2006-12-19 08:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are just like me!!!!
my boyfriend left me for another girl and i was so hurt...haven't spoken to him since
i still love him but when we were together he never took me out, wrote love poems to other girls(not me though-_-;;;)and hardly did a thing for me...was even too cheap to get an anniversary present;(but i still miss him and think of him everyday!!!
what i learnt...???
many guys like me -- i am worth more than him and what i am missing is more the idea of having a boyfriend rather than having him as a boyfriend...or...mmm...sometimes i like the fact that he was also a musician and stuff...but he was stupid to leave me...a true idiot! what i have been doing to over come him is hanging out with my girls and going out and noticing how many guys are hitting on me etc...
written a lot on yahoo answers for help and talked to close friends and my mom...
i also found many self help methods i made up on my own...such as writing what i found attractive about him, the simplicity to find these traits in other men, what i didn't like about him(outweighs the positives), and what i have that is attractive(lot more than him), also...the memories...could these memories have been the same or even better if you had been with someone else?
also...i have made a paper doll of him which i keep in my purse and stab and write how he wronged me on the back(can't change what i wrote)
also...a journal to just write your thoughts is very helpful
good luck
xao:D
don't worry!!!!
2006-12-19 09:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to overcome past relationship and it takes time too. What you can do is to convince yourself that it was not meant to be and you must move on with your life. Years back I was in a similar situation and someone suggested a book: How to fall out of love. That book really helped me. Hope this helps.
2006-12-19 16:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not easy, but with time and new friends and boys you will heal and move on. I may not happen over night
2006-12-19 16:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im going through the same thing. I guess just move on.. as tough as it sounds.
2006-12-19 16:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making him fall for you too! Here are some tips: http://www.freewebs.com/aloveletter/loveletter.html
2006-12-19 17:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to move on?
2006-12-19 16:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋