Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

hehehe so i fell asleep in health class so i mised this part..

so i asked my unrelated brother and he told me:

that when a mommy and a daddy fall in "love" they disobey their parents and run away to vegas then come back home and in a couple of weeks and the mommy is fat. the parents yell at the mommy because she was cheating on her diet and she has no self controle. and them they hate the daddy because he incouraged her to do all of this. so the dad runs away and never comes backt.hen the mommy starts to cry[[alot]]and makes everyone miserable for a couple of mounths. then she starts to cheat on her diet more and more by eating wierd food combinations. and her so after she is the size of a house she has to go to the docter to get lipocuction. so after this procedure, all of the wierd food combinations turned into a baby and she has to poop it out..
and then he closed by saying that only my family was like that..

WTF??

2006-12-16 15:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by dusty_bunny14 2 in Family

(I'm not an adult yet)

2006-12-16 15:09:55 · 18 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2 in Family

I met this guy, he really liked me, we hung out as friends. Mutual friends pressured us to go out, I said friends first for anyone I date. Something happened I don't know what, but now he ignores me, avoids even our mutual friends(who were good friends before I came along) for fear of talking to me(so I hear). I don't get it, if you like someone, wouldn't you pursue them instead of avoiding them because having them just as friends hurts more than having them at all?? Now since he's been "gone" (4 months) I miss him like crazy and think maybe I should pursue something, but he won't answer my calls/emails. Help!!

2006-12-16 15:09:27 · 8 answers · asked by curiousbluesweetie26 1 in Singles & Dating

About four months ago I started getting to know this guy I work with. We talked a lot at work & pretty soon it turned into flirting. After a friend commenting that he seemed interested by how he lingered at work to talk to me I gave him my number in case he "ever wanted to do something." He did call me right away and asked me to a movie with him and we've been hanging out/dating? ever since then, usually at least every other weekend for the past few months (he is extremely busy with juggling a full college schedule as well as many hours of work). He always pays for me and walks me to my car and we both have a great time, but I'm wondering what is going on because he never makes a move...all I get is a warm hug at the end of the night. He's 5 years older than me so I wonder if this might have something to do with it, but he shows interest in many ways like talking to me on the phone for long periods of time and sitting with his arm touching mine at the movies. What he hell is going on?

2006-12-16 15:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by Alexis 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she likes me and i am going to ask her out but when should i do it. the first thing that comes to mind is after 4th block ( high school) what do you think

2006-12-16 15:09:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tend to compare my life to other's lives and feel really bad at the state of my life. I feel that somehow there is something wrong with me.

My marriage did not work, my child lives with my ex in another state and misses me. I am dealing with custody issues with my ex.

I feel envious of another girl at work who is happily married, has two children, is a great mother/ person and is well respected at work. I look at her and then feel really bad about myself.

How can I boost my self-esteem and not feel bad about myself?

2006-12-16 15:08:41 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am cluless i have an active child support for my older kid but now i have a new kid with another guyhes old but seems irresponsible what are the advantages of giving his 2 vehicles plate#
would it really help track him down than any information about him? he moved 100 miles away since i was pregnant

2006-12-16 15:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by simply me 1 in Family

2006-12-16 15:07:41 · 19 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Weddings

My husband and I got married on July 19,2006. A week later, his 22 year old daughter moves in because she has nowhere else to go. Mind you, this is a new home that I am not used to myself. We bought the house in March 2006. I felt like she was intruding but I was willing to let her come and stay b/c she'd just had a new baby. We gave her a deadline of January around the time that she gets her taxes to save some money and move out. Since the months that she's been there with us every obligation, every irresponsiblility such as old tickets, fines and suspended license, taking care of other people, loaning people money (her mom in particular) has got me up in a ball. She whines so much about everything being so hard since she has noone to help her with the baby since her baby daddy stepped out on her. I had no idea it would be like this. My husband constantly makes excuses for her saying that she doesn't know things and that I have to tell her. I want it to stop and for her to move out.

2006-12-16 15:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by jack0120032004 3 in Family

2006-12-16 15:06:00 · 14 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

i found out that my boy friend likes me not loves me

2006-12-16 15:05:59 · 6 answers · asked by Kasey 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance lost his mother and young sister to a car crash last Feb. His personality has changed completly. He refuses to talk about anything that reminds him of them. He is in complete denial. I am trying to be understanding but he is taking a lot of his frustrations out on me. I moved my enitre life and daughter across country quit my job and came to live with him while he tries to get custody of his other young sibling that survived the crash. How can I help him? My patience is wearing thin and I can't handle my great guy being moody, angry, and mean to me.

2006-12-16 15:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by stef 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Because I really really like her a lot. But every time I think about her I start feeling insecure about myself, and get tense and shaky. It's kind of weird actually. Is there any technique to just calming myself down?

2006-12-16 15:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this mentality that I would never ask someone to be my boyfriend. The reason is that I want to know and I need to know that the person (whoever it may be) would have chosen me anyway without my influence (by me asking). What do you think? Am I weird? If you are a guy, does it influence your decision if a girl asks you out who you wouldn't have asked out? I think so, but tell me if it is otherwise.

2006-12-16 15:04:45 · 5 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 15:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends and I are going out tomorrow and this girl is coming that I like. We did this last week (went to the mall) and it happened that we split into groups, me and 2 other guys, a group of 3 girls, and then she (the girl that I kind of like) went by herself. Later when we got back together I asked her, "Why did you fly off by yourself" and she answered "that no one followed me." So I am thinking that the senario tomorrow is going to be the same and if it is what should I do? Go with her or just go with my guy friends? If I go with her how should I act (other than being myself-of course) What things would girls look for in a guy that is currently is a friends but wants to be more than friends and at the same time not lose my friendship with her. (Extra Info: We're both 17, I drive, She Doesn't, Both Christians and met at Church, I know both of her Parents-which are nice to me but I have heard are kind of strict, I love to help people, she just got a new cell#.)
Thanks

2006-12-16 15:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were married for 20 years and have 2 teenage children. this was not the reason for the divorce. but i am more attracted to my own sex. my therapist says i should tell my children, but no one knows but my ex. how could this be of any benefit to the children?

2006-12-16 15:03:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend brought me a early christmas present. He told me that if I did not like my present he would take the it back. Well I really did not like it and he took offense to it. He has been bringing up that I do not have any taste in clothing and I dress average;and when we go out he is hot and I am not. He even threaten to break up with me because I did not like his gift. Now he claims that he is not going to buy me anything else. Is he shallow and what should I do?

2006-12-16 15:02:16 · 14 answers · asked by toocutemickey 1 in Singles & Dating

December 28th last year we won £48,186 on the lottery, the middle of January my 14 yr old took an overdose and nearly died cos of bullies, the following week my 16 yr old got kidnapped and beat up for 2 days,We then got results of 14 yr olds mri scan as she has suffered with back for 2 yrs she has spondulosis in spine. In Febuary we bought a caravan March and April were ok. May my step daughter was beat up by partner and came to live with us. June,July and August were ok September 15 yr old daughter(one who overdosed at 14) got perforated appendix and was V ill. Then found out my dad has cancer.October nephews baby died and 15 yr old broke her arm.Step daughter decided i wasn't babys grandma anymore even though i'd been there from birth and done everything i could for them. She'd moved out by now. November found out 17 yr old(the one who was 16) is pregnant. She split from the dad and step daughter is having another. They're both due in July.

2006-12-16 15:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by sundancer332003 4 in Family

Ok there is a long story behind my Christmas wish. My BF of 3 yrs asked me what i wanted for CHristmas, before thinking about it, i said a BABY.... I have always wanted kids, he has 3 for a marrege before me... So he told me when we got together that he did not want anymore kids, and i know and respect that. But when he asked me, i was not thinking when i answered him. Or i would have Never said that...

Was i in the wrong for saying letting that slip out!?

2006-12-16 15:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by sexy momma 3 in Singles & Dating

remember i have to tell Santa....he said i could get you a glass of warm milk, read you a bedtime story, tuck you in and kiss you good night...would you got to bed then?

2006-12-16 15:00:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO YOU REALLY NEED A BOYFRIEND TO MAKLE YOU HAPPY ?

2006-12-16 15:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a nasty guy in my bed and my husband could come home any minute now. how do i get him out?

2006-12-16 15:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

senior year

i look back on these years with regret now
as i never have before
all the people i met
i never really got to know
all the things i could do
i never did
and its too late now
this part of my life is over
gone forever
opportunities offered me here
will never come again
i wasted so much time here
doing nothing
or things i could do anytime
but the things i could have done
the friends i could have made
the memories i could have shared
are slipping from my grasp
i guess they have been for years
i just never really noticed
or never really cared
until now
but whats the point its almost over
i try to make up for lost time
but in the end its too late
ive missed out on so much
and its all my fault
i shouldve done more
always held back
by something
or someone
i look and i see everyone in their place now
talking, laughing with their friends
they've known each other forever
they're in their place
a place i so wish i had
a place that was offered me so many times
by so many people
yet i never took it
why i never took it
i will never know
because i want it more than anything now
but who am i to say that
after all these years
i don't deserve it
i had almost 15 years to take it
go there
with my arms wide open
but i never could
always held back by
pride
or guilt
or obligation
or shyness
or self hatred
now where am i?
miserable
on the sidelines
never really part of the circle
standing there
like a pathetic beggar
wishing i had a home
or i am alone
quietly hating myself for all the years
and the friendships i missed
that i can never have again
it went by so fast
i always thought i'd have another year
another month
another day
but soon i will no longer have that
if i had one wish
before i leave this place
my friends
i would want them to know how much i like them
and how much I hate myself
for not showing them
because i worry they don't know
and that will be their last memory of me
yet they probably never will know
because i am weak
but
maybe you still like me
and maybe there is a final chance
but i feel that every step i take
every minute that goes by that chance gets so much smaller
and it breaks my heart
that we will go on
and never be friends
and none of you will know what you meant to me
but it is what i have earned
my years of apathy
have brought me to this lonely place
and all i can say to you kids is
have fun
make friends
make memories
because
if you dont
high school
and everything that comes with it
will be gone
forever
and you will regret it
as i do now
if you do not
i fear
you will have a cold, sad, and lonely
senior year

2006-12-16 15:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

Theres this girl in my class i think she likes me. We have a lot in common. But i saw a picture of a guy and her hugging. there was a poorly drawn heart on it from paint. She does although have over 9 brothers , and sisters. So it could be her brother...

I'm not sure how to ask her if she has a boyfriend, or if thats her brother or something. I need to know it's killing me!

2006-12-16 15:00:00 · 3 answers · asked by fbimostwanted101 1 in Singles & Dating

so my bf left me a meassage and he said he did something and might go to jail but he wont say what im sitting here about to cry because he wont even say why hes leaving and he sent me a message on MYSPACE which makes it worst is that he couldnt call i really will miss kissing him and talking to him heres is what he said:


hey baby i just wanted 2 tell u that i love u and i dont kno when ill talk 2 u again cuz sum stuff happened and i might be headed 2 DJJ. ur still me gurl and ill *** back 4 u. luv u allwayz ur man BLAKE



so now im sitting here about to cry because i just got this like 30 mins ago and he wont even tell me whywhich makes it worst im so worried and scared what should i do? because he lives to far away for me to walk and i cant find a ride to see him if i tell my mom she'll be like no you cant date him ( she knows who he is but she doesnt know w are dating)

e when i asked him he saaid nothin
I did call him & left a message so dont say that

2006-12-16 14:58:45 · 28 answers · asked by lil_court_843 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was thinkin axe (deodorent) and something else, but i dunno what.

2006-12-16 14:58:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm thinking of changing my outfit to silk or leather or i can leave it velvet...what do you prefer?

2006-12-16 14:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pain etches through my body, a dark evil spreading through. I want to scream and cry, yell and weep,
but I can’t, I have to be strong for the rest of them, I lost my last grandpa not long ago and I am slowly
losing this one two, then only one grand parent will be left, my world collapses one support at a time.
Why is it so hard? This winding road our feet travel? My heart trembles with sorrow, my soul screams,
help me someone, save me from this hell, I just want my life back, how it all used to be. My mommy
cries my daddy is quiet, my sister plays as if nothing is wrong. Can’t they see the pain twisting around
me, suffocating me with feelings of hate and sorrow. I don’t know how long I can take this. This pain
that eats me piece by piece. I want to cry, scream and yell, how can I make this pain leave me be!? Is
sleep the only escape our will death be my savior? I have no clue what to do, my life is almost gone.
My grandpa was just announced to carry the disease called cancer. I weep inside, my soul screaming
with sorrow and pain. Maybe one day, somewhere far, I will have 2 grandpas 2 grandmas my mom
and dad, my happy sister, and our dog named baby I love so. Maybe in a world far away everything
will be perfect then. The urge for suicide creeps into me, Maybe it will steal me of my sorrow, but I
know death is not the answer, so I’ll sit her on god’s playing field and watch my family slip away into
the jaws of the monster of time...

2006-12-16 14:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by Midnight-Star 1 in Family

2006-12-16 14:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating