How to get over it??!!?
So, I have known this boy since i was little { 6 or 7} and we were friends till i was 11. Then we started dating. We dated for almost a year and then I broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because i felt i deserved better. Im 15 now, so we have been friends for 2 years. He tells me he loves me all the time and i can't say it back. { i have in the past though} Well, 6 months ago he went to the juvinile center and I was the only one that wrote him and accepted his calls. He got out a month ago and ever since he has not been the same. He acts like he is too busy to call me or stop by for a few minutes. 2 weeks ago he came over for 2 days straight then didnt talk to him for 5 days. And thats how its been. I have no idea what i did wrong but im sick of this! How do i get over him and stop worrying about the little asshole? Please help and thanks.
Also, yesterday when i came home he was walking down the street and he did not say one word to me
2006-12-18 12:41:45 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your question is really long. i don't want to read it. sorry
2006-12-18 12:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Remember what my mother always told me: "There are lots of fish in the sea. You will one day find your true love. Just have patience." It doesn't read like this guy is the right one for you. He may be using you since you were the only one who showed him any compassion when he was in jail. Too, you wrote it yourself, just now, that you deserve better...and I agree. If I were you, I'd try to avoid him and look elsewhere for someone new. Perhaps one of your girlfriends knows of someone nice that she could introduce you to. And, as a last thought, all of my girlfriends and I agree that girls mature faster socially and emotionally than guys do. So be MATURE about this situation. You're a young woman while he's still a boy--a boy who gets in trouble with the law.
2006-12-18 21:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by HoneyBunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the key words....juvenile center. To me that equals the beginning of "loser". Don't lose another minute's sleep over this. You deserve so much more better than him, and I really believe you'll be happier in the longrun without him. It seems that he's chosen his path to go on, and you don't need to be around that. Break off all communications with him, and find yourself a better man, who will appreciate you. Best of luck in the future.
2006-12-18 20:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is right before your own nose and not being a smart butt about it.
It is evident he really does not care one bit.
In a way he used you through his troubled times and if the ralationship were to continue he would continue to only use you when he wanted you.
You are way to young to be committed to one young man.
The best thing for you is to forget this dude go out and have a darn good time with others. Just keep this in mind, HE IS NOT THE ONLY GUY OUT THERE. you are young and a lot of life ahead of you. time to search and you have plenty of time. dont rush into it and get hurt.
Look and take your time in finding yourself a friend that will be worthy of you. dont waste anymore time with feelings on this looser.
2006-12-18 20:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of a 15 year old boy, and we talk a lot, and I feel that he's honest with me. I asked him last night if he thought that he could "love" a girl at his age. He said, "Not really. I'm too young to feel something like that. It's an adult emotion, it seems like too much to deal with." I told him that knowing what I do now as an adult, that you don't know what love is at that age. I shouldn't have been in such a hurry to grow up. BTW, our kids aren't allowed to date one on one until they are 16.
2006-12-18 21:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not the same people at 15 as we were at 6. We are also not who we will be at 25.
It sounds like it is time to move on. Let him be a juvenile delinquent on his own. You deserve someone who treats you well.
2006-12-18 20:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him you deserve to be treated better it sounds like your a very caring girl you need to get over him. The best way to start is to call me imma treat you like a true queen and i'll show you how it feels like to be dating a real man. By the way im 16 years old.
2006-12-18 20:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by blackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're sorry the relationship didn't work out, but that was years ago, and you realy don't love him like that. say you would like to remain friends, but if he's having issues right now you understand, and he can talk to you about him.
It;s probably not you, people who ignore you usually have their own problems they're dealing with, and they just don't want to interact with other people.
2006-12-18 20:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by blankstares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he's very nervous around you, because he had lost all his confidence. If you just want to be his friend, you'll have to be direct and truthful. If you want things to be taken slowly, you'll have to tell him that. Everything is solved through the word of mouth.
2006-12-18 20:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like this boy is walking all over you because you are letting it happen, love yourself and stop letting him treat you like that , you are only 15 and do not have to be worried about him focus on you , and pamper yourself , and hey ignore him,,he will wonder what is up and he will be calling you alot, but serriously dont put up with him and his games
2006-12-18 20:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by delana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you deserve someone who won't ignore you and will be happy to see you! don't put up with a guy who doesn't treat you with respect and makes you feel like you are a princess. you are better then that! and you deserve better then that. you're young. get out and start looking for someone who will be nicer towards you:) good luck
2006-12-18 20:44:44 · answer #11 · answered by flyhunny7879 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋