ok so im a 15 year old that has had most of his relationships fail after 3 weeks becuase i get scared that they like my to much. they say thell love me no matter what or something like that and i get scared and leave. is that normal. and sometimes. i even get bord! what dos that mean? is that normal? i did have one last for 8 months and i reallllyyy liked the girl. but the rest. nope. whats it mean, am i gay? i dont like guys. nor find them attractive so that cant be it. can somebody help me?
2006-12-16 15:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no thats not normal...u need to not get out ...dnt be scared!!
2006-12-16 15:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're smart. Don't date a girl one-on-one until your older (like 18 ). Why set yourself up for a relationship when you're only 15. Waiting 3 years will make a big difference . Just think 3 years ago you were 12 - do you think you've changed since then. Well think how much different you'll be when you're 18!
2006-12-16 15:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Maryrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not gay. You sound like you just aren't ready for a serious relationship and hey, that's a not only normal for your age, but pretty darn smart!
Hang out with friends, guys and girls, quit looking for a one on one relationship with a girl at your age. Be friends as much as you can with girls, and be honest with them.
When you get older, date a lot of girls and be honest with yourself about them. Don't settle for a girl that isn't someone you really want to spend the rest of your life with.
You got lots and lots of time to find the right gal, relax and enjoy!
2006-12-16 15:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by markawfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young and maybe scared to be told I love you or have a serious relationship. You may not be ready for commitment. Just enjoy being young and single. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something or saying something that you don't want to.
2006-12-16 15:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Just Some Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 15. You're not going to find the perfect girl at 15. Give it time, and quit being so scared. There's no need, you'll have plenty of time for dating when you get older, trust me.
2006-12-16 15:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by guitarsoloist07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not gay. Not even close. Girls can get too clingy sometimes and it is a big turn off for guys. So that makes you normal.
Bored probably means that they don't interest you. They must have lost all their mystery and told to much to fast. Not your fault.
2006-12-16 15:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dosent mran yr gay it jus means that u havent found the right one yet...which u shouldnt worry about now u are 15...u have a long time before u find the right one for u..k so wish ya luck laterz n happy holidays
2006-12-16 15:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a pretty normal teenager to me. Realize that you are placing too much concern on this issue. Stop worrying and start enjoying your youth!
2006-12-16 15:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not gay it is that you want more than just attention and also you are not able to communicate because of all the love. You want more, you might be scared because she is not expressing her self to you and that important.
2006-12-16 15:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by BBS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dosent mean you're gay.. it means your still young.. hang out with your friends. and dont get panicky about being commited.. you get scared and leave becoz you're afraid about letting them too close to u... grow up.
2006-12-16 15:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by sure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋