He has never brought up the subject of sex.. he hasnt presured me and i know that he dosnt even think im thinking about sex... i know this is going to sound kinda inmature but i heard he was really good and i want my first time to be with him.. but i dont want to regreat it.. i really like him and i know he likes me too so what should i do...???
2006-12-17 12:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by etsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are lucky if he isnt pressuring you for sex. Maybe he actually VALUES your relationship. Why would you go and mess that up by spreading your legs?? And you have only been with him for 2 months?? This is so sad. Don't be a dumb girl. Have some self respect!
2006-12-17 13:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that i am reading between the lines right' Here's what i think. There is no love here' You like the guy and who knows maybe he is a good guy just not " the guy" Sounds like you are having mixed feelings and nothing is clear. You are not ready to give it up to him' at least not yet. Step back 'Take a breath. You have only been together 2 months. That's not long enough. The key word here is "you like him" that's how i know you are not ready to take that step. Give it a year' see how you feel then.
2006-12-17 13:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about it. If you both feel like its the right time, then go for it. I know that bringing it up may be awkward, but its awkward for both of you. Maybe he wants to bring it up too but is to shy. If that's the case, then maybe he'll be turned on by the fact that you took initiative.
So, just talk to him, and hopefully if things work out, you won't be a virgin anymore...good luck...:)
2006-12-17 13:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Katlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get physical with him, that is ultimately going to be your choice, you will know when you are ready to give it up. But one thing to do as a stepping stone (to figure out if you're comfortable with it) is do some other physical stuff with him (I won't describe it here, but get a book or rent a movie) that will help you figure out if you're comfortable in that kind of setting with this dude. Good luck and have fun.
2006-12-17 13:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want 2 lose your virginity 2 him just because u heard he was good that's stupid. and it's not the right time. he's not pressuring u so y r u rushin. Just wait the time will be right.
2006-12-17 13:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to marry him? Do you want to have a child with him? Think about that, remember nothing is 100% safe
2006-12-17 13:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's not a very good reason to have sex. you should wait until you are married when it would mean more to you than a one night stand
2006-12-17 13:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together for two months and you want to give it up, that makes you look really easy.
2006-12-17 13:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait on that........go out with him at least 4 months but i would wait a while ..
2006-12-17 13:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only you feel comfortable
2006-12-17 13:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋