I have this new co-worker,,i have big time crush on her,, friday after work everybody decide to go for drinking, except I was not invited.. this was arranged by one of the b i tch coworker,, she hate me.. so when I asked by coworkers, can I join,, they said no,,b/c she arranged it and I am not invited.. But I WENT anyway.. My crush was also there.. saw me.. So do you think i lost any chance with her,, B/c I fell desperate?
what i should do,, i fell so bad, this b-i-tch arrange everything,, going for coffee break/lunch etc,, every body go excetp they dont aske me.. I am tired of this thing, Should I just quite job, or ignore the coworkers and keep doing my work,, these are mid level coworkers,, Big bosses sit in different places, so when every body go,, i am only one left there...You know my felling.. i thought this new girl can be my friend, when she started, she was nice to me, now it seem she also been influnced by the b itch
2006-12-17 12:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 word for you my friend VALIUM
2006-12-17 12:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this wasn't your finest hour. You do seem a bit desperate about your crush and you probably fell for that old "let's not invite him and make him crazy" gag a lot easier than they planned.
I think the crush felt sorry for you during your first days on the job and meant nothing more by her friendliness than having common courtesy for a co-worker. I'd advise you to focus on your job, rather than such childish nonsense, anyway.
Do yourself a favor and don't let this person you so affectionately call a *********. play games with you any more. Most businesses have what they call a "respectful workplace" policy, so if she pulls any of her nastiness on you in the office, you can report her.
2006-12-17 12:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, ask her for a drink... if she says yes... great, if she says no... then you have your answer.
Why not attempt making the peace with the problem co-worker, keep your friends close and your enemies closer!
Also a note to some of the replies posted, not everyone is perfect at reading, writing and spelling.... judge not.... hey guys!!!
2006-12-17 12:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Pudding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be called harrassment. Office bullying is very common. You should bring it up with your supervisor. There may even be other people who have felt her wrath.
(Maybe also learn how to type and spell? Sorry, but if you are an adult, you should write like one. Don't act immature like your office b-tch is doing.)
2006-12-17 12:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by retzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start arranging your own outings with your coworkers.
2006-12-17 12:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget these mean people and go make some friends outside of work, why would you want to go and be around boring people anyways.. It doesn't sound like a good time to me :) :) :)
2006-12-17 12:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GRAMMAR BRO!!---Sorry but is this what happens to people in the Job Market
ANYWAY, WHY DONT YOU JUST EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FOR THIS GIRL AND IGNORE OTHER PEOPLE!!!!
REMEMBER---YOU ARE AN ADULT
2006-12-17 12:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by What gives? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
jus keep to yourself and don't let them know its affect u throw yourself into your work then lime with your friends not yourco workers....
2006-12-17 12:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your scary.
You need to relax, try counselling or something.
2006-12-17 12:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by fizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't very smart.
2006-12-17 12:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋