Help I'm in love with this girl but there is a problem?

Question

I'm American and she is from Peru, she came here three years ago

She loves me and I love her,, so you would think that we would at least stay together for a whie but here is the problem

her family which are all illegal immigrants are ignorant towards Americans,, not all but some like her sister in law

this is her best friend, but she will tell my girlfriend bad things about me and the problems with stupid gringos, If I ask my girlfriend to come out with me,,she will have to tell the women, and she will always say,,,what with that stupid,,boring gringo

she and a few others are really trying to manipulate her into breaking up with me,,,,,Im tall and good looking,, so maybey it is becuase they are jealous I don't know,,but they have a lot of influence over her,,and it really bothers me

I brought it uo once to my girlfriend and she said that these are her best frinds and she takes what they say seriously

I just want my girl HELP ME

RACISM SUCKS

Answer 1

"I brought it uo once to my girlfriend and she said that these are her best frinds and she takes what they say seriously"

RED FLAG.

****BIG**** RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Best Friends" in MY book respect friends boyfriends/girlfriends, are not racist, do not Judge, and do not have to know what I do with my significant other at every moment, and do not try to manipulate me.

These people will not change and it will NOT get better.

It sounds like you need to give her an ultimatum -- "your friends or me"? Unfortunately, it sounds like from what you are describing she is already favoring her friends. It is up to you, but is this really someone you want a long-term relationship with?

Answer 2

Well, you must think seriously about the girl, because if she is going to consider first what her friends think ,instead of what you are offering her, love, you are going to have a hard time -

Answer 3

i know what you mean.
try talking to her make her see that your sensitive and want her to change.
not to be mean or anything but some girls are two faced.
if she won't change and she not serious enough to have a relationship with you then ask her to change see how it goes tell her to stop thinking about herself and think about you to in your relationship.
if she doesn't like it then tough ****!
some of them only like to think of themselves.

Answer 4

Try crossdressing, It is more fun and less complicated.