I've know my best friends forever, and everyone says we are a cute couple and we should go out, but we never have. He's gone out with other girls, but since I've meet him he hasn't really gone out with anyone. And people are starting to wonder "is he gay?" & know I'm wondering, is the reason we've never gonna outm is because he's gay????
2006-12-17 12:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, just because he doesn't go out with you doesn't make him gay. He went out with other girls too right? Maybe he just wants to preserve your friendship and doesn't like you in that way
2006-12-17 12:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend , why don t you ask him directly what does he think about you two, and be prepared for his answer so if he says you are just very close friends , don t be sad and understand him. With a little bit of luck , maybe he is too shy t ask you for something else so this will be the chance to know the truth.
2006-12-17 12:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by hope55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you look desparate so...I am only in 5th grade but i am great at advice....Girl go up to him and chat listen to his voice.Dose he sound gay. If he dose just say have you went out withgirls then go ask girls do they think he is gay if so stay back or youll look nerdy or just plain lesbian-ish.
2006-12-17 12:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Moe-Moe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ur best friend, he should tell u if he is gay
unless he's not ready
anyway, if u want to go out with him, tell him
otherwise, there's really no point in wondering if he is gay
2006-12-17 12:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by dewgongoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many people misunderstand men and you are one of the people maybe one day you'll understand what they are up to anyway he probably is trying to tell that he's single and you should go for him if he is a shy type of guy then that's the definite case
2006-12-17 12:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's upset about something, or isn't interested in you anymore, doesn't make him gay. Talk to him.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-17 12:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember if you go out and break up your friendship is over
2006-12-17 12:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Coo Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just ask him--that would get you a better answer then your going to get here!
2006-12-17 12:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he went out with others gals he is not gay,probably thinkin is wrong ,so talk to him if u like himthat much
2006-12-17 12:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend, TAKE A LEAP AND ASK HIM!
2006-12-17 12:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋