I am with my friend at the moment, he is 16 & i will be in 4 days & we really love each other but we have not seen each other seen we said it dat we like each other.he didn't get his first kiss yet & neither have I.I am going 2 d cinema with some friends & he is coming as well.i am excited that he is coming but also a bit shy,nervous & worried.plz help me wot should i do?I really love him & not ready to loss him just bcos I'm shy 2 kiss him.Thanks.
2006-12-17 11:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a friend dare you to kiss him in front of him.
Or... just tell him you like him.
2006-12-17 11:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really important for you to kiss him on the first date?
Please do not pressure yourself on these kind of issues....
Be natural and always remember a kiss will always lead to other things.....
My advice will be be urself and be friends first get to know each other better before taking the next step...
you are still young..
2006-12-17 11:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by DonnyD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to take things slowly, i promise you sweetie it will all come naturally in its own time, do not put pressure on yourself, be truthful with him and tell him you are shy make a joke of it i am sure he feels just as awkward as you do as i said it will happen at a good time when you are both ready.
2006-12-17 11:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, girl easy now. You young kids type so strangely. Now, if you like him, kiss him. I know it seems like a big deal, but really, its nice, its fun, and when you get older you see it for what it really is. dont panic about it going wrong or him rejecting you, it doesnt sound like he will, and if he does, its really no biggie. I remember being his age and wishing that ANY girl would kiss me, and especially one of my friends. Dont do anything you dont want to though. Stand your ground, dont get forced into things, and just have fun. Smile, relax, and give him some attention, it'll work for sure.
2006-12-17 11:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you lose him because you won't kiss him what does that tell you about the love he has for you? We lust for girls at 16. We are swimming in our hormones and the white spunk. We do not love at 16. We want to hunt and conquer in our lust for sex.
Have a higher standard for yourself in what love is and don't waiver.
2006-12-17 17:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by czar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your own instinct and no one elses. if there is a point when you think to yourself you want to kiss him just do it- it doesnt matter where just do it- be crazy for a second its great fun and the worst that can happen is your friends all think u are mad- but brave. have fun hun
2006-12-17 20:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋