told me that. So, I think that I am going to go and see him.. to help him. I know that if he dies... I die. Please help.

2006-12-19 08:45:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends are VERY emotional.

2006-12-19 08:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by brooke_wlox 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm conducting a survey....

2006-12-19 08:44:44 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lynne 2 in Singles & Dating