Some of my friends and I are going out tomorrow and this girl is coming that I like. We did this last week (went to the mall) and it happened that we split into groups, me and 2 other guys, a group of 3 girls, and then she (the girl that I kind of like) went by herself. Later when we got back together I asked her, "Why did you fly off by yourself" and she answered "that no one followed me." So I am thinking that the senario tomorrow is going to be the same and if it is what should I do? Go with her or just go with my guy friends? If I go with her how should I act (other than being myself-of course) What things would girls look for in a guy that is currently is a friends but wants to be more than friends and at the same time not lose my friendship with her. (Extra Info: We're both 17, I drive, She Doesn't, Both Christians and met at Church, I know both of her Parents-which are nice to me but I have heard are kind of strict, I love to help people, she just got a new cell#.)
Thanks
2006-12-16 15:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go with her. If she is your friend and you like her then why not? Most girls like a guy with a sense of humor. I know I love to laugh and I also like a gentleman. They are almost extinct so that might help. It's hard when you are both friends. If you did start a relationship as long as you are both mature and end things on a good note you can always still have a friendship.
2006-12-16 15:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by stef 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you already know the answer to your question because it is so obvisious. Ditch the mates and follow her. Even disregarding the fact that you like her if she keeps having to go of on her own because no one else follows be a true friend and spend time with her. Definetly be yourself. Perhaps buy her lunch or just be really sweet and as you walk past a florist (flower shop) buy her a single rose and give it to her or something else that is small but sweet. See what happends. If all else fails ask her for the new cell number and ring her and confess you like her. It is better to be honest and open about it then hide it because she might be doing the same thing and you may miss out of the opportunity to do something about it.
2006-12-16 15:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tamarra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is perfect. Go with her this time and just say, "Hey, I'll go with you. I don't want you to have to be by yourself."
Girls prefer company when they shop. We like to hear other people's opinions on what to by.
I know it sounds trite but it's true. Just be yourself and make comments on merchandise. We thrive on that.
Offer to buy her lunch or atleast something to drink.
If she likes something alot and it's really inexpensive, buy it for her and say, "What are friends for?"
At SOME point though, make up an excuse to leave to get back to your friends. You don't want to look like you're drooling all over her. That's a turn off.
If she is acting like she's really into you, ask her for her new cell phone number and tell her you would like to go out and do something together sometime.
Tell her you had fun today and that you should do it again.
2006-12-16 15:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to join your group. Do not ditch your friends for her, because it will be too obvious in my opinion. Just ask her if she wanted to join. If she says yes, then Hallelujah. If she says NO, then maybe she is not comfortable with hanging out with your friends, so you should get her new cell # and call her to talk and maybe get an idea about what she wants you to do ..
2006-12-16 15:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by dancingcorpse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her if she wants to join you guys? If she doesn't, ask your friends if they want to come along. When your around her, you should laugh at her jokes or smile a lot at her. Girls like that. At least...I do. Offer to pick her up. Talk to her. Good Luck. And offer to buy something. Lunch or whatever.
2006-12-16 15:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by skaterchickie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to your friends I am going to go with so and so since she is by herself and I wouldn't like to be alone shopping at this time of year. Just talk to her and maybe sit down and get icecream or a fruit drink or something so you two can have a more personable conversation.
2006-12-16 15:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You poor, helpless child. okay here is what you do, fallow her of corse, ask her what she likes stuff like that and DON"T get her bored. Tell her things about you, but save somethings of corse for the future. Ask her out to the movies and see something SHE wants to see, deff show her you're sensitive and let her feel comfortable.
2006-12-16 15:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by chit chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your friends. Be a man and don't get into the habit of chasing girls or following them like a puppy dog. They'll only have thorough contempt for you.
You should be the one to say to her, "I'm going with my friends to such and such a place - would you like go come along," If she says no, still go with your friends.
Women will test you in subtle ways like this. Don't listen to these people on here saying to go with her. Yuk!
2006-12-16 15:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definately go with her...talk to her about your feelings if you get the chance and find out where she stands on the subject. It's always a good thing to just be yourself...good luck.
2006-12-16 15:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want you to follow your heart on this. If you think there is a chemistry between you then go for it!
2006-12-16 15:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋