question for girls who grind at dances???

Question

are you able to tell if the guy's penis is big or small?

i mean when you feel it, can u tell its size? cause im scared that if im grinding, they might think mine's to small or something and then not like me as a friend anymore, so im just wondering for my high school dance, plz reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I think that if she can feel it than shes riding up on you and you on her to the point that it doesn't really matter. More than likely the only way she will be able to feel it is if you happen to acquire to get an erection. I mean just go for it, if its small so what be confident and let her know that you are confident with it

Answer 2

Unfortunetly, most homo-sapiens arent far past the idea of two or three male primates swinging their penis' around in front of a group of female primates in order to find a mate.

Women are primitively attracted to a guy with a big wang, obviously, and "grinding" is just one of the ways that a female primate is going to check your equipment before she approves you for sexual intercourse. Another way a girl might check your dick size is by coming over to you and sitting on your lap.

And yes, your insecurites are absolutely correct. If a girl feels a smaller sized penis between your legs, its not necesarilly true that they wont be your friend anymore; however, it is true that they could possibly treat you alot differently(in a bad way).

Not only do females look up to a guy that is packing, they also have much more patience for a well-hung gentlemen. Look young guy, there is still good news though. If you have a penis smaller than like 7 or 8 inches(which is what most girls prefer), thats ok. You can still get plenty of sex with girls, you just have to know how to play them for a fool. Despite the myth surrounding females being so complicated, they are actually very simple in nature, and if you break everything down to its essense, everything is much easier understood.

My advice to you, my friend, is to do whatever makes you feel optimally comfortable. The thing though, is that you also dont want to be superficial. It is unnecessary to pack a banana in your pants so you feel more comfortable dancing at a party. That is insane, and if people find out, they will be making fun of you for years to come. When you ask questions in public places about stuff like this, you are generally going to get a negative response from a female because you've clearly hinted that you are very insecure(which girls dont like).

Girls dont like insecurity for various reasons. When a girl sees that you are extremely lacking self-confidence, not only does she treat it like a character flaw, but she will also believe that you could possibly have a tiny pecker(which girls also DO NOT like). Anyway, without superficially, you need to do anything that makes you feel confident and completely comfortable, my friend. Shave your balls, wear a hat, get a hair cut, whiten your teeth, hit the gym seven days a week. The trick is to do this stuff for yourself, not a female, yet the females will still be attracted to you anyway. What I'm saying is that if you feel like people will judge you by your dick size, WHICH GIRLS DO!, dont dance with the girls dude. Just kick back and relax. If you feel uncomfortable at the party altogether, just leave and go workout or something my friend.

Answer 3

OK MR.PARANOID. NO JK I ALWAYS GRIND WIT GUYZ AT OUR DANCES AND YA WE CAN KINDA TELL IF ITS SMALL OR NOT. I MEAN IF U HAVE A BIG ONE OR SMALL ONE DONT LET IT COME IN YOUR WAY OF HAVING FUN OR ANYTHING. HEY IF U HAV ONE U HAVE 1

Answer 4

yep. we can tell. mmhmm. if your worried about it bein to small. then stuff something big in your pants. oh... and make sure its hard... maybe some clay... ;)

Answer 5

guilty concience???lol..
you should be confident enough to not care..

don't worry about it....
just enjoy your time

Answer 6

no you cant really tell...