Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

i'm making a card for a guy i like...i don't know wat to write...i wanna write something nice but i don't want to give it away in case he reads it with others around..beside i'm afraid that if i tell him our friendship will end

2006-12-16 15:36:48 · 3 answers · asked by freaky_brown_eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

they say things like froot and froot-loop and you know its realy weird when people stare at you because of them

2006-12-16 15:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a single mom who goes to college full time, watches children, and sells AVON aggresively. I find my time is filled with everyone else's needs, school, and work and have no time to fullfil my needs of a personal relationship. I have not had a problem worrying about it until I got to know someone better that I have known for a short while. I'm just wondering if the majority of the guys out there would be understanding if they dated someone so busy. Would it be a problem if there was limited time spent together or would the relationship be doomed from the very beggining? I don't even know if this guy is interested in me so this may just be a big waste of time but if he is I feel like I would be missing something if I didn't see how it would be.

2006-12-16 15:34:20 · 9 answers · asked by Janet J 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy by the way!

Let me repeat I'm a guy lol!

If a women comes out a relationship where she was being used for everything, and even a relationship that left her with a kid, how will she approach the dating scene now?

I ask this because I am dating a women who has come out of all this, and I feel she is TESTING me?

If this where you, would you feel the need to test men!?

2006-12-16 15:34:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 15:33:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so im a 15 year old that has had most of his relationships fail after 3 weeks becuase i get scared that they like my to much. they say thell love me no matter what or something like that and i get scared and leave. is that normal. and sometimes. i even get bord! what dos that mean? is that normal? i did have one last for 8 months and i reallllyyy liked the girl. but the rest. nope. whats it mean, am i gay? i dont like guys. nor find them attractive so that cant be it. can somebody help me?

2006-12-16 15:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does sudden application of perfume, or dresses with sexy clothes, and having a nice hairdo applies to this?

2006-12-16 15:31:29 · 1 answers · asked by jon_yao 2 in Singles & Dating

Because I think that his guy likes me and I like him. He wanted to know where I live and he calls me everyday, but his behavior at school is different. He doesnt talk to me at school but when I say hey he gives me alittle smile. Does he like me or would it be better to be friends first?

2006-12-16 15:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to like this shy gal(joanne) and i took her bestfriends help(monique) to get to know her. The thing is that i hangout and flirt way more wit monique than wit joanne. A few days ago, one of my friends told me that i like monique and that im in denial. After that i realised that i like monique although i know that shes not my type. Why did this happen?.

2006-12-16 15:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that i have only known for a week asked me out.
And I wasn't thinking along those lines. So I said no.
But my friend says I'm to picky and that I should have just gone for it. But she dates anyone that gives her the time of day.

2006-12-16 15:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by Doodles 2 in Singles & Dating

have you been shot before? i was shot today in the police academy with a 9mm rubber bullet in my arm, chest, back, neck and in my leg and it hurts like hell!!!!! has that ever happen to you??

2006-12-16 15:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-16 15:27:24 · 4 answers · asked by cricky 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out my girlfriend made out with another guy, a close male supposedly platonic friend of hers. I know him, we're all mutual friends. I trusted her, even when I had my doubts about this character. She doesn't know I know. I'm not a violent person but I'm on the verge of doing something, confronting this guy with a 'what the ****?' Could that do any good or would that just make me appear even more pathetic. Would that let her know that she's *worth* fighting for? I don't know the details of this, who initiated it, how long it lasted, I just know that they 'made out.' I'm so hurt by this, I still love her despite it all. This is messed up . . .

2006-12-16 15:25:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...i went out with this guy quite awhile ago, well actually we were engaged. Anyway we lost touch...and i recently found out he is married and has 2 kids (i'm completly happy for him, it is not one of those things)...well here is the wierd part...his kids are named the names that we had picked out together when we were planning our family. Is that a little odd...I was going to try to get in touch with him but now i don't know if it such a good idea. I mean am i reading more in to this...What do you think?

2006-12-16 15:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by sweetokiemomma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

recently i reconnected with an old friend from school after several years.he was really happy,we were getting along good and we were talking everyday then for no reason at all he stopped contacting me and im very confused as to why he would do this.we are both single and there was nothing romantic between us so what could have went wrong? everyone keeps telling me to forget him cuz hes a jerk and i do agree but its still bothering me.i called him once but im still in the dark since we only spoke for about 20 secs.its not like him to do this but if he no longer wants to stay in touch or be friends why cant he at least have the decency to tell me that?

2006-12-16 15:23:57 · 4 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

wat happened

2006-12-16 15:23:12 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

This is about my sister, I really do love her. The thing is she's like from 1-10 a 9 at least. She would have to be. Everytime we're together I see so many guys looking at her. And girls too, because their jealous of her and want her looks I guess. That's why girls look at other girls right? Years ago people used to say we looked like twins. But that was when we were in our early twenties. She's 2 and 1/2 years older then me. But I was like 30 pounds thinner then. Now no one says we look a like and don't even know we're sisters. I guess it's the weight and age has just changed me. Even then she still got much more attention. The thing is I don't even feel near as attractive as her I feel only to be a 4. Because I feel some people look at me funny. I feel something's wrong with me. How do I get over this awful pain. I don't even have a boyfriend right now and she's married with a beautiful baby boy. The guy I like at work he's not into me. I think if only I was her!!

2006-12-16 15:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know she likes me a little bit but she is scared because she is a two years older than me. What to do?

2006-12-16 15:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by andrewskumar@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband used 2 b best of friends until the responsibilities of being a parent came along We have a butiful 2 yr old who is really atchd to both of us I am 37 wks preg have had to go to the ER 4x in the past four weeks He didnt call me, go with me or ask what happend Alot of the reason I had to go in is because of stress and strain I had to be on bedrest for like 3 weeks just bairly able to get out of bed today. He has to do evrythng arnd the house n at first wldnt, until I bitched and bitched about it asking him to leave otherwise now he does it but acts stupid his job is seasonal so he's out. I try to be affectionate with him, but he ignores me, walks awy, and just stays awy I get really emotional over this and have stayed w family bc the stress is overwhelming but then my son cries for his daddy I tried talking to him, he acts like a mute until I get frustrated and burst into tears and let it all out bitchng he sys if he wntd to leave he would Y does he stay if we r unhappy

2006-12-16 15:21:27 · 16 answers · asked by StaynHappyMama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

PLZ HELP ME

2006-12-16 15:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by Courtney M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How will I know he feels the same way? Like what would his reactions be? Because he asked me to dance at homecoming and we danced until closing time. He held me close in a way that I never felt before. So does he like me because he calls me whenever he gets a chance or talks to me online? Should we be freinds first? Please no sarcasm!

2006-12-16 15:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a dilemma. There is this guy i like and i know he's going to ask me out and i was talking to him on the phone last night, but now both of our parents are home and it could be bad if our parents found out we were talking...

we're still in the small stage of liking each other, and so if the 'rents found out, they could overreact.

2006-12-16 15:18:39 · 4 answers · asked by qtshakeshake93 1 in Singles & Dating

I am at the point with my boyfriend that I want to freaking just run away. I have already called off the wedding plans and I now I told him that I was going trying to work things out. Problem is that I work 2 jobs and he works one that doesnt even give 40 hours a week. He doesnt clean, yes he watches my son occasionaly when my son's I am at work (1 every 3 or 4 weeks), but he doesnt help with bills very much, he pays his car payment and occasionally puts groceries in the house anyways I told him that I had enough and he started crying and saying he was going to help out well needless to say he hasnt.

2006-12-16 15:18:10 · 9 answers · asked by kort 2 in Family

2006-12-16 15:14:43 · 3 answers · asked by cool 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. There is a guy in my class. He flirts a lot with me and I try to flirt back but I guess I am not the best at dropping the hint that I like him. How can i drop the hint without just coming right out and saying it? How can I turn up the flirt?

2006-12-16 15:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so first... he says he loves me.. in a different language... and talks to me alot.. then i tell him i know what it means.. and he stops talking to me... and never says it again.. does that mean he just said it .. or meant it?

2006-12-16 15:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by InSaNe 4 in Singles & Dating

He has two babies and me of course and no matter what i tell him i know he misses home i just want him home with his family its the first christmas away from each other what do i do?

2006-12-16 15:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Mommi 2 in Family

i have fallen in lust with past boyfriends but never in love.

2006-12-16 15:12:58 · 19 answers · asked by love_misery321 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having trouble finding that right girl. The girls I know I work with and I have found work relationships is not the way to go. Or is make myself happy first and the rest will follow? I just don't want to latch on to something b/c it's all I can get. I feel as though people do that too much these days.

2006-12-16 15:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by public-opinion08 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter has graduated and my three strong willed sons remain in my care to be raised up in the ways they should go (16,11,9). Things seem more tough with them than ever as they each strive to find and proclaim their identities.

I've been divorced since Jan. '03. We'd sold the house and he agreed to let me use the profit to buy a repossessed mobile home in order to afford living. Going from the huge house to this was a huge adjustment, but we're still here. This much is 'fine' but the problem is child support was enough to keep food in the cupboards and the lot rent only. I've had to work to pay other bills and all else. It's been tough finding employment where I can raise enough $ plus be here for them in the a.m. before school, after school, and summer. Finding or affording childcare is a joke. So, I've been through various positions, the last being awesome as a photographer going into daycares throughout western Pa taking children's pictures. But leaving at 4 to 6 a.m....

2006-12-16 15:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Red Birds 2 in Family