His ex wife is constantly calling him with her problems as if he is supposed to fix them.we are expecting our son and have custody of thier daughter is she jealose or just pothetic
2006-12-18 12:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well they both have a kid together, so reguardless, they'll be in contact with eachother. As far as her calling for no aparent reason, other than her wanting to talk to him about nothing, then he needs to stand up and be a man and make her stop doing this. If it doesnt concern their child, then he needs to explan to her that she shouldnt be calling. It sounds like shes a drama queen that loves his attention. She could also be jealous of y'all relationship. If he tells her to stop and she doesn't, then you need to talk to her next time she calls and demand she stop. I hope y'all can get things straightened out soon and congrats on the lil one!
2006-12-18 12:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has custody of their child there should not be a great need for them to have too much contact. She could not be a very good mother not to have been granted custody of her own child anyway. She cannot cause problems between the two of you unless you allow her to. She could possibly be jealous but she is definately pathetic. Your boyfriend needs to be very firm with her and let her know that the only contact he wants with her is purely regarding their daughter and nothing more. You need to speak to him and explain exactly how you feel and let him know that her ringing all the time is putting a strain on your relationship. He is with you now, she is his ex and he needs to realise that. You two have your own baby on the way now and you do not want anything to stand in the way of your happiness especially now. Good luck, all the best with bubs and Merry Xmas to you all.
2006-12-18 13:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above answer, because they share a child they will always communicate. It's up to your boyfriend to keep the conversations strictly on the subject of their daughter. And if the two of you have a strong relationship, you can let her pathetic behavior roll off your backs.
2006-12-18 12:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to establish boundaries such as telling her the only thing that is up for discussion between the two of them is their daughter. Trust me if he does not set up boundaries now you are screwed for the rest of your relationship with him. He will always let her screw up your lives no matter what the situation might be. Speaking from experience here.
2006-12-18 12:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by lookingfor_mrrightnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His ex wife still loves him, but are you married to him? He has a daughter with her, so they will be connected for life because of that. If they are talking, you should just leave them alone & let them talk. They have the right to, because of their daughter. I don't think she's jealous of you, I don't think she's pathetic either. They may just be talking about their daughter, she has to keep in touch, she has the right to. Don't interfere unless you feel that they are seeing each other again.
2006-12-18 12:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jamie: She is pathetic and needs to be visited with a restraining order placed in her hand. Your b/f needs to have the intestinal fortitude to stand up to her and draw the line in the "sand". Does the mention of the movie, Play Misty For Me, sound familiar ? Good luck on this one, Jamie !!!
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2006-12-18 13:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend no longer something with regard to the militia so i won't be able to help you there. yet you are able to consistently pass to courtroom and record a restraining order, she sounds a sprint nuts. you are able to save all the loopy emails, and texts as information. Have your husband consult together with his mom, what she's doing is likewise loopy. If that doesn't paintings your husband and you may desire to distance your self's from her, exchange your selection and so on, a minimum of till she calms down. If no longer something works you are able to consistently attempt family individuals counseling. i'm sorry, no longer basically did you get a loopy ex, yet you besides could have been given a loopy mom in regulation.
2016-10-05 11:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as there is a child involved there is going to be communication, but it is up to your husband to set the ground rules.
2006-12-18 12:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by mamadana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋