I met this guy, he really liked me, we hung out as friends. Mutual friends pressured us to go out, I said friends first for anyone I date. Something happened I don't know what, but now he ignores me, avoids even our mutual friends(who were good friends before I came along) for fear of talking to me(so I hear). I don't get it, if you like someone, wouldn't you pursue them instead of avoiding them because having them just as friends hurts more than having them at all?? Now since he's been "gone" (4 months) I miss him like crazy and think maybe I should pursue something, but he won't answer my calls/emails. Help!!
2006-12-16 15:09:27 · 8 answers · asked by curiousbluesweetie26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone. If he is ignoring you without reason and is not mature enough to tell you waht it is, he's not worth it. Stop sending him emails and calling him. You've got other stuff in your life to think about and do that don't have anything to do with him - remember that.
2006-12-16 15:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has indicated that she has have faith matters with you and that variations issues. have faith won't be able to be gained with an ordinary apology - it takes time. She has stated flat out that she needs time faraway from you. you're able to provide it to her. If she is rather going to return returned to you, she would be able to in case you provide her sufficient room to attain what she has in you. while human beings instruct you who they're and enable you to comprehend what they choose, have faith THEM. She needs you to comprehend why she does not have faith you, to not say sorry for arguing with one yet another. and you have stated why she won't have faith you - so placed that throughout a letter, deliver it and correctly known which you comprehend what the project is, and in case you're rather sorry then you definately could say sorry without making accusations. very own your habit. do not call her. do not attempt to touch her after that. in simple terms provide her it sluggish. i comprehend it sounds cliche, with the full in case you like some thing set it unfastened stuff, yet for this reason it extremely is a lot mandatory!
2016-12-30 13:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop calling.Maybe you 2 don't have much in common.Sometimes when people have problems they like to keep their self.Maybe he started having feelings for you ,but right now is not a good time for him.
2006-12-16 15:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 4 months. Obviously he changed his mind. Move on.
2006-12-16 15:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He's not interested. If he won't answer your calls/emails, that says it all. Just let it go and find someone who is interested in you.
2006-12-16 15:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move it on sister... what are you waiting on!
2006-12-16 15:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corner him and confront him about what the hell is his friggin poblem. and if you have to glare at him,stare at him emotionlessly and just make it so he notices you. then if talk's to you ask him wat his prob. is. or just walk away from him.
2006-12-16 15:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by satrawberrysandsakura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-12-16 15:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋