I am 22 years old. I have had a couple boyfriends, but all they want to do is be intimate all the time. They never want to spend quality time with me. Where do I go to find a nice guy that I can have a relationship with on all levels?
2006-12-17 12:16:47 · 15 answers · asked by tifftiff521 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try looking for a man in a place of common interest. In other words, think about things you like to do and go from there. If you enjoy reading, look for a man at a book store or library. If you like to dance, take dance lessons and tell them that you will need a partner, if they can pair you up with someone. At least that way, when you find someone you will know that they share a common interest as you and you can get them out of the house, into your place of interest and that way you don't have to worry about them wanting to stay at home for one thing anymore. Also, not to be rude, but just don't give it up so easily. Once they get a taste of it, they won't be willing to work so hard for it anymore. Make sure that the platonic stuff is solid before it goes any further. If they are relationship minded people, they will wait. Good Luck!
2006-12-17 12:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to have a system and take it slow. First be friends and get to know each other that way. There's no reason to rush into a relation and declare yourselves a "couple." After your friends become good friends. Then if both of you feel for each other then take it to the next level of dating where things are taken slow such as holding hands, hugging, and kissing. After these steps have been taking you can let it grow into something more intimate. Where to find a guy like this...you don't look, you they just come and find you when you're least expecting it.
2006-12-17 20:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep asking why it can't happen then it never will. Stop using the word can't. Stop letting boys use you. You control you. Take charge of your relationships and get to know the guy first before you get intimate. The nice guys will take their time and not be so quick to jump into bed. The not so nice guys will be in a rush. There's lots of nice guys like me out there you just have to tell yourself that you worth it and a nice one will find you in no time at all.
2006-12-17 20:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am going to sound like a mom but you are very young to commit yourself to a serious relationship. I am speaking from personal experience. I was engaged to be married while I was still in college. I am not going to say that I regret that but I do think it is important to go on a lot of dates before settling down with someone. You have a lot of time, don't rush it. When the time is right you will find someone who is perfect for you. Take some time to smell the roses :-)
2006-12-17 20:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is is that you are too young. You should be out there trying to experience everything that you can and not worry about men. After you have done and accomplished all that you want to do, then go looking for a man...better yet, let him fall in YOUR lap. Love and relationships can wait.
2006-12-17 20:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is not time for you yet tyo find the right guy. if you want to find a nice guy you need to go to church and you will alot of nice guys not in the club coz when the music is over your relationship to him is over too so take note. and also let the guy first to show there cares about you and how he treated you in your first date, don't kiss him on your first date let him wait till the right time coz if you give them a kiss or more than that in your first date he think that your easy to get and easy to forget. don't look for looks, look for personality before looks ok.
2006-12-17 20:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the age, young men are like that. Also, you don't give it up so soon, make a guy work for it.
Have you dated more nerdy guys? They'll be nicer and treat you well.
2006-12-17 20:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not in a bar look for a guy in the mall or some diversified place and you can tell by the way men are looking that they single i mean they look at every girl that is cute so you'll know
2006-12-17 20:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are attracted to your body sexualy, by what you ware.
to find some one that wishes to persue other interests with you, dress more conseratively, so his thoughts will not always bee on gettihg to see what is under your clothes
2006-12-17 20:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all do you know how to say no. keep looking there has to be someone out there who will accept you for you and not what they want from you
2006-12-17 20:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋