Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Your Man Tells You He Used A Condom To Masturbate....Do You Believe Him Or Not? Been Faithful....But....What Do You Think?

2006-12-17 11:59:23 · 31 answers · asked by XXSEXY66XX 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am now in a long distance relationship, my commonlaw hubby of 7 years accepted work in Asia. He has been gone now for 19 months. The agreement was that he would go for 2 years and then come home. We keep in touch by IM's, web cams and telephone, but in the last 4 months he hasn't been keeping as in touch. He still tells me he loves me and that he is coming come but there is no date set. I love him still very much but I am getting tired of being in limbo. What should I do?

2006-12-17 11:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by monz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 11:57:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:56:11 · 14 answers · asked by Despret! 1 in Weddings

This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. But, I'm not sure if he wants to get romantically involved too, as in bf and gf. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why me and not some other pretty girl who goes to our school...I'm average looking, and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. Do u think he wants more that just to go to a dance? Should I ask him if he wants more, or just wait and see? Am I exaggerating a simple situation?

I want to be with him.

And not in a physical way. Teenagers doing that=eew!

2006-12-17 11:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Iamnottellingyou 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm at my wits end and it hasn't been the first time. My husband is so emotionally abusive that my self-esteem has gone the toilet. I've been enduring this treatment for almost 8 yrs. One minute he's calling me a nasty ***** and the very next minute he's asking, "Can't we just be friends?? All I want to be is friends." I sometimes think that I'm going crazy... I have two young sons and they usually hear all of this...I don't want them thinking that it's alright to treat women this way. I cry myself to sleep almost every night. I'm hurting inside and the tears are a release valve for me.

I'm so unhappy and even that is an understatement. I don't have to live like this I know. Do you think staying in a relationship like this because of the kids is a good idea? I don't. I'm not allowed on the bank account, no credit cards, etc.

Why me?? : (

2006-12-17 11:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by Suzanne S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 11:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by mystery man 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so sometimes my brother will do something minor that isn't a big deal, so my parents just give him a little warning, then he keeps doing it figuring they don't really care, then he keeps doing it and the my parents get really mad and my dad and bother usually get "physical" and my mom just yells at him, i am the younger sibling in this situation and i'm just left watching there, sometimes I go outside and take a walk, but inside it destroys me, sometimes my brother even breaks things sometimes, I even think he might cause a divorce sometimes, I want to know what to do to make this to stop happening, oh and we go to church every week and I have a religion class and my brother has a confirmation class, I am 13 and my brother is 15.

2006-12-17 11:55:09 · 2 answers · asked by kristindalhoff 1 in Family

I have this 1 class with the girl i like, I have never liked anyone as much as I like her, and the class I have with her is about to be over, monday will be the last day before the semester change, and I dont think ill ever have a chance again to talk to her. I am really shy around girls, I dont know why, but I am, and I really want to let this girl know that I like her. I dont want to strike up a conversation with her, and have it end b/c of an awkward silence or something. I really dont even know what to say to start a conversation with her, I think it would be wierd if someone came up to me that i didnt really know and just started talking about something...

Please help...

2006-12-17 11:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Me!! 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my ex- best friend Janelle is really rude to me. She IM's me harssaing me. She says that 2 of my best friends hate me and she says all of my friends hate me but don't tell me. She also says she has more friends then me and I treat my friends like 2 year olds( I don't) and she says I act like a 2 year old I mit as well treat my peeps as 1 year olds. Thats were I draw the line. She really hurt my feelings and I started to cry. I told my mom that she wasn't my friend but I haven't told her about what Janelle says about me. I can handle it myself. What should I do to ignore her. I tried talking to her about why she wasn't my friend. SHe said she hangs out with too many peoplee and just didn't want to be my friend anymore. I'm fine with that but harssaing me I wanted to go over to her house and strangel her to death. What should I do?

2006-12-17 11:53:41 · 13 answers · asked by nnytootsie2 1 in Friends

my ex boy friend a week before we broke up told my friends that he loved me. but then a week later he broke up with me and told me that he only went out with me so he wouldnt hurt my feelings and that i was a nice girl but not for him. So what is that supposed to mean? He loved me one week and then broke up with me the next week

2006-12-17 11:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will I move with my mom. But my dad will not talk to me or my brother. So I been thinking about writing a letter to my dad. Is it good idea or bad idea.

2006-12-17 11:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by tink172007 1 in Family

my ex b/f just dumped me, but one day he called me and started cursing at me because now his friends think that he is a totally jerk for dumping me and being mean to me. he is blaming it all on me for people walking out to him and being hurtful to him, it is not my fault and i dont want him to go around telling everyone that im a lesbian and that im hore

2006-12-17 11:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am with my friend at the moment, he is 16 & i will be in 4 days & we really love each other but we have not seen each other seen we said it dat we like each other.he didn't get his first kiss yet & neither have I.I am going 2 d cinema with some friends & he is coming as well.i am excited that he is coming but also a bit shy,nervous & worried.plz help me wot should i do?I really love him & not ready to loss him just bcos I'm shy 2 kiss him.Thanks.

2006-12-17 11:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF has an agreement with his ex about driving their son back and forth for visits.My BF picks him up, the mom comes to get him. My BF picked him up AND dropped him back off twice in a row, being late for work afterwards both times and getting in trouble at work, because the mother refused to come get him. Tonight my BF, a retail manager, cannot leave work, and the mother refuses to come get the kid. He is here at least until tomorow, and will miss school tomorow.My realtionship with the boy, who is 12, but has difficulty getting along with others, including me is not all that good. My BF has been trying to talk me into letting the son move in, I say no. The son has a history of violence, is very defiant, and has a bad attitude, and I just cannot have him move in and I have made this VERY clear to my BF. I am wondering if this having him get "left" here is a ploy for him to move in. My BF did say "I am going to call my atty Monday and say she abandoned him" I doubt it is that simple

2006-12-17 11:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 11:50:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:49:13 · 6 answers · asked by Bob K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:47:58 · 9 answers · asked by amanda s 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a month now but this guy i liked before i met my boyfrind wants to hook up with me really bad wat do i do.........PLZ HELP!!!!

2006-12-17 11:47:32 · 6 answers · asked by bloodshot_love 1 in Singles & Dating

what color hair do u like the best on a girl

2006-12-17 11:46:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It happened 6 weeks ago and I have not spoken to her since, I am not happy about this and I will not forgive her, nobody got hurt, but I am afraid that it might happen again.
I am a peaceful person, and I love my family, but this is just nutz.. Should I move on? and forgive her?

2006-12-17 11:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Whoa_Phat 4 in Family

According to a study, women prefer circumcized men over others. It has also shown that circumcized men have less chances of break-ups over others.

Of course, it's a personal choice, but would you like to enforce it on men if you had a chance.

P.S. please don't associate circumcision with cleanliness...as even non-circumcised men can be clean if they want and every circumcized man doesn't have to be clean.

2006-12-17 11:44:37 · 19 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:43:41 · 13 answers · asked by BABY TWEETY 1 in Singles & Dating

I got home and hes not here...
his truck is here
his food is here
his cell phone is here
hes not?
he always leaves a note
we have been home now for 45 minutes...

2006-12-17 11:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-17 11:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by sniper7_2001 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay no more set backs or putting it off. I'm gonna approach the guy i've had my eye on for about 2 weeks now. I can't let him get away. Can you guys give me some confidence boosters or a starter conversation or maybe even Idk some tips??

2006-12-17 11:42:08 · 9 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 11:41:51 · 18 answers · asked by nickle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 11:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by Miguel B 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had an emotional affair with a woman at work and we are trying to work out our marriage. How can I get over the fact that he betrayed me? I want this to work but I want to trust him again. It hurts that he still works with her.

2006-12-17 11:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by tinakay_83 3 in Marriage & Divorce