i was on the phone with my best friend who lives in a different state (i already have the tickets to see her) , and, we are 15 years old, (hormones raging) and we were talking about sex, and my dad came down like an hour later saying he didn't trust me to see her because he thinks i'm going to see her so i can party and sleep with guys and bla bla bla, BUT IT IS SO NOT TRUE! i havent seen her for a year, and if i dont see her, i dont even know what i will do. probably become a vegetable from best friend deprivation.
okok, i will admit i made a bad choce, way back like 9 months ago and my dad caught me with my boyfriend (we wern't doing what you probably thimk we were, but it looked that bad) but seriously, after that happened, i stoped doing anything with guys 100% and my dad dosen't believe me... and i dont know what to say to get him to trust me.
please please please give me some advice, i've been looking forward to seeing this friend since january..... all i want is to see her!
2006-12-17 12:50:48 · 2 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The way I see it you have two choices. Best choice is to tell your Dad you really need to have a serious talk with him. Before the talk you have to make sure that your friend's parent(s) are involved as well. Once this 'talk' with your Dad occurs you must let him know that you are not yet an adult, but you are responsible enough to make the 'right' decisions. If he doesn't trust you enough you can always use the scapegoat of your friend's parents to take the responsibility of your actions while you are away. If your intentions are completely away from what you stated in this message (ie. , your friend's parents are away and you're going out there for a huge new years party) this plan would backfire. But if you are serious about just meeting up with your friend and your dad talks to your friend's parents you should be good to go.
Choice number 2: You go anyway, behind your parents back and suffer the consequences when you return.
2006-12-17 13:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ur gonna run away duh
2006-12-17 20:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by mauri127sharks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋