My boyfriend is lockup and he is the first one that I love and I know in my heart I will always love him no matter what.And he ask me to marry him and I said yes but he went to court on Friday and they told him that he has to go to trial on March 26,2007 and the trail that he's going to will not give him no marcy and his lawyer said that he's going 15 to life but his other lawyer told him that he's not.But what if he does go what do I do he's always been there for me maybe not now but he just cant leave jail than go back but he wrights me everyday but I dont think I can do it.I need some advice.
2006-12-19 08:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by hclover21 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stand by your man. And talk to me.
2006-12-19 10:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Holly: It is time to say good-bye to this person, even if you Have feelings for him.
You do not want to be in a relationship where you can't rely on the person to stay out of trouble. Your relationship will be a roller coaster ride and you will be drawn into his problems and trouble .
Is this what you envision for your future.
A man should be working, grounded , good and honest, truthful and a good mate. He should care about you and how his actions will affect you. He did not consider you or your life. It is time for you to take your life back. get back to school. get an education and make something of yourself.
This is your chance... He has been removed from your life for a reason. this is your chance to get away and make something of yourself. Take this opportunity to better your life and your situation. I would not write to him anymore. Return his letters to the lock up and get on with your life. I am sure once you distance yourself from this situation you will realize that this is the best thing you could do for yourself....You will find new and supportive people once you make some positive changes in your life ....
2006-12-19 09:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He committed the crime and now must do the time. I'd move on with my life without him, he can do nothing for me now. If he tells me I'm not supporting him in his time of need, I'd tell him yes I am, who does he thinks pays for his incarceration? Us hard working tax payers that don't commit crimes, that's who!
2006-12-19 08:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can get married in jail, but you don't have to wait because that's half of your life being wasted on a man that's not guaranteed freedom
2006-12-19 08:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15-life?! wtf did he do???
daaaaaamn
well anyways i think that you need to find somone else because prison 15 years do you really want to wait that long?? i whouldnt plus you know hes not gonna be the same when he gets out o there i know you love him but i think you need to let him go...for your sake
2006-12-19 08:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by oklahoma girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm it's call MOVE THE HELL ON!!
he screwed up and is now going to jail and there is no reason on earth to put your life on hold for that ****.. nu-uh..
2006-12-19 08:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all you have to do is beilive what is in your heart. whatever u feel go for it. if you know he is guilty, he is. if you know he isnt than it is a good thing he picked you. because you will beilive in him!
2006-12-19 08:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by cutie379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that is soooooo sad i would wait and find out first!
2006-12-19 08:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend #1
send me photos of your body #2
2006-12-19 08:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋