This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. But, I'm not sure if he wants to get romantically involved too, as in bf and gf. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why me and not some other pretty girl who goes to our school...I'm average looking, and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. Do u think he wants more that just to go to a dance? Should I ask him if he wants more, or just wait and see? Am I exaggerating a simple situation?
I want to be with him.
And not in a physical way. Teenagers doing that=eew!
2006-12-17 11:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Iamnottellingyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MW: He's being held back by his perhaps, shyness to act on his feelings for you. He likes you ... a lot !!! I'm a guy, and I can tell you that guys in general, don't communicate with girls like he does unless they like a girl ... a lot !!! You seem to sense this too - don't you and aren't too sure of yourself at this point in the potential relationship. Yes; approach him and go with him on a 1 on 1 date, have some fun [clean], grab a bite to eat and drink, then, when you are alone ask him to kiss you - flat out .. BANG .. just like that !!! Since he is alone with you, he won't feel too held back and will kiss you !!! Now that you have the ball rolling ... you have your boyfriend !!! Good luck for thinking outside the "box" and not getting sex mixed up with love (BIG difference) !!!
2006-12-17 12:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always assume that his intentions are honorable until he proves you wrong! Go to the dance, have a nice time and don't over-think the whole situation.
2006-12-17 20:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by sandramunroe11550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just read the first line.
If the guy asks you to dance=he like you
2006-12-17 19:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thens no reason not to age doesnt matter unless you 17 and hes like 5 but you get it and if you want to be with him you should learn to talk to him
2006-12-17 19:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by neopets1234554321 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's still talking to you then it sounds like it to me.
2006-12-17 19:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be pushy before u ruin the whole thing
2006-12-17 19:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds to me that he wants a relationship..
2006-12-17 20:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by jenna_71591 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just admit it, you like him and he likes you.
2006-12-17 19:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋