2006-12-17 12:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by edel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. You could be the best looking man in the world and your cruddy attitude can make you ugly.. the not so good looking people in the world can become attractive with their great attitudes. Become their friends.. if it was meant to be then it will happen.
2006-12-17 12:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good link for you to read regarding how to attract a girls attention when you are not so handsome to and make her like you, is posted below. It is a little site called intellectualwhores.com. It describes how many men are being used by women to help do their homework, be just like a brother to them, be nice to them, and someone with whom they can talk about anything with, and even have you being just like a teddy bear to them. But sadly, that is all they would EVER want you for, and nothing else. Meanwhile, they are going out with a young tattooed biker who is not that good looking and she is giving him EVERYTHING that he wants. But how can you tell where you stand? What do women really think of YOU? Take a look at the "Ladder System" pages, and you will learn that many men are only being used, and the all the attention that they are getting from us, is really not what we bargained for. I hope this helps.
2006-12-17 13:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by bruce041 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see, girls don't care if you are handsome. They are blind to handsome looks. You see this all of the time. A pretty girl hanging out with some ugly fat bum.
You need to focus on what really attracts her. And the best advice is emotional stuff.
2006-12-17 12:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but if a girl doesn't like you because of the way you look that will not change. Now if she wants you for just a friend she probably wouldn't care about your looks so much. but my advice for you is to try and be friends first, get her to trust you , see the person inside then maybe she could over look your appearance. But what makes you think she wouldn't like your appearance. Maybe if there is something you could change that would improve your appearance your hair , way of dressing but if a person is only after your apperarance they aren't worth having. good luck to you. oh yeah you need to learn how to talk, your question should have read like this "how to get a girls attention when your not attractive and get her to like you.
2006-12-17 12:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by SHERRY L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone like you. But, to get a girl's attention you can make her laugh, take an interest in what she likes. Be a good listener. Offer to help her out. Oh and talk to her and tell her your true feelings.
2006-12-17 12:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl...Most girls like guys with a good personallity. While other girls like guys with good looks. But if u really want a girl, go up to a girl and comment her then walk away, she'll come running after u, and she'll be way more interested in a guy that doesn't hit on her.
2006-12-17 12:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Megan :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smell good. Nice cologne or even after shave. Its a huge turn on. Be funny but not over the top and show an interest in her life. Share your life,too. all one day just to say hi or if she was freaking out over something,call later to see how it went. She'll think,wow,what a great guy,and he smells good,too,lol.
2006-12-17 12:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make funny jokes,and who told u u a re not handsome ,dont let anyone make u feel u dont deserve what u want go for it
2006-12-17 12:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out and get a cut body.. and be confident.. many girls can overlook a face that's less than model-like if you have a cut body, a good personality, and a lot of money..
2006-12-17 12:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question can be best answered in a song:
I'm Gonna Make You Love Me
Madeline Bell
Written by K. Gamble, J. Ross and J. Williams
I'm gonna do all the things for you a man wants a girl to do
Oh baby, oh baby.
I'll sacrifice for you, I'd even do wrong too, oh baby.
Every minute, every hour, I'm gonn'a shower
You with love and affection, look out it's comin' in your direction!
I'm gonn'a make you love me. Yes I will, (yes I will) Yes, I will!
I'm gonn'a make you love me. Yes I will, Yes I will.
My love is strong you see I know you'll never get tired of me
Oh baby, oh baby.
I'm going to use every trick in the book to try my best to get you
hooked
Oh baby.
Every night, every day, I'm gonna say
I'm gonn'a get you, I'm gonn'a get you,
Look out boy 'cause I'm gonn'a get you.
I'm gonn'a make you love me. Yes I will (yes I will) Yes I will!
I'm gonn'a make you love me. Yes I will (yes I will) Yes I will.
woooooooo, woooooo,
Every night, every day, I'm gonn'a say
I'm gonn'a get you, I'm gonn'a get you,
Look out boy 'cause I'm gonn'a get you.
I'm gonn'a make you love me. Yes I will (yes I will)
Believe i will (yes i will)
You know that I'm gonn'a make you love me,
Yes I will woooo, yes, I will
I'm gonn'a make you. . .
2006-12-17 12:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Double O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋