Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

My last relationship was going wonderful. I was doing everything that I knew to do to make him as happy as possible which made me happy as well. We were together for several months and I could tell that I was very loved. Then I noticed that after several more months that he was falling out of love with me, He just stopped being open and talkative with me and I didn't make an effort to talk to him when I noticed that he was shutting down. I don't know what I did wrong to make him close me out. It had nothing to do with any other women either. What's the best way for me to keep a mans attention on me to where this won't happen to me again. Should I try to call him to try to work things out with him or should I just leave it alone and move on? It's been a month since we both talked to each other.

2006-12-17 12:59:40 · 13 answers · asked by airtightreality 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by bex 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a foreign exchange student this year and after I asked her to be my girlfriend (third date) she said she didnt want to have a boyfriend because she didnt want either of us to get hurt. That was two months ago. We spend almost all of our free time together and lately we have acted exactly like boyfriend and girlfriend without the kissing, holding hands, etc. She tells all of her friends (even guys) in her language "I love you as a friend" but she won't tell me that. I like just being friends but I dont know if I can stand not to ask her out or kiss her. To me she is the perfect girl but I dont want to make things wierd with her.

2006-12-17 12:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am so confused right now. sometimes i think i should call my ex n sometimes i think i shouldnt. We been together for 3 years and just broke up. were not really on bad terms but i gave up trying to get back together and just went to ignoring him thinking thatll work but i think i pushed him further. Now im in decise if i should call him or not. we were talking bout a week ago and he would call me n come over n stuff but i just stopped callin him n so did he. should i call him or wait til xmas cuz thas when i AM gonna call him. keep in mind we stopped talking a week ago.

2006-12-17 12:58:40 · 2 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

He has never brought up the subject of sex.. he hasnt presured me and i know that he dosnt even think im thinking about sex... i know this is going to sound kinda inmature but i heard he was really good and i want my first time to be with him.. but i dont want to regreat it.. i really like him and i know he likes me too so what should i do...???

2006-12-17 12:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by etsy 1 in Singles & Dating

Im dating and mostly attracting the wrong guys, what do i need to do to attract the right guys (decent husband material).

2006-12-17 12:58:19 · 1 answers · asked by spicywannaknow 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has given me my Xmas present early. I have been booked for a one hour session at the 'Naughty but Nice Massage Parlour', a few roads from our house.
My booking is for an executive bubble slide and relief. What the hell does it all mean?

2006-12-17 12:58:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and my ex keep going back and forth back and forth. Well she is really down and out about X-mas... I am trying to think if I should get her something... should I or should I not? and what should i get her if i get her anything. Oh and no we have not got back together but we have talked about it many times.... trying to get her back.. but the gift is not for that. It is only because I want her to have a good X-mas

2006-12-17 12:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been separated for 9 mos so this is the first Christmas since. He found a girlfriend almost instantly. I am trying to decide if it is still my responsibility to buy him presents that are from the kids. Although we are attempting to be amicable and keep the best interest of the kids in the forefront I really do not want to spend money on him to be honest, but my conscious is telling me otherwise!!! I am not sure what to do! If I don't and he does I will feel like a heel and if I do and he doesn't...aaaahhh!

2006-12-17 12:57:36 · 22 answers · asked by chrysalis0817 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this girl in my class. She is not something you would see on Covergirl but I hate models. My friends disagree, but I think she's beautiful. I told her that she looked nice and she said that I didn't have to lie to her. But she really does. She says she wants to lose wieght, but she's not fat. Anyway I'd like to ask her out but I'm afraid that if I do she'll think I'm pity dating her. Any suggestions on how to get through to her? Or should I just drop it?

2006-12-17 12:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Texas Toast 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by ronald.carson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I could use a baby, was thinking of adopting one, or buying one of Craigslist.

But, Im not real good at taking care of stuff (I killed my dog), so I need a baby that can do stuff for itself.

2006-12-17 12:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by Shoop Da Woop 1 in Singles & Dating

I work at home. Most of my clients are very wealthy, and we come from different worlds , it's difficult to relate to them or them to me , so They are not friends , just aqaintences. I have a wonderful husband, but a friend would be nice. I've put myself out there only to be disapointed .

2006-12-17 12:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by Suzette 2 in Friends

2006-12-17 12:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

are you able to tell if the guy's penis is big or small?

i mean when you feel it, can u tell its size? cause im scared that if im grinding, they might think mine's to small or something and then not like me as a friend anymore, so im just wondering for my high school dance, plz reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-17 12:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by German L 1 in Singles & Dating

Our fav. store is abercrombie.

2006-12-17 12:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by toni 2 in Friends

I am a male who is losing hair and who suffers from breadt enlargement. Do you ladies feel I should get a hair transplant and breast reduction surgery if it will make me look better? I am confident about other things in my life except this.

Or do you think that decent looking ladies will overlook hair loss and boobs in a man? I don't mind women who are a bit overweight or who have small boobs so maybe I am worrying to much about my appearance? Or maybe not in today's superficial world?

2006-12-17 12:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:50:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was on the phone with my best friend who lives in a different state (i already have the tickets to see her) , and, we are 15 years old, (hormones raging) and we were talking about sex, and my dad came down like an hour later saying he didn't trust me to see her because he thinks i'm going to see her so i can party and sleep with guys and bla bla bla, BUT IT IS SO NOT TRUE! i havent seen her for a year, and if i dont see her, i dont even know what i will do. probably become a vegetable from best friend deprivation.
okok, i will admit i made a bad choce, way back like 9 months ago and my dad caught me with my boyfriend (we wern't doing what you probably thimk we were, but it looked that bad) but seriously, after that happened, i stoped doing anything with guys 100% and my dad dosen't believe me... and i dont know what to say to get him to trust me.

please please please give me some advice, i've been looking forward to seeing this friend since january..... all i want is to see her!

2006-12-17 12:50:48 · 2 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it a turn off for a younger woman to make the move? I made a move on this guy, and he seemed kind of taken a back by it. Flustered even. We're great friends and I have really fallen for him, so I made the move. Should I just back off and give him time to think about it? Or should I talk to him?

2006-12-17 12:50:08 · 20 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't know whether are not to open my presents in the morning or open it in the afternoon when i come home from school my mom goes to work at 2:00 and i come home at 2:45 some no one is gonna see me open it and see me reaction but she might come home early to see whether are not my happy with it or should I open it in the morning then my mom will see how happy i am and shebut when i come home all i'll get in cake,food,take pictures,video tape my self,and watch tv and go to sleep or i can come home celebrate and then open presents and be happy cuz it i open it in the morning then i want have anything to be excited for when i go to school and leave to go home


WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-12-17 12:49:38 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Family

I've recently got out of a relationship that I was in for two months. The girl said that she wanted to be single and "right now isn't the best time for me to have a bf." I was kinda feeling the same so we broke up. I can't get her out of my head and yesterday we went out to a skating event as friends. I told her, after the event, that I still love her and she told me the same but she said her love for me was not as deep as mine. She said that she will go out with me again. I want to buy her an x-mas gift and i want to continue to see her. is this a good idea, do you think we could ever get back together, and what is she really saying when she says, "right now isn't the best time for me to have a bf?????????"

2006-12-17 12:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by junkmailb89 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 12:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 12:47:56 · 15 answers · asked by hottie15 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm completely stuck; he is twelve, he doesn't eat enough so he is way too tiny and my eight-year-old brother is bigger than him,, he loves chocolate, he loves reading, he loves football, and he is brilliant at almost every sport he plays. he's sort of into video games but not really, and he's one of my best friends. I really need help!!! Pleeeaaase!!!
Thx :-)

2006-12-17 12:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jahzarra 2 in Friends

I think I used to be a really nice person but after years of watching other people hurt each other and having people hurt me, I think i'm starting to become just like them. Eveything i absoloutley hate. I really don't want to be a bad person but I'm not one to just flip out and i keep everything inside so sometimes i accidentally let it out if someone is being a jerk or getting on my nerves. I'm starting to have trouble just dealing with everybody around me. maybe i just need a boyfriend but i don't that's ever going to happen. Does anyone else feel this way? I really need help with this. sharing this kind of stuff on the internet is something i thought i would never do but now i am and i don't want to sound like "woe is me" so please help? sorry and thank you

2006-12-17 12:47:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i live in the uk and its 1 45 in the morning and its cold

2006-12-17 12:46:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-17 12:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by longlegs 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know how to ask a boy out

2006-12-17 12:46:21 · 1 answers · asked by MCRhottie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have to visit them every year in december and the summer... i know its not much, but you dont understand! its HORRIBLE! i HATE my stepgrandmother she is a b***h!! and they always offend my sisters and my mother!! (they are my cousins from my dad's side) my dad never comes with us, and we cant make him... i always get these negative vibes when im with them!! what do i do!! should i find an excuse not to visit them? or should i just put up with them? should i try to be nice? or should i bi*ch back?

2006-12-17 12:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Family