To be honest, she doesnt want to be with you. Reguardless of what you do or say to try and get her back, its not going to happen. She cheated and obviously wanted you to know about it. She wanted an easy reason to get out of the marriage and she accomplished it. Even if she was to come back later in the future, are you not worried that she would cheat again? I would be. Once a cheater always a cheater. Thats how I see it. If shes still willing to be friends with you and its something you both want, then be friends.
2006-12-18 12:38:14
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answered by PfcsBaby 5
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I believe she is just using that you "spilled the beans" as an excuse for not getting back together. If she really wanted to get back with you, she would have already done it. It seems, sorry to say, that you may have lost her forever. It also seems that if you would reunite with her, she'll just cheat on you again. There is an old saying that rings true, "once a cheater, always a cheater". I feel the best thing to do is to part ways now, and continue being friends. There are many many other ladies who are just dying for a good man, so go for it. Let it go and get over her. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-18 12:39:43
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answered by cajunrescuemedic 6
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jean: You have 2 reasons for failure in this relationship. They are: 1) She cheated on you, too ! 2) You gave her an "out" by spilling the "beans" on her. Personally, I think the divorce laws are too lax today in this age. They need to be amended, so,that people have to make a better effort to reconcile instead of running from the problems. The cost to both, the economy and the tax payer is phenomenal !!! If children are involved, the psychological impact can also, be factored in !
2006-12-18 12:44:05
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answered by guraqt2me 7
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she cheated on you and she is upset?
you don't know how lucky you are that she left, just change the locks on the doors and find a new girlfriend quick
if you two were made for each other then she wouldn't have cheated, forget her and move on
2006-12-18 13:06:50
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answered by zether 6
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she was the one who broke the trust, apparently she got embarrased when u told on her. maybe she doesn't feel the same as u do, and we have no control on others, we can't make them do anything, they have to want to reuninte and come back to us. she refuses to come back because she is still involved with someone else, but tries to justify her actions by laying the blame on you. she just isn't ready to give him up yet. maybe some things are best when we don't try to connect with someone who has hurt us.
2006-12-18 12:42:34
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answered by jude 7
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You cheated too. Don't blame this all on her. I saw your past questions from here. She is lucky to have moved on.
2006-12-18 12:38:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask her if she wants to save the marriage or if she's ready to let it go.
If she wants to save it make an appointment for couples counseling.
If she's done then you pretty much don't have any options left.
2006-12-18 12:35:36
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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why do you want someone who is dishonest? and mad at you because you are honest? help me understand........I don't hear anything about her regretting what she has done..
2006-12-18 12:36:15
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answered by blackbeauty1 1
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If she did it once she will do it again, You deserve better, we all do. Karma will get her. It always does.....
2006-12-18 12:38:50
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answered by Doc 2
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NO THIS WILL NEVER WORK OUT
MOVE ON
2006-12-18 12:46:26
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answered by Anonymous
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