My mom says that I'm too young to get married but when i'll be getting married i'll be 20! my mom was 26 wen she was married and she wished she waited a little longer!is 20 young?is my mom right?wat should i do?
2006-12-19 09:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes, your mother is definitely right. If this is the right person for you, it will still be right in two or three years. Your chance of divorce goes down as you get older. It's better to wait.
Your mom knows you best, you should listen to her!
2006-12-19 09:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 when i got married had my first baby at 20 and was divorced by the time I was 22 years old...Yes i think that 20 is to young to get married..But you have to do what you feel is best.. Take the time and think about 5 years from now. Will your love for him still be there?
2006-12-19 09:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom. You won't even be old enough to legally have champagne at your own wedding! Jeez, enjoy your 20's!!! I shudder to think the guy I would have married at 20 if I had had my way. I'm 31 now and engaged. I can't even imagine how miserable I would have been had I been married while I was in college. Have a ton of fun and enjoy the freedom only a single girl in the prime of her life can have! If it really is meant to be, he will still be there when you are 25 or 30.
2006-12-19 13:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by MelB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily! Listen to what she has to say, so that she at least feels like you are taking her advice into consideration, but let her know the way you feel. Maybe she doesn't know how much you love your future husband or why. Don't turn it into an arguement, because that will just reconfirm her feelings that you are too young to be dealing with something like this. Just make it a discussion between you two and hopefully she will understand with a little insight from you.
2006-12-20 07:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no numbers follow your heart. If you think this is the right man for you go for it. As for your mom well most parents are like that but, it's your life not hers because let me tell you even if you brought a different man home guess what she would still have doubts about marriage. Don't worry it's just natural mother behavior. It will pass as soon as she gets to know this man of yours. That is if he is A GOOD PERSON.
2006-12-19 09:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. Each situation is different. I waited until I was almost 30 to get married, and I'm glad that I had my 20's to just be free, but that's ME. If you feel that you have met your soul mate, and you're mature, and able to take care of yourself, then you're probably ready. Just take some time to really think about whether or not you'll regret having committed yourself so soon to one person, and not taken more time to just live life.
2006-12-19 09:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married the first time when we were both 19. My mom told me I was too young when in all actuality HE was too young and immature. I was divorced 8 months into it and he never moved out of his moms house.
2006-12-19 09:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Meleah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an adolescent, all forms of stuff is going on, so that's no longer ordinary to establish love from crushes. that's no longer ordinary for youths, who're nonetheless youthful and dealing with various adjustments, to establish love. additionally, outdoors people can discover it no longer ordinary to establish love, because of the fact they are able to't inevitably study your thoughts. additionally, you have been relationship him for basically 4 months. You never comprehend what is going to arise, and you won't be able to anticipate it that the whole life would be like the 1st 4 months. basically pass stable and notice how long you final. you will get married. possibly no longer. you won't be able to ensure.
2016-10-05 12:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get note book make two columns one is going to be the pros and the other cons , which ever one has the more points that's the one you should choose i mean i don't know you're whole situation so i cant really determine what the Best answer is i got married when i was twenty and now I'm twenty two and its getting better but it is no easy work marriage involves allot of give and take.
2006-12-23 08:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Yissel s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 is definitely too young to take on the responsibilities and challenges of marriage. Enjoy your 20's and settle down when you're more established and mature.
2006-12-19 11:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bill P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋