Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Im in a interracial relationship with A white guy( and was in another before my b/f)- wanted to know whether Black women who have dated outside their race feel about it. Personally I dont prefer one race to another, I just happened to date white guys, but have dated 2 black guys before.

2006-12-17 12:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by T-Keiler 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:28:44 · 15 answers · asked by Cheerleader 1 in Singles & Dating

I have love promblem PLZ HELP ME !!!!!?
ok now my boyfriend and I have just broken up ,because Last night at a nine night I met my friends cousin and he was intrested in me. i told him i had a boyfriend and we danced and stuff because i was drunk.i gave him my number and he said he was tried so he asked me if he could lay on my leg and i said yes and thats about it.i told my boyfriend because i believe we should have a honest relationship ,and well he dumped me after we got back togethter the same night. i forgave him for looking his ex while with me. HE IS SUCH A (PLEASE INSCERT NAME IN HERE) WHEN U ANSWER THE QUESTION . I MAKE ONE MISTAKE AND HE HAS DONE ME SO BADLY

2006-12-17 12:27:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is in 5th grade. He's quite smart, but really spoiled. He has a cell, PSP, PS2, XBOX, and is about to get a PS#. Isn't he a little young to have all those things. I'm quite older than him and even I don't have a cell. I get so annoyed around him because he's such a show of in front of me and my brothers. His dad just gives and gives to him. Obviosly I can't stop him. I don't want to say something mean because he'll tell his parents. Sometimes I feel like telling him off. I tell my brothers why they get so obsessed with him all the time. Like for example- "Hey you know David's getting his own PS3" all I say is "Yea thats great\'. In a completly bored voice.

2006-12-17 12:25:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've heard people say it a lot! I know it's some sort of seductive thing but what exactly is it? im sorry.....not an experienced man! :$

2006-12-17 12:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by Animal Mother 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a twin and i havent dated b4 but im honor student and quiet in school.So I feel kinda of weird because i guess everybody is expecting me to stay in my books.Also my twin sister is tomboyish n im not (she is all about skool n no fun)

2006-12-17 12:23:55 · 22 answers · asked by kellz178 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone who's ever heard this song knows it's about a man and a woman.. who are secretly meeting and having an affair while both have responsibilities at "home." Is monogamy truly a natural trait of man, or is it the result of religious brainwashing? Do you think monogamy is an artificial concept set up by our society for structure and convenience? (Marriage and the family unit). If monogamy was so "natural" to man's inherent composition, why do songs like these exist?
Do you think true love can result from an affair, married or unmarried?

I can't wait to hear your respectful, well thought out answers!

2006-12-17 12:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I remember Middle School and High School girls mean to me and everyone else. Did that happen to you?

2006-12-17 12:23:43 · 17 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a very close friend that have on the internet and she has been going through a rough patch lately. I was looking for some cute and creative ways to cheer her up. I wanted to do something for her so when she opens her e-mail it will bring a smile to her face. I love her dearly and I hate to see her so down this time of year. Hopefully you guys out there can help me bring a smile to a very special person.

2006-12-17 12:22:15 · 2 answers · asked by Bane 1 in Friends

2006-12-17 12:22:01 · 2 answers · asked by nervus kid 1 in Friends

2006-12-17 12:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by edel 1 in Singles & Dating

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It's from Tiffany & Co, the problem is she has two necklaces already that I like on her (I just like this one too) and thats kinda the top of my price range (im a struggling college student. I know a necklace is kinda cliche but I'd want to give it to her in a cute way or surprise her somehow. She likes silver and white gold and I feel like she'd like it.... We've been together for 4 months but we're closer than that sounds cause we dated for 4 months before that

2006-12-17 12:21:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this new co-worker,,i have big time crush on her,, friday after work everybody decide to go for drinking, except I was not invited.. this was arranged by one of the b i tch coworker,, she hate me.. so when I asked by coworkers, can I join,, they said no,,b/c she arranged it and I am not invited.. But I WENT anyway.. My crush was also there.. saw me.. So do you think i lost any chance with her,, B/c I fell desperate?
what i should do,, i fell so bad, this b-i-tch arrange everything,, going for coffee break/lunch etc,, every body go excetp they dont aske me.. I am tired of this thing, Should I just quite job, or ignore the coworkers and keep doing my work,, these are mid level coworkers,, Big bosses sit in different places, so when every body go,, i am only one left there...You know my felling.. i thought this new girl can be my friend, when she started, she was nice to me, now it seem she also been influnced by the b itch

2006-12-17 12:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who lives 24 hours away? We've been long distance since he moved about a month ago but I'm ready for it to be over. How do I bring it up? How do I let him down gently?

2006-12-17 12:21:30 · 3 answers · asked by Blondie82 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:21:18 · 2 answers · asked by Halo Mom 7 in Family

When i went on a vacation she keep on following me every where I go even my parents don't like her because her grandparents didn't take care of her and she is very arrogant and foolish she never listen to me even though i'm older than her please help me!!

2006-12-17 12:20:08 · 21 answers · asked by prado v 1 in Family

Feeling Guitly about cheating??????
Cheating and Guilty behavior?
Boyfriend came to see me today, he not in a long time because i always go to his place. He was VERY affectionate and asked me to "just hold him a while" he then said he had to leave cause he had something to do. He got a haircut that day and was looking really nice. however when he was leaving i noticed that his clothes had become wrinkled from lying on the bed, if he was going to see a girl would he have done this???......what is going on with him, why was he so affectionate, he was then asking me if i would ever cheat on him i guess because i told him about this guy that asked me out the other day. What do you think is going on with him?

2006-12-17 12:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Singles & Dating

he is in my last period class and talks to me sometimes and sometimes he eavesdrops on my conversations with other people and joins into the conversation. He is shy. i play soccer and so does he and we talk about soccer a lot. i see him around school alot but we only talk in class.

2006-12-17 12:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by socccerchic9 1 in Singles & Dating

I've know my best friends forever, and everyone says we are a cute couple and we should go out, but we never have. He's gone out with other girls, but since I've meet him he hasn't really gone out with anyone. And people are starting to wonder "is he gay?" & know I'm wondering, is the reason we've never gonna outm is because he's gay????

2006-12-17 12:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me

2006-12-17 12:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Latrice T 1 in Friends

Ok i really need help with this one. im not craving girls anymore. im not craving anything anymore. its like one day i was making out with girls left and right then the next i dont really want to or feel the need to. is it my hormones? and i was thinkin to myself if my gf asked me to have sex right now id be happy but not that excited. im a teenager. whats going on? is it my hormones? am i gay? im not attracited to guys thought. so idk what it could be. please help me

2006-12-17 12:18:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you get someone you really care about out of an abusive relationship when they never listen to you but it is destroying their lives and others??????????

2006-12-17 12:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Lil_ jay 1 in Family

My hubby is white and although he seems very attracted to me and is very personable and friendly to my sisters and my friends,he seems friendly,but there's always a rigid and defensive undertone in his behavior when around my brothers or any other black male he comes in contact with. His mother is friendly and personale with me,but VERY rude,rigid and defensivearound any black men.With black women,she behaves OVERLY nice(almost sarcastic).What could this be?

2006-12-17 12:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family

I am 22 years old. I have had a couple boyfriends, but all they want to do is be intimate all the time. They never want to spend quality time with me. Where do I go to find a nice guy that I can have a relationship with on all levels?

2006-12-17 12:16:47 · 15 answers · asked by tifftiff521 3 in Singles & Dating

then he told me jokes! Why? My guy friend's almost 3 years younger than me and likes to prove me wrong! He called me a liar cos i didn't remember something I'd said and he was right - is he serious? I love him and he's been my friend for 11 years, was he joking?

2006-12-17 12:15:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:15:35 · 14 answers · asked by JACKZACK 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone,

I am a Muslim Lebanese.

I met my boyfriend in the US during my studies. I came back to my home country giving up a good life there. We have a long distance relationship now. He comes and visits me once in every month and he wants to marry me.

He is from a small town in Kentucky. I met his whole family and his parents. I am the first foreigner person they met!! His whole family is very conservative Christians. They support the war and are completely ignorant to world issues and see muslim countries as "places to refine"

His father keeps sending me emails and tells me that he has a thousand questions that I should answer before he can bless this "union". His mother masters how to make people feel uncomfortable, she is single, very judgemental, suspicious, and unsociable. She also expects too much from her son.They are coming to Lebanon in February to meet my family?!?! How shall I deal with them?

Now, he wants to go to Amsterdam and elope ??!! Please help.

2006-12-17 12:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by katerina_krinis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 12:14:29 · 23 answers · asked by Lonely Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm American and she is from Peru, she came here three years ago

She loves me and I love her,, so you would think that we would at least stay together for a whie but here is the problem

her family which are all illegal immigrants are ignorant towards Americans,, not all but some like her sister in law

this is her best friend, but she will tell my girlfriend bad things about me and the problems with stupid gringos, If I ask my girlfriend to come out with me,,she will have to tell the women, and she will always say,,,what with that stupid,,boring gringo

she and a few others are really trying to manipulate her into breaking up with me,,,,,Im tall and good looking,, so maybey it is becuase they are jealous I don't know,,but they have a lot of influence over her,,and it really bothers me

I brought it uo once to my girlfriend and she said that these are her best frinds and she takes what they say seriously

2006-12-17 12:14:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are teenage girls most attracted to in a guy? I am interested in this girl and I want to know what most girls are attracted to personally. Im 15 so is she. Personality wise.

2006-12-17 12:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by Donovan G 5 in Singles & Dating