I have this 1 class with the girl i like, I have never liked anyone as much as I like her, and the class I have with her is about to be over, monday will be the last day before the semester change, and I dont think ill ever have a chance again to talk to her. I am really shy around girls, I dont know why, but I am, and I really want to let this girl know that I like her. I dont want to strike up a conversation with her, and have it end b/c of an awkward silence or something. I really dont even know what to say to start a conversation with her, I think it would be wierd if someone came up to me that i didnt really know and just started talking about something...
Please help...
2006-12-17 11:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Me!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you should do is nothing. That way 50 years from now you can tell your nurse at the old folks home about this beautiful girl you almost asked out once.
2006-12-17 12:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahah well, i really think you should just strike up the conversation no matter if you might look like a fool in the end.. ahah she might think its cute :) anyway, the conversation doesnt have to be a flirtagous kinda thing.. it can be about what the next semester is about.. then maybe, if you are smart and shes having troubles with her school work.. or vise-versa you guys can help each other out.. you can be friends then you can find the courage to tell her your feelings.. but that could never happen if you dont strike up a conversation.. one must sacrifice something to earn something.. ahah good luck :)
2006-12-17 19:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by agnnes kiim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet, aw. Well would it be easier for you to maybe write a lil note and then slip it to her on the side so it's not too obvious? Even if the note contained a small message and ur mobile number then I think she mite go for that! Give her your msn addy aswell cus then u can chat over that which is sometimes easier than talkin face 2 face! Let us know how u get on ... hope it all goes well for u!
2006-12-17 19:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky yeah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with simple conversation ask for a pencil introduce urself then try to keep conversation going it is doesnt turn out so while end the conversation bye saying "ok thanks for the pencil talk to you later" and maybe if all goes well when u see her again (in the halls or something) u can go up to her and say hi. try just becoming friends with her before it is too late
2006-12-17 20:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by inu96star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but why don't you just casually ask her for her email address or give her yours after asking her for some info regarding the class (which you don't really need). When she sends you an email, you'll have hers.
Or just say you want to keep in touch with classmates and get her email that way. You may get her number if you ask nicely.
2006-12-17 19:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Brave, Be Bold. Ask her for a coffee outside, or anything so that u can spend some time with her. And after some conversation tell her that u liked her. That's it. its not SO tough. I think this is Ur first time that y u r hesitating....Just do it. UL feel lighter.
2006-12-20 08:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by RituXYZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce yourself and ask if you would like to hang out sometime. simple and strait to the point is the best way to do it. it leave little room for odd pauses.
Go about the whole thing as if there's other fish in the sea.
Don't be to worried about dating girls like to know people first and not just talk about going out or "hooking up". So just try to be her friend.
2006-12-17 19:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by rhettkuritz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! Trust me, I'm a girl. Sometimes we don't talk to guys because we're worried about how they feel about us, we think guys are the ones who need to start the conversation. I've seen this happen before and it worked great! well good luck!
2006-12-17 19:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about herself if you dont want to put the attention on you. ASk her something like did you find this class easy? You guys already have a class together focus on that maybe. but if she blows you off its ok you know what they say about fishes.
2006-12-17 19:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come out of your shy shell. Let her know how much she'll be missed when that class ends. Ask her out for a date. My best wishes for you.
2006-12-17 19:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋