Because I really really like her a lot. But every time I think about her I start feeling insecure about myself, and get tense and shaky. It's kind of weird actually. Is there any technique to just calming myself down?
2006-12-16 15:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, it happens, trust me. I've been through it myself. I don't know if there is something you can take, per se...drinking would only grant you "liquid courage". All I say is, take time to get her know her better and the nervousness should go away. Whatever you do, don't try to overtly hide your anxiety...women can sense that.
2006-12-16 15:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been through the same exact thing, but I don't know if you want the "gimme ten points for best answer" answer, or the truth?
10 points - swallow all that crap your feeling, push yourself to confront her right then and there, and tell her how you feel.
truth - you don't know YOURSELF well enough to have the confidence to approach. If you can master this, and soon, you will have better skill at "fishing" for the right one for YOU.
2006-12-16 23:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by ezelljm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Booze. That and jack-off a lot more. Both combines helps calm the nerves. But one step at a time.
2006-12-16 23:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inhale, count to 10 and exhale slowly while counting to 10.
2006-12-16 23:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try deep breathing excerscises, try googling for instructions. If that does not work ask your doctor for a xanax prescription.
2006-12-16 23:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by count.voss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not that i no of, but i do no that only ten percent of nevousness shows, the 90% is unnoticable. so remeber that and just chill. if you don't act so nervous she'll probably come to you.
2006-12-16 23:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by alien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same this things with you , everytime i meet him my face will turn hot .and very shaky.
2006-12-16 23:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like her. Tell her how you feel and then you will feel a lot better.
2006-12-16 23:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take deep breaths and dont think abt being nervous. just be your self. trust me if you are confident, she will come to you
2006-12-16 23:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by cali_baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just take deep breaths or you can just get comfortable around her talk to her and just get to know her trust me it helps well i hope it all works out.
2006-12-16 23:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋