Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

i'm 15. and best friends with this guy Caleb. Well..Caleb likes MY best friend Sara. And i'm totally cool with that. he's like my little brother. so all to him. but yeah...lately i'm just feeling like i can't even talk to him, or hang out with him, because i'll be "flirting", and the whole school will think i'm a $lut for stealing everyone's guy. Even though Sara doesn't like him back. That's totally not my intentions...because i could never like him more than a friend, but i just have guilt now, for "talking" or "flirting" with him. is this right? am i right? or wrong? or whatever? =) please help.

2006-12-18 12:44:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl whom I've become good friends with (and developed a crush on) recently moved away. I just heard from one of her friends that her ex-boyfriend recently died and she's been taking it really rough. I only have her email address, but I want to say that I'm there for her.

Problem is that I told her how I felt about her a few weeks ago and she hasn't responded. I know that she's been having a very hard time, dealing with her ex-boyfriend's death, and now I feel terrible about telling her my feelings and piling on her worries. I want to say that I'm there for her, but have my feelings for her pushed her away? I really want her to know that I'll always be her friend and I'll be here if she wants to talk.

2006-12-18 12:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by The Real Deal. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 12:44:07 · 16 answers · asked by HorribleDeath18 1 in Friends

i need to know how to get a girl i like to be my girlfreind.

2006-12-18 12:44:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My problem is my husband’s mother. In front of my husband and everybody else she portrays that she loves me a lot but whenever she finds me alone she will be harsh and say hurtful things to me. I know she doesn’t like me but wants her son to believe that she is treating me like her own daughter. I can sense that she is speaking bad things about me to other relatives as well. She interfares in all our decisions and tries to control our lives.
When I discuss this with my husband he becomes very defensive about his mother and tries to justify everything she says. in fact, he doesn't believe that his mother only pretends to love me. This has created resentment in our relationship as I feel that he doesn’t trust me And he feels that I want to create misunderstanding between him and his mother bcoz im jealous. How should I handle this situation. Should I just tolerate what my mom-in-law says or should I confront her? And how can I win my husband’s support and trust on this issue?

2006-12-18 12:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-18 12:43:35 · 7 answers · asked by tolentino03@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

I know what everyone is going to say.. just leave. he is not going to leave his wife... he will cheat on you too one day..your not being fair to your husband either.. i heard it all. But it is not easy to just walk away. When we both when met we were both honest w/ eachother about being married, and honestly as bad as it signs all it was supposed to be was a one nite thing.. but it turned into something much more without either one of us realizing it, he wants to leave his wife and get his own place, and he wants me to do the same, get my own place, and date and go from there. I dont know i am not naive and I know that there is a big chance one day he will do the same to me. i am not inlove w/ my husband. He is a great guy, however he is from another country and leaves me for months to a year at a time to go to his country. I have put up with that for 5 years now. I dont know what to do. As i said when hes here hes a great man and great father, yet every two years he will be gone again

2006-12-18 12:42:47 · 26 answers · asked by angelofagirl22000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How to get over it??!!?
So, I have known this boy since i was little { 6 or 7} and we were friends till i was 11. Then we started dating. We dated for almost a year and then I broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because i felt i deserved better. Im 15 now, so we have been friends for 2 years. He tells me he loves me all the time and i can't say it back. { i have in the past though} Well, 6 months ago he went to the juvinile center and I was the only one that wrote him and accepted his calls. He got out a month ago and ever since he has not been the same. He acts like he is too busy to call me or stop by for a few minutes. 2 weeks ago he came over for 2 days straight then didnt talk to him for 5 days. And thats how its been. I have no idea what i did wrong but im sick of this! How do i get over him and stop worrying about the little asshole? Please help and thanks.
Also, yesterday when i came home he was walking down the street and he did not say one word to me

2006-12-18 12:41:45 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 12:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by hll 2 in Singles & Dating

here is some of the stuff that's happened...does this guy kevin like me??? what do i do??? thanks~~:)

band~ he's held the door for me in front of his friends (i even stepped on his foot said sorry and he didnt seem mad!) :P and when we were playin this game he butt-butted me like 4 times in front of everyone

bball games~he talks to me and i can hear my name when he's with his friends.. me and my friend called his house and asked if he'd go to winter formal with me he said no and later asked if i was really there and i said no ( but i was ) and then later i got the guts to tell him that i was there but he got a date later that night

FFA trips~ he asked me if i could see his nipple through his shirt lol :) and he likes to tell me good job after we finish our contests and give me high fives!

music~ stares at me alot with his friends...and he listens to me singing (i stand next to him) when we dance he touches me


THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR ANWSERS!!!

2006-12-18 12:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

His ex wife is constantly calling him with her problems as if he is supposed to fix them.we are expecting our son and have custody of thier daughter is she jealose or just pothetic

2006-12-18 12:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

see im 11 and really like someone but do u think im to young to have a boyfriend.

2006-12-18 12:40:37 · 41 answers · asked by bethgabb 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm with this girl for already 1 yr and we had some prob like 4 mothes ago and we broke up.. then she start going out with a other guy and making out after 1 mothe she broke up with him to get back with me and and she say that she love me and that i'm the only guy that have make him the happiest girl on this world..
and to day she told me the guy asked her out.. and she ask him where and do guy say just go out (i know that the guy want to get back with her) and i say to her dont take me bad baby i dont want to hear that u wen out with him or that u went out with him with out tell me and she sad i can't tell her with who she can go out... bc she never do that with me but i never wen out with a other girl
and my prob is i dunno what to do and wat can i do to controle her

2006-12-18 12:40:04 · 14 answers · asked by Backnight 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of a fregged-up society do we live in?
Our divorce rate is out of control, and even couples that don't get married can't stay together either. Being a single mother and absentee father is becoming the norm, and we get these ridiculous amber alerts where one of the parents "kidnaps" their own child. What's next, a man suing a woman for misuse of his sperm? Wake up men and women of the western world!!!!!! Get in a relationship, stick with it, and stop embarassing our generation for eeons to come. We should be ashamed!

2006-12-18 12:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by pipo barnbarn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 28 years old, and have had very bad luck with relationships. about 6 months ago i met a very nice girl who i get along with very well. The problem is she is 15 years old and im 28 years old. I know that its tecically wrong, but we really like each other alot and her parents have nothing against it. Im not after sex, i really like her on a emotional level. She is the only girl that i have felt comortible around in a long time. Opinions please.

2006-12-18 12:39:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 12:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 12:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife say,s it,s normal behaveior for girl,s now. but i think i should be her father and put my foot down and, !!exactly and do what, my girl is a sweet emotional girl, growing up , so dont be hard !

2006-12-18 12:38:37 · 40 answers · asked by belter777 2 in Friends

This girl at school always wants me to sit with her and talks to me a bunch. Showed me pics of her family on cell. I know it seems lilke she does, but for some reason i never can tell when girls like me. Unless it's really obvious. She seems nice, cute, has my values but don't really wanta date her, cause i dont like her as anything more than a friend.

2006-12-18 12:38:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has some fetishes he enjoys looking at. I have thought about getting a video for us to watch together, but would like to know how this has worked for other people. I want to keep things spiced up but I don't want to open a pandoras box that ends up biting me in the a@@....Any input would be great. Serious answers only please......

2006-12-18 12:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by Justwannaknow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance lives in England and i live in the U.S. and we've met each other twice and stuff but to get to the point, sometimes we have phone sex and just like in the middle of my orgasm i start crying and i don't know why i think it might be because i cant really make love to him, or that I miss him but i really want some other suggestions if that's not it. It's happened 3 times once like 8 months ago or 7 even and like the second time was like 6 months ago, and the other was 2 days ago. Just give me some suggestions please.

2006-12-18 12:36:03 · 11 answers · asked by katie_4_aaron 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 12:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Larenzo S 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know...!!!! So curious...
Thanks

2006-12-18 12:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom with an eighteen year old that will not get up and go to school. She just won't get up in the morning, she does work part time but not much and doesn't do anything to help out around the house. She has started coming and going as she pleases. I have talked, argued, yelled some, threatened to make her move out, but she just is not facing reality. I lost my other child five years ago and it has been a struggle for a long time. Counseling is not a choice here as she will not go and if she doesn't go to school full time my insurance will cancel her.

Any ideas , I feel like I have failed as a mom. She is a good person, but like I said is just not facing reality here and now that she is eighteen I just don't know what to do.

2006-12-18 12:33:30 · 15 answers · asked by tootaloo sue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my girl have been goin out for just like a week.
its a long distance relationship she lives 2 hours away from me,
we meat at a party. so then, well yesterday i called her to see whats going on den she said dat she has to tell me something n dat she feels really bad about it. so den we talked a little bit. so then finally she said that she had sex with another guy n dat she is sorry.
she said that she didn't know what she was thinking.
but since i love her i forgave her. but i'm still mad at her. so now i really don't know what to do.... i really don't want to lose her but what she did really hurt me. i havent gone to bed yet. so wat do i do?

2006-12-18 12:33:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I deleted all my photos from flicker but the frames stay on my Yahoo360. How can I remove all 6 frames from my page?

2006-12-18 12:33:19 · 2 answers · asked by anne 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love this girl nd we have a lot in common, nd i know her from about 4 month now but i don know if she loves me or not, can any1 help me plz

2006-12-18 12:32:21 · 24 answers · asked by bader ashraf 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my with have been separate but maintain a friendly relationship what can i do to make up even though she was the one who cheated on me, but i spill the bean to all family members wish i regret doing but i believe me and her are made for each other but she refuse to reunite because i spill the bean,i fill like the only way to connect is through friendship

2006-12-18 12:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by jean5099 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She works for a boss who loves to make peoples lives unhappy. So far this year 12 people have quit this company; they are down to 20 employees now. She is a single mother with 2 little girls age 2 3/4 and 21 months. Also she is going to school 1 night a week. She doesn’t want anyone’s help. She doesn’t hang out with any of her friends and barely talks to anyone outside of work.

2006-12-18 12:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by Greg P 2 in Friends

My best friend is coming home from the air force for christmas and for a month. Also, we have thought of dating but not till she gets out of the air force. What should I get her for christmas? Haven't seen her in 8 months so I'm not sure what to get her.

2006-12-18 12:31:46 · 21 answers · asked by ee 1 in Singles & Dating